latenighter saidhere are my thoughts, could these be some of the reasons for barebacking?
1. Sensation is much better
2. Under the influence of drugs, some men may be easier to be convinced to do things they don't normally do.
3. Some men can't stay hard in the condoms.
4. Some men like to take the load in their ass, just like some men like to swallow.
5. Some men can't cum in the condoms.
Okay, Im up for an ass chewing but here goes.
I have done bareback in what I thought was a long term committed relationship. I am a total top and I agree that the sensation is much better, sometimes I would lose my hardon in a condom, I cant seem to cum in a condom and my partner liked to feel me swell up and paint the inside of him with a huge load, as did my ex wife.
Id be lieing if I said I have never done it since then. I practice safe sex about 90+ percent of the time but I am far from perfect. I get a lot of ass from bi married guys. I get tested about every three months and have never contracted anything. I am not bragging I am just stating the truth.
Of course the advice I would give others would contradict my actions. I know a guy on A4A pretty well and he got HIV from barebacking and he only had barebacked TWO times.
I bet more of the guys on here have done it and wont admit the times they have because they dont want to be flamed. I on the other hand dont really care. Its none of my business what other people think of me. And only my mother and grandmother get to yell at me lol.
Take care and carry on.