honestly...

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    May 03, 2007 3:32 PM GMT
    what does it mean to be gay?

    id really like to know what guys have to say. I have - obviously - my own notions but rarely am engaged in actual discussion about things that matter and are relevant to my life as gay man, with other gay men.
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    May 03, 2007 5:00 PM GMT
    Gay, to me, is just a sexual orientation; it isn't my personality.
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    May 03, 2007 5:10 PM GMT
    I agree. I hate when people try to impose a whole lifestyle on you just because you happen to like guys. To me, being gay means you like other guys. Everything else is up to you and ur personality.
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    May 03, 2007 6:02 PM GMT
    gay means happy
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    May 03, 2007 6:25 PM GMT
    ^ :)
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    May 03, 2007 10:03 PM GMT
    What is gay? Never heard the word!
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    May 03, 2007 10:06 PM GMT
    I agree with the general tone: Im gay because I like dick and not vagina. Period.
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    May 03, 2007 10:34 PM GMT
    To me it is an attraction to same sex gender! Some prefer Snickers over Almond Joy, Some prefer the color green over blue, some prefer choclotate cake over lemon tarts.

    I like tall, dark and handsome attitude. Manly too!
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    May 04, 2007 2:50 AM GMT
    Gay like fag or homo is just a label. I don't try and label my self to much. Yes I prefer cock to pussy. Yes kissing a man turns me on like no other. I like to think of my self as normal well adjusted man, looking for his soul mate to spend the rest of his life with. Labels do nothing but cause pain and hate. I don't like all the labels today. Gay Str8, white black blue orange, can't we all just be human and call it a day.
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    May 04, 2007 3:02 AM GMT
    right. like most people have already says, gay means i prefer to have sex with men. Nothing more. But it also means I'll want a relationship with a man which is aparently is independant from the former for some people.
  • gymingit

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    May 04, 2007 3:20 AM GMT
    I agree with most everyone else. The only real gay thing about me... my eye candy happens to be guys instead of gals and I like sleeping with men as well. Other than that, my life is no different than my straight brother.
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    May 04, 2007 3:32 AM GMT
    gay means happy - duuhh
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    May 04, 2007 5:38 AM GMT
    gay means for guys to like men.. now u guys that act like miss priss and polish ur nails and shit, thats a girl not gay, and a lot of men take that as a turn off.. girly guys act like wimps, so act like a guy and u will be a whole lot better recognized... but thats my opinion, any one got the same one.... let us know???
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    May 04, 2007 5:52 AM GMT
    ^ Totally agree. That whole nelly thing defeats the whole purpose of being gay. You're gay b/c you like guys, not b/c you like girls, right?

    But then again, there are some guys that truly believe they're in the wrong body, hence the trannies or cross-dressers (unless they do it for fun, but I wouldn't know).

    Anyone ever wear panties? If so, how do they feel?
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    May 04, 2007 3:12 PM GMT
    I am a bit surprised by a couple of previous comments that seem to imply that gay = masculinity.

    If you are sexually attracted to men then you are gay. Whether you appear or act effeminate vs masculine is irrelavant.

    To be intolerant of that seems out of place with the fact that gays already experience judgement from the outside world let alone amongst gays.

    It would be presumptious of anyone to decide how gay people should "act" in order to narrowly define the word gay.


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    May 04, 2007 4:14 PM GMT
    It means you are sexually attracted to members of the same sex.
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    May 06, 2007 12:23 AM GMT
    GAY = pure male
  • GQjock

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    May 07, 2007 12:15 AM GMT
    I used to think that it was just that Gay meant you were attracted to men but now I think that it's more than that and it's mainly because we've been ghetto-ized and discriminated against
    because of that we've made a cohesive little group that has it's own language...dress ... style etc
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    May 07, 2007 12:37 AM GMT
    Right on GQjock.
    To be gay (as in homosexual) is to be apart of an entire culture with a long history and everything. How apart of it you want to be is mostly up to the individual, but it is undeniable that it exists -love it or hate it!
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    May 07, 2007 12:42 AM GMT
    Right on GQjock.
    To be gay (as in homosexual) is to be apart of an entire culture with a long history and everything. How apart of it you want to be is mostly up to the individual, but it is undeniable that it exists -love it or hate it!
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    May 07, 2007 1:49 AM GMT
    'PURE MALE' - I like that !
  • millionbucks

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    May 10, 2007 11:49 PM GMT
    gaY is a man with an extra Y-Chromosome...;) Gay is a Superlative degree of Man.


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    May 26, 2007 3:38 AM GMT
    its as easy as this.... Gay means u like dick.... it doesnt mean u are a girl... so for all u fems out there.... act like a man cause thats what u are.... but u just like dick... for me i hate to waste the pleasure so i give it to all genders & races... holla
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    May 26, 2007 12:27 PM GMT
    "Gay means u like dick.... "

    You'd have been perfectly correct had you just left it at that.

    "it doesnt mean u are a girl... "

    It doesn't mean you're not a girl, either. Like you just wrote, gay (with respect to men, of course) means you like dick.

    "so for all u fems out there.... act like a man cause thats what u are.... "

    Considering that the world is not likely to ever conform to the needs of your insecurities and hangups about masculinity and femininity, you'd be much better off working to rid yourself of the insecurities and hangups so that you can be more comfortable in the world as it is.
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    Jul 11, 2007 3:39 AM GMT
    Gay means that I am reaching the pinnacle of human evolution....superior to all predecessors.