I'm always perlplexed by gay men who are conflused as to "Why do gay men place such emphasis on looks and belittle those who aren’t up to par?"
This has nothing to do with being gay and everything to do with being male.
All men, straight and gay put a lot of emphasis on looks. The fact of the matter is that men are much more visual than women. If you were to hang out with a bunch of straight men at a bar, guess what they'd be talking about. They'd be scanning the room judging all the pretty women, the ugly women, woman with big breast, small breasts, etc. Women in turn, do their best to put make up on, fix their hair, and dress sexy to appeal to a man's visual
And as for bald, bald is hot, on gay and straight men.