Virgin to Women

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    Dec 07, 2007 3:43 PM GMT
    Okay so I was replying to another thread and it came across my mind that I've never had sexual relations with a women. ever. never dated, never kissed, nothing. Do I want to? Im not so sure I do. Curious... maybe but not enough to go for it. So my question is this. How many of you guys are like me that have well at least never had sex with a woman? And how many are like me that have done ABSOLUTELY nothing?

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    Dec 07, 2007 3:46 PM GMT
    or maybe you could consider asking, what does it take for you to make out with woman.
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    Dec 07, 2007 4:23 PM GMT
    Its just a curiousity thing as how many gay guys have done things with a woman. Cause just by a rough survey most gay guys tell me they have done things with a chick and the find it odd that I havent. Which is why im asking. Im sure im not the only one nor do I want to jump on the bandwagon but its just pondering though.
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    Dec 07, 2007 4:31 PM GMT
    Count me in on the virgin on that scale. Used to work in an OB/GYN department, and would talk about female anatomy all day, but never seen one up close and personal.
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    Dec 07, 2007 4:32 PM GMT
    Have done nothing, nada, zip, zilch. And same goes for desire. Same with my husband. Granted, he's a doctor so he's come in physical contact with a helluva lot more minge than probably lots of straight guys. But uh, yeah, not in a good way!icon_lol.gif

    Although, I have to say, if someone were to put a gun to my head and say do it, and I had a choice, it would be this chick from that terrible reality show "Shot at Love" on MTV. Shouldn't be too surprising WHY:

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    Dec 07, 2007 5:02 PM GMT
    icon_lol.gif LOL! I told my lesbian friend that if I ever had a girlfriend like ever it would have to be Dani! I want bobbie to win only cause he reminds me of straight guy I liked and i always wanted the best for him. but yeah... Id take dani too! lol
  • kasch33

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    Dec 07, 2007 5:11 PM GMT
    Never, ever!! Haven't even ever tried anything with a woman (which is fine by me icon_biggrin.gif)
  • jc_online

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    Dec 07, 2007 5:14 PM GMT
    Count me in as a virgin with girls- dated a girl in high school, but never even french kissed her. She was a born-again Christian and had therefore decided to save herself for marriage, and I was a big homo and didn't want to get intimate with her - worked out perfectly!

    Also, I was having carnal relations at the time with her cousin, Brian, but didn't identify as gay until about 3 years later in college.
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    Dec 07, 2007 5:14 PM GMT
    I've kissed a girl before back when I was in denial of my true sexuality.

    It was horrible.
  • SoDakGuy

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    Dec 07, 2007 5:16 PM GMT
    I've only made out and groped women during the make out session, but that's it.

    I've never had sex w/ a female.

    Surprising to most since I am from South Dakota and most gay guys I know from there have.
  • asupas

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    Dec 07, 2007 6:16 PM GMT
    I'm scared of women.. I have this horrible image of what they look like naked with teeth and claws and sharp pointing things and awkward lumps in places that I'm not used to. /shiver.

    As long as they keep their clothes on I'm cool with 'em though.
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    Dec 07, 2007 6:23 PM GMT
    I'm puzzled by gay men who are actually repulsed by a woman's sexual parts.

    I understand not being interested--which is more or less how I feel---but actually repulsed? Seriously? How come?
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    Dec 07, 2007 6:24 PM GMT
    Haha - I have to take it back. I and a friend, also gay, were walking down the street one night and a huge group of women were coming towards us. One of them was wearing a bridal veil and so it was pretty clear it was a bachelorette party. As we got close, one of them called out, "Excuse me - you two look safe. Would you mind kissing our friend. She has to kiss two random guys."

    Apparently they had a whole list of things for her to do.
    It was a pretty chaste thing - no tongue ::shudder:: - but afterwards, we were both like, Wait, safe?! I think that was a backhanded compliment.
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    Dec 07, 2007 6:26 PM GMT
    asupas, you mean like this:

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  • TriAthlnNOLA

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    Dec 07, 2007 6:33 PM GMT
    I've made out with a girl before but that's as far as it's gone! I've always knew I was gay so I wasn't going to put myself thru having sex with a girl just for the sake of it. Though I still do have an occasional make out session with my girl Suzi when we're out and about on the dance floor bouncing the night away... You know sometimes U just need someone to make out with...
  • MisterT

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    Dec 07, 2007 6:53 PM GMT
    Never have, don't know if I ever will.
  • SoDakGuy

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    Dec 07, 2007 8:15 PM GMT
    I'm not repulsed at all. I know what I like, so why fool around w/ a person I'm physically not attracted to?
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    Dec 07, 2007 8:57 PM GMT
    Other than spin the bottle in high school, I have done nothing sexual with a girl.
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    Dec 07, 2007 9:03 PM GMT
    I had been a complete virgin to women until the last few years when I fooled around some with a girl I found attractive and enjoyed myself. It didn't go too far because she started developing feelings and I did not want to lead her on into thinking I wanted anything more than sex. I will say she got me very curious about doing more with girls and I imagine I will have "straight" sex before I'm gone from this world.
  • Alan95823

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    Dec 07, 2007 9:21 PM GMT
    The only girl I ever french-kissed was in high school, and when I told her (after graduation) that I was gay, so it wouldn't work out, she busted up howling laughing...

    Because she was a lesbian. Maybe that explains why she bit my tongue.
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    Dec 07, 2007 9:27 PM GMT
    Virgin. A woman might as well be a piece of furniture to me. I see them and dont walk into them, but that is all.
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    Dec 07, 2007 9:33 PM GMT
    Kissed/"Made-Out" with PLENTY of women, but i've never "Done The Deed"... icon_wink.gif

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    Dec 07, 2007 11:57 PM GMT
    I was in Amsterdam when I was 20 for Gay Games V, and it came out to a group that I had never been with a woman - they labeled me "pure-bred" - not so sure how pure I was after seeing what I saw in Amsterdam though...

    but yeah, most I've ever done was make-out with one, maybe two girls in college. I knew what I liked pretty early on.
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    Dec 08, 2007 5:39 AM GMT
    Caslon--

    You "see them and don't walk into them"?
    That sounds pretty dehumanizing to me...maybe some repulsion there?

    I haven't gotten any closer to understanding this. I can look at artwork that I'd never hang on my wall; I can tour houses whose architecture I'd prefer not to live around; I can listen to music I'd never purchase or perform.

    I like women. A lot. I just am not really interested in sleeping with them. But seeing one naked wouldn't send me screaming from the room.
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    Dec 08, 2007 3:12 PM GMT
    well shit then I dont feel so bad. lol. IM not alone at all. I've been to nude bars with guys in high school. Had a lap dance and shes gotten me hard but I think its just cause anyones rubs there and im sprung. Then she wanted it and I was like uh... run! yeah.. other then that thats about it. And the stench! ew... I dont like sushi much less the other blend.