How about a story with a happy friggin ending for once? :-)

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    Aug 27, 2009 4:18 AM GMT
    I have been on REALJOCK for a while now and i've seen a trend in discussion topics...specifically relationship topics. A good majority of these subjects and stories conclude badly. Negative even.

    So lets change the pace. Who has a story about a relationship ending on a positive note? I will start:


    I went on a few dates with this guy. Everything was awesome, he was great company, had good sense of humor, was an all around great guy. We spent a fairly good chunk of time together before he had to leave town to go to D.C. on a short planned vacation.
    I hadn't heard from him in a few days but wasn't questioning anything because I knew he was on vacation. We finally talk once he gets back into town. He tells me that he wanted to be honest and tell me that he doesn't feel like he is over his ex. He said that he really likes me but doesn't think it would be fair for him and I to enter into a relationship when there is still unfinished business with the ex.
    I simply told him that I absolutely respect so greatly for being up front and honest about his situation. I said that there are many guys that i've met who aren't honest with their current situation. We decided that we really are good friends and that its just not right at the current moment. We are totally comfortable hanging out and just kickin' it. I felt GREAT after having that conversation because i'm not left questioning. And I was left with a great friend in the end.

    NOW YOUR TURN........
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    Aug 27, 2009 4:28 AM GMT
    I havent had a story to tell yet, but at least the guy is honest enough with you instead of leading you.

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    Aug 28, 2009 1:16 AM GMT
    The first man i ever fell in love with - and loved me back - truly and really, was the man i first came out to. We were chatting back and forth on a website and kept commenting on one another's photos - very flirty and all. I was horribly embarrassed, i'd never flirted with a man before! Well on August 3rd, 2007 i sent him a super long heartful email coming out to him. And when we finally met (he lived in the UK) it was a couple years down the road. In that time and even now he's been mah guardian hunk-angel, always there when i need him and always with wonderful advice when i need it.

    He helped me come out to myself and to others
    Taught me that it's a wonderful thing to be gay - and not to fear but embrace it
    Taught me that real love IS out there if only looked (and hey, i did and i do think i've found it! but that's another story >>)
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    etc etc icon_smile.gif

    We started off flirty half-lovers and now we're very good friends. We don't keep in touch as much as either of us would like i think, but it's wonderful knowing he's there. I'll love im forever and will be eternally grateful he ever entered my life icon_smile.gif
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    Aug 28, 2009 1:38 AM GMT



    Hey you guys....we're happy, lol.
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    Aug 28, 2009 1:59 AM GMT
    Great thread Derrick8. Yes, good to hear some positive stufficon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 28, 2009 2:46 AM GMT
    jprichva saidMy first boyfriend was great...handsome, smart, funny, only he had this little problem with psychotic episodes.

    One day, while hallucinating, he took a machete and slaughtered his entire family. So I told him maybe we weren't in a good place to be in a relationship right now. He thanked me for my honesty, and it ended on a real up note.

    And, he's getting all his medications in prison so the schizophrenia barely troubles him anymore.

    Double upper!


    How quaint. icon_eek.gif
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    Aug 28, 2009 8:50 AM GMT
    antelope saidGreat thread Derrick8. Yes, good to hear some positive stufficon_biggrin.gif


    well thank you! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 28, 2009 8:53 AM GMT
    jprichva saidMy first boyfriend was great...handsome, smart, funny, only he had this little problem with psychotic episodes.

    One day, while hallucinating, he took a machete and slaughtered his entire family. So I told him maybe we weren't in a good place to be in a relationship right now. He thanked me for my honesty, and it ended on a real up note.

    And, he's getting all his medications in prison so the schizophrenia barely troubles him anymore.

    Double upper!



    Number 1: That was funny as hell
    Number 2: I hope that is a joke and if not i'm sorry for laughing so hard
    Number 3: If it is a joke.....i'm a little scared of you now for thinking up all that. LOL
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    Aug 28, 2009 8:54 AM GMT
    Someone posted the shortest fairy tale ever at work that I thought had a very happy ending.

    It went something like this:

    Once upon a time a man asked his long time love to marry him. She said, " No". He went on his merry way drinking scotch, watching t.v., leaving the toilet seat up and farting whenever he wanted. The end.