Are there any WHITE GUYS out there that find BLACK GUYS attractive???

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    Dec 08, 2007 12:19 PM GMT
    I'm from South africa and I am just under the impression that white guys won't even want to get to know a black guy, no matter how nice he might be. I'm not making it out to be a racism matter, but i'm just wondering if there are any white guys out there who ever see a black guy and say: 'Gee, he's hot!' or actually consider flirting with him? Are there any guys on here who would even date a black guy? I'm just wondering because I find white guys attractive and yet I feel I wouldn't be given the time of day!

    What do you think?
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    Dec 08, 2007 12:38 PM GMT
    Yes, I've gone out with black guys. Color isn't important. They were hot. More important, I really liked them personally.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Dec 08, 2007 1:50 PM GMT
    I agree... it seems like this subject comes up occasionally on here and I'm sort of perplexed.
    There are many black guys that are hot and it doesn't matter to me one way or another, its the behavior and attitude that would do it for me.
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    Dec 08, 2007 1:52 PM GMT
    I find black guys very attractive. I was partnered to one for 12 years.
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    Dec 08, 2007 1:54 PM GMT
    To be honest, it's the guys from south east asia I feel sorry for. I've lost track of the number of times I've read on a guy's profile: "Sorry no Asians, just not my thing". To dismiss a whole group of people on a prejudice is shameful.
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    Dec 08, 2007 3:15 PM GMT
    being from the Caribbean, I find guys who happen to be black/dark sexy, attractive, and the list goes on...

    people tend to congregate with what is familiar to them and develop attraction for similarity...just how human nature works I guess...

    every one has their likes and dislikes...for me (I'm sure I'll catch hell for this), I go wild over hairy chests and am not physically attracted to blondes...go figure, weird, huh?

    bring on black guys, they're welcome here!
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Dec 08, 2007 3:43 PM GMT
    My partner is...........well maybe not black, but almost, so yeah I think there are some very attractive black guys and I am sure you are too tennislover.

    Mike
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    Dec 08, 2007 3:53 PM GMT
    For me most of the time etnic origin doesn't matter, i feel atracted to someone or not, but i also have no preference for haircolor or looks, someone should appeal to me in one way or the other. Have to be honest: don't feel much atraction to fat ones or guy's with a moustache/goatee in general
  • Hunter9

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    Dec 08, 2007 4:01 PM GMT
    i find SOME black guys hot, just like i find SOME white guys hot... if you're hot, you're hot, simple as that
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    Dec 08, 2007 4:29 PM GMT
    This is not the first time I've read about this topic. I agree with Hunter9. Beauty does not discriminate against ethnic background. There are attractive people all over the world of every ethnicity you can think of.
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    Dec 08, 2007 4:44 PM GMT
    Actually, with the exception of a few select white guys, I tend to go for black, mediterranean or arab men. Don't ask me why, I just find them more attractive.

    My friends and parents call it my "ethnic fetish", but I just find darker skin irresistible. Probably comes as a reaction to my red hair, super-white skin and never-ending freckles.
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    Dec 08, 2007 5:26 PM GMT
    I have found black guys to be hot thats for sure though I have never really dated one.

    as for the whole asian thing red, its not a prejudice. I think asians happen to be great people. I happen to be good friends with a few. I just dont find asian men to be attractive to me. Its not a prejudice thing its an attraction thing
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    Dec 08, 2007 5:27 PM GMT
    growingmuscnycActually, with the exception of a few select white guys, I tend to go for black, mediterranean or arab men. Don't ask me why, I just find them more attractive.


    In the words of Suzanne Sugarbaker,"Amen and hallelujah to that!"

    My gym (Bally)is a little out of the way for me but the high concentration of latin/hispanic men make it worth the trip. Their ability to sculpt beautiful physiques with what appears to be little effort drives me crazy!icon_biggrin.gif
  • leaozinho

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    Dec 08, 2007 6:34 PM GMT
    Yes, I find Black guys attractive.
    :-)
    I love a hot black man.

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    Dec 08, 2007 6:41 PM GMT
    I'm wondering if the whole discrimination against gay black men is a more prevalent in the younger generations. I have black gay friends, and each one has brought up this problem to me before. Or maybe it has to do with my location.icon_neutral.gif

    Everyone thinks asians are unattractive? That would explain my love life! lol
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    Dec 08, 2007 6:42 PM GMT
    To me, black guys are like all other men: Some I find attractive, others I do not. There are a lot of HOT black men on this site.
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    Dec 08, 2007 7:03 PM GMT
    I'm with twomack.

    It all depends on the guy, and there are certainly a lot of good looking ones around.

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    Dec 08, 2007 7:03 PM GMT
    If you want to see if I am attracted to men with a dark complexion you need not go any further than my posted hotlist. Also, my b/f just before I met my husband is of mixed race, his father is black, his mother white. He considered himself black. There was this very black guy who was coming to the beach I go to this past summer. He was a very nice guy too. He is from a Central African country, I can not remember which, so he is ebony black. He was the most beautiful guy on the beach this summer. Hot, hot, hot. Unfortunately, he is straight. What a waste!!icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 08, 2007 8:45 PM GMT
    "Woe is me for another white man doesn't want me...because I'm black."

    I mean, this idea is offensive not only to other people but most importantly, to yourself. There are thousands of reasons why someone may not want you (or want you), many having nothing to do with you whatsoever. More importantly, might it not be a bit racist of you to have this urge while implicitly negating lots of non-white gay men?

    God, I'm tired of this topic...boys get over yourselves and get some fucking sunshine!
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    Dec 08, 2007 9:17 PM GMT
    well, its just hard for someone like me to find a guy who does take me seriously ... I mean I am only 23yrs old, but 5ft tall and not white ... people dont even consider me as anything ... get over look more then most guy. I get called midget and shit like that ... i know I am not the abercrombie looking guy, but I think I am attractive and that I have something to offer to someone who is taller & whatever ethnicity they maybe ... just hurts when ppl get turned down, just becuz of what they might look like, when they could be the future whoever in your life ...

    love ppl better today then you did yesterday .. love ppl better tomorrow then you did today ...

    open your hearts & mind, you may never know what will happen ...

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    Dec 08, 2007 9:41 PM GMT
    All Asians are unattractive eh? Sucks to be me then :-p

    In all honesty, I won't attribute "not into asians" as a racist remark but as a preference. There's other fish in the sea.
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    Dec 08, 2007 10:31 PM GMT
    its not that all asians are unattractive its that certain people dont find them attractive. some of the best looking people I know are asian, I just happen to not be attracted to asian men. on the other hand there are people like one of my friends who is a total rice queen and pretty much exclusively date asians
  • Paradigm_Shif...

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    Dec 08, 2007 11:17 PM GMT
    Im with Chris11102!!!!

    My first stop was Poland, just 130 some odd countries to go icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 09, 2007 1:40 AM GMT
    "there are people like one of my friends who is a total rice queen and pretty much exclusively date asians

    Uh, is it only me, or wasn't that a racist remark?
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    Dec 09, 2007 2:37 AM GMT
    Okay, granted, people have there preferences and are entitled to them. My only problem is that when you don't give someone a chance just because of their ethnic background, it tends to be unfair. Someone raised a good point though - I wonder if this problem is more prevalent in the younger generation and also is it really less prominent in more metropolitan cities like NY or Cape Town?

    I think the best example of what I'm trying to find out is in the movie Guess Who with Ashton Kutcher and Bernie Mac. I mean when Ashton arrives with his fiance at her parents house, the father automatically assumes the cab driver would be the fiance purely because he is the black guy even though Ashton is much hotter than him( I think it was Mike Epps). I think that it might not be said out loud in some communities or families, but the idea is passed down to stick within your race/ethnin group.

    I hope you get what I was saying> I am rambling!