Why do YOU bareback?

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    Sep 01, 2009 2:56 AM GMT
    I know I'm going to get A LOT of grief for this, but I've always wondered why people bareback? (I've never had sex and plan on being safe.)
    On realjock there are several people that say they sometimes/never practice safe sex and was wondering why.
  • Bunjamon

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    Sep 01, 2009 3:24 AM GMT
    I don't bareback, and I will never bareback until I'm in a committed relationship where I've been with my partner long enough and trust him enough to make that decision. There are stories even on this site of men getting HIV/AIDS from their long-time partners and not even knowing it, and that scares me.

    Barebacking is irresponsible and risky behavior, and it's not worth it.
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    Sep 01, 2009 3:27 AM GMT
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  • MikemikeMike

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    Sep 01, 2009 3:29 AM GMT
    I would NEVER top a guy b/f or any other without one!! So many guys say they only do in a commited realtionship, but then when I ask where is this committed person 9 outta 10 times they cheated on them with someone else. No grief from me here.
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    Sep 01, 2009 3:32 AM GMT
    To each their own I guess. I know I don't feel sorry for those who don't use protection when their world gets turned upside down after getting tested and they show up positive.

    I think there was a post awhile ago that showed a video with a rather realistic and disturbing video involving barebacking and it had a song to go with it. It spoke volumes.

    No one is ever gonna love me like I love me so when it comes to sex safety is a first and a most. It's a matter of self respect.
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    Sep 01, 2009 4:14 AM GMT
    Bunjamon said There are stories even on this site of men getting HIV/AIDS from their long-time partners and not even knowing it, and that scares me.


    I know, it scares me too.

    It just that when I see these things on profiles etc. I get this horrible feeling in the pit of my stomach because everything seems ?real? Not sure how else to state it just yet. But ultimately I just end up wondering why they do it.
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    Sep 01, 2009 4:18 AM GMT
    I will never bareback with someone unless the following happens:

    We go to get tested together and we go back together to get the results and we see each others results in the office where we got tested.
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    Sep 01, 2009 6:09 AM GMT
    Not to be a prick, but this thread is actually titled "Why do YOU bareback?".

    It isn't that I do/don't agree with the posts here, but I am tired of reading posts that that don't stick to the topic heading.

    Could we please stay on point with these threads. icon_confused.gif
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    Sep 01, 2009 6:20 AM GMT
    ErikTaurean saidI will never bareback with someone unless the following happens:

    We go to get tested together and we go back together to get the results and we see each others results in the office where we got tested.


    Same goes for me!
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    Sep 01, 2009 6:24 AM GMT
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    Sep 01, 2009 6:27 AM GMT
    Obviously because its a taboo , it feels better, and its more raw...natural.


    I stick to oral sex because condoms burn my skin.
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    Sep 01, 2009 6:32 AM GMT
    When I was in my mid-teens I had unprotected sex with one of my friends in a drunken haze. And although alcohol does not absolve my actions years ago, things of that nature often distort people's judgment.

    As if you all weren't aware of this before, I'm just saying, there will likely be no one to respond who engages in bareback sex with people they don't trust and/or are in a completely sober and discretionary state.... homosexuals generally know that unprotected sex is very risky.
  • Anto

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    Sep 01, 2009 7:04 AM GMT
    I would like to bareback but I've never had a partner to have sex with like that. Plus there are other types of problems that can happen from unprotected anal sex. But it seems like doing it that way would be the most sensitive and intimate way.

    I think people are WAY to sensitive about barebacking and HIV transmission though. Barebacking does not give someone HIV. People have to actually have HIV to transmit it, but people act as if barebacking will automatically give someone HIV. It's silly and ironic considering all of the other kinds of sex acts people will do that are just as dangerous in regard to disease transmission but it is done without protection, like oral or rimming.

    Also, people act as if it's wrong to call AIDS the gay disease but people within the gay community act as if you are destined to get AIDS if you have unprotected sex like barebacking.
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    Sep 01, 2009 7:07 AM GMT
    I had unprotected sex with my ex for many years, I trusted him, I still trust him, I knew he wasn't going to cheat on me and he never did.

    Now of course, people will judge me knowing that I did that.. so.. have at it icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 01, 2009 7:16 AM GMT
    To answer your question, people do it because it feels really good. Still, I don't recommend it.
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    Sep 01, 2009 7:56 AM GMT
    this that make you go... ughhhhh!
  • jrs1

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    Sep 01, 2009 8:28 AM GMT
    Bunjamon saidI don't bareback, and I will never bareback until I'm in a committed relationship where I've been with my partner long enough and trust him enough to make that decision. There are stories even on this site of men getting HIV/AIDS from their long-time partners and not even knowing it, and that scares me.

    Barebacking is irresponsible and risky behavior, and it's not worth it.


    I agree completely, up. until. that. last. line. that's a judgment call that I am not qualified to make. people will do what they will ... I have my own opinion of those who build something wonderful with someone and cheat - what's more, without protection - and omit this information from their mates. I just shall not say it here.
  • latenighter

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    Sep 01, 2009 8:35 AM GMT
    here are my thoughts, could these be some of the reasons for barebacking?
    1. Sensation is much better
    2. Under the influence of drugs, some men may be easier to be convinced to do things they don't normally do.
    3. Some men can't stay hard in the condoms.
    4. Some men like to take the load in their ass, just like some men like to swallow.
    5. Some men can't cum in the condoms.
  • zakariahzol

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    Sep 01, 2009 10:06 AM GMT
    I stop bareback some 10 years ago. Why I bareback then? Because I lose my erection if I put the condom on. Bareback feel good. It feel warm, natural and the sensation so "mind fucking". Wearing a condom feel like plastic and rubbery. However those was the time when I was a top guy. Now I am a bottom. So feeling good and maintaining an erection is the other guy problem. I only there to make sure he put the condom on for our protection.
    Frankly I have no idea how a condomless bottom fuck feel like.
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    Sep 01, 2009 10:19 AM GMT
    latenighter saidhere are my thoughts, could these be some of the reasons for barebacking?
    1. Sensation is much better
    2. Under the influence of drugs, some men may be easier to be convinced to do things they don't normally do.
    3. Some men can't stay hard in the condoms.
    4. Some men like to take the load in their ass, just like some men like to swallow.
    5. Some men can't cum in the condoms.


    Okay, Im up for an ass chewing but here goes.

    I have done bareback in what I thought was a long term committed relationship. I am a total top and I agree that the sensation is much better, sometimes I would lose my hardon in a condom, I cant seem to cum in a condom and my partner liked to feel me swell up and paint the inside of him with a huge load, as did my ex wife.

    Id be lieing if I said I have never done it since then. I practice safe sex about 90+ percent of the time but I am far from perfect. I get a lot of ass from bi married guys. I get tested about every three months and have never contracted anything. I am not bragging I am just stating the truth.

    Of course the advice I would give others would contradict my actions. I know a guy on A4A pretty well and he got HIV from barebacking and he only had barebacked TWO times.

    I bet more of the guys on here have done it and wont admit the times they have because they dont want to be flamed. I on the other hand dont really care. Its none of my business what other people think of me. And only my mother and grandmother get to yell at me lol.

    Take care and carry on.
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    Sep 01, 2009 10:20 AM GMT
    Bunjamon saidI don't bareback, and I will never bareback until I'm in a committed relationship where I've been with my partner long enough and trust him enough to make that decision. There are stories even on this site of men getting HIV/AIDS from their long-time partners and not even knowing it, and that scares me.

    Barebacking is irresponsible and risky behavior, and it's not worth it.


    Isnt that sad man? I have a great friend who got HIV from a past partner. They both went for the screening at the same time. The ex came out and said he was negative as my friend was also, really he was positive. From there on they stopped using condoms. He got very sick and then the doctor told him what it was. He was only supposed to live 2-3 months. That was YEARS ago. He's now in better health and shape than I am negative. Amazing.

    Long story short, you really have to be careful. I dont bareback and I hate wearing condoms. The key to me is that its better to get laid and wear one than not at all!!! Durex maximum love and trojan magnum thin are the best ones I have found lol. Give them a whirl!
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    Sep 01, 2009 10:21 AM GMT
    ozmuscle2 said...you are definitely not a prick - maybe a little pendantic if you were referring to my response - my response was right on target - why do you bareback? i don't! - I answered the question - and gave the reason why icon_biggrin.gif


    HAHAHA exactly, same thing here. I DONT and gave the reason.
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    Sep 01, 2009 10:53 AM GMT
    I think the question should be rephrased as "Why do you NOT bareback?", with the obvious answer being STDs.

    I'm against barebacking in this day and age, but let's not forget that barebacking is the natural form of sex. Condoms are a short term fix for a temporary problem.
  • Latenight30

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    Sep 01, 2009 11:50 AM GMT
    I think you are a BB or not.
    I am I enjoy it. My first guy I was with was BB and in my relationships I BB.
    I think it's like Coke or Pepsi. You like one not the other. Few people ever really switch. Thats what I've found.
  • cowboyathlete

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    Sep 01, 2009 11:57 AM GMT
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