At what age should a male person accept that he is all grown up and stop judging people by their clothes?

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    Aug 30, 2009 3:07 PM GMT
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    Aug 30, 2009 3:36 PM GMT
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    Aug 30, 2009 3:38 PM GMT
    Real masc men don´t ever do that.
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    Aug 30, 2009 5:30 PM GMT
    I find myself, from time to time, wondering what possessed someone to wear a certain item of clothing (ex. Skinny jeans on men-UGH!), but it never comes across as a negative hit on the person since I don't know. I've been like this since I left junior high school so I would say the age is 15.
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    Aug 30, 2009 5:39 PM GMT
    Oh comon ...... icon_confused.gif

    All of us judge other men
    ** It's either by the clothes they wear
    ** The buffness of their bodies
    ** The amt of money they make
    ** How handsome they are

    To say that we don't do it is just a little disingenuous isn't it?
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    Aug 30, 2009 5:54 PM GMT
    never...
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    Aug 30, 2009 6:12 PM GMT
    People can not stop judging, we judge due to our own bias.

    But only people who say to themselves, "I have a Life to live and better things to do than waste my time with someone else's business" are the only ones who just push on through that kind of minor b.s. Really, ask yourself, why should I have issues with whatever the other person wears?

    Why not just go up to the guy and say, "I have to say that by MY standards, those clothes don't look good on you."
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    Aug 30, 2009 7:04 PM GMT
    withHonor saidPeople can not stop judging, we judge due to our own bias.

    But only people who say to themselves, "I have a Life to live and better things to do than waste my time with someone else's business" are the only ones who just push on through that kind of minor b.s. Really, ask yourself, why should I have issues with whatever the other person wears?

    Why not just go up to the guy and say, "I have to say that by MY standards, those clothes don't look good on you."



    Cause its not fun to be punched in the face. icon_lol.gif

    Yes, we all judge, but the smarter ones dont bring it up. because that judgment is all about us, not the person we are judging.
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    Aug 30, 2009 7:11 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidReal masc men don´t ever do that.


    WTF? WHAT DOES THAT MEAN... THE IMPLICATIONS ARE MAKING MY HEAD SPIN! icon_question.gif
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    Aug 30, 2009 7:55 PM GMT
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    withHonor saidPeople can not stop judging, we judge due to our own bias.

    But only people who say to themselves, "I have a Life to live and better things to do than waste my time with someone else's business" are the only ones who just push on through that kind of minor b.s. Really, ask yourself, why should I have issues with whatever the other person wears?

    Why not just go up to the guy and say, "I have to say that by MY standards, those clothes don't look good on you."



    Cause its not fun to be punched in the face. icon_lol.gif

    Yes, we all judge, but the smarter ones dont bring it up. because that judgment is all about us, not the person we are judging.


    comes back, re-reads his post, and realizes how redundant it was....* icon_redface.gif
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    jrunner25 said
    Lostboy saidReal masc men don´t ever do that.


    WTF? WHAT DOES THAT MEAN... THE IMPLICATIONS ARE MAKING MY HEAD SPIN! icon_question.gif


    It´s called mocking, hun.
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    Aug 30, 2009 8:33 PM GMT
    Lostboy said
    jrunner25 said
    Lostboy saidReal masc men don´t ever do that.


    WTF? WHAT DOES THAT MEAN... THE IMPLICATIONS ARE MAKING MY HEAD SPIN! icon_question.gif


    It´s called mocking, hun.


    Real masc men don't ever mock.
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    Aug 30, 2009 8:41 PM GMT
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    Aug 30, 2009 8:43 PM GMT
    I never judge another man by the clothes he wears. I confine my assessment strictly to the size of his package.
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    Aug 30, 2009 8:44 PM GMT

    The clothes make the man and say a lot. How they are chosen and put together, not necessarily the style or brand. There are many styles for a reason. It's not attractive at all for a man to choose a style based solely on what everyone else is doing. Tailor your style to your individual personality.
    Like them, very handsome, put together, kinda sophisticated style. Another couple their age might prefer leather and chains; as long as it's them, I'm cool with that.
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    Aug 30, 2009 9:18 PM GMT
    I prefer not to judge as to how the clothes look on the man, rather how good his clothes look on my bedroom floor.
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    Aug 30, 2009 9:21 PM GMT
    I cant help but laugh at some people's clothing choices when i hit up Walmart late at night. Feast your eyes on some of these beauties:

    http://peopleofwalmart.com/
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    Aug 30, 2009 9:29 PM GMT
    I don't judge. I just have opinions. icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 30, 2009 9:32 PM GMT
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    Aug 30, 2009 9:33 PM GMT
    spacinjasin saidI cant help but laugh at some people's clothing choices when i hit up Walmart late at night. Feast your eyes on some of these beauties:

    http://peopleofwalmart.com/


    and i laugh at those who shop at Walmart icon_twisted.gif

    jk icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 30, 2009 9:34 PM GMT
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    Aug 30, 2009 9:39 PM GMT
    Judging is such a harsh word. But If I noticed clothes are foul I won't say anything but it's a reflection about who the guy is and what he values. Now you don't have to spend alot of money on clothes but cheap clothes never last long. Try buying something from old navy or hot topic it won't make it to the end of the year. Then you wear it out. It looks like it's faded and used. You can't expect a guy to be attracted to someone that looks like he works offshore? Well unless the guy is hot it doesn't matter what he wears. Still it yet it's good to look cute when going out.icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 30, 2009 9:41 PM GMT
    spacinjasin saidI cant help but laugh at some people's clothing choices when i hit up Walmart late at night. Feast your eyes on some of these beauties:

    http://peopleofwalmart.com/



    ohhh myyy god.

    why have i never seen this before? i can't..stop...looking...
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    Aug 30, 2009 9:46 PM GMT
    When did GM decide to stop making " in-style" cars? Cars that people want to buy? Its was a rather catastrophic anti -vanity decision.

    Style runs a lot deeper than superficial vanity or luxury. It is a non verbal form of communication. Its always interesting to visit Europe and see stylish people all all ages. A better question is why to Americans feel the need to
    " turn- off " at some point.
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    Aug 30, 2009 11:16 PM GMT
    I shall judge as I wish and if I judge your clothes distasteful then it is my prerogative to rip them from your body should I see fit to do so or I shall shun you mercilessly until such time as I find you visually pleasing.