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  • SoDakGuy

    Posts: 1862

    May 01, 2007 2:04 PM GMT
    I feel really awkward to ask this, but I'm going to anyway.

    When I was really lean, all I wanted to do was be on top.

    But now ... since I've put on some great muscle gains, I'm wanting more and more to bottom.

    Seriously, this is not an invite, but I have talked about this w/ a tiny, select group of my friends.

    Does this even make sense at all? I'm just curious if I'm the only one that feels this way or not.

    (Honestly, I am embarrassed to ask this.)
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    May 01, 2007 2:34 PM GMT
    why do u think it's because of the muscle gain?

    im kinda the opposite with you, when i was more leaner, i wanted to bottom more and since ive gained more bulk it doesn't interest me as much and want to top more....not sure if it's because of the weight

    ??? i don't know why either....
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    May 02, 2007 8:23 PM GMT
    go for it, as long as your top suits up!
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    May 02, 2007 11:58 PM GMT
    Don't think it has anything to do with the physical change.

    It is a matter of comfort. Being the bottom you have to learn how to relax when making love. It takes time and the right dancer who is topping you. You are a versitile guy and that is ok. I realized that I was a bottom at heart, when I experienced the right lover. I do enjoy being the top too. However, if my lover was only a top I still would be a very very happy person!
  • SoDakGuy

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    May 08, 2007 9:15 PM GMT
    I am really versatile, but I guess I'm feeling more comfortable bottoming as I get older.
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    May 10, 2007 6:24 AM GMT
    rksportswear, definitely agree about the comfort statement

    looking back, the guy i was with was a absolute bottom and i can be versatile in roles so i guess it just happened that i was gaining weight at the same time i was in the relationship which i chose to be a top to suit the situation and was comfortable doing so. i still prefer to top though im no longer going out with him.
  • BlackJock79

    Posts: 437

    May 17, 2007 10:49 PM GMT
    I used to want to be a bottom SO bad! But it hurts and I have never been able to get used to it enough to like it everytime. I will bottom sometimes and I have enjoyed it a couple of times when I have been able to relax my ass enough but I'm happy being a top. I want to learn how to bottom though, the few guys I've let top me said I have a great ass...