Is that so hard to find a white boyfriend?

  • johnny9027

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    Sep 07, 2009 6:32 AM GMT
    Not being racism, i just find it hard to find a cute white boyfriend...ar white ppl just into white ppl...and i felt desperate now...please don't throw stones to me...lol
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    Sep 07, 2009 6:34 AM GMT
    *throws spoons*

    *rolls eyes*

    *craps glitter*

    *twiddles thumbs*
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    Sep 07, 2009 6:36 AM GMT
    lilTanker said*throws spoons*

    *rolls eyes*

    *craps glitter*

    *twiddles thumbs*




    oh god that was great.... I know plenty of white boys here that like lil yellow kids.... No hate im just messin with ya.
  • johnny9027

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    Sep 07, 2009 6:36 AM GMT
    lilTanker said*throws spoons*

    *rolls eyes*

    *craps glitter*

    *twiddles thumbs*



    u wanna say something? please say it loud...i won't blame u...lol
  • johnny9027

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    Sep 07, 2009 6:37 AM GMT
    [quote]

    oh god that was great.... I know plenty of white boys here that like lil yellow kids.... No hate im just messin with ya.[/quote]

    lol...please mess with me...lol...
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    Sep 07, 2009 6:38 AM GMT
    Some white guys are only into white guys. Sounds like your into white guys exclusively as well, so I'm sure you can understand the mentality. Just keep looking, you will find your white Mr. Right.
  • johnny9027

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    Sep 07, 2009 6:40 AM GMT
    spacinjasin saidSome white guys are only into white guys. Sounds like your into white guys exclusively as well, so I'm sure you can understand the mentality. Just keep looking, you will find your white Mr. Right.

    yeah...i still need some time....
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    Sep 07, 2009 6:51 AM GMT
    Pshhh White guys ...You need to find yourself a nice latino!!!!icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif


    jk can't be hating on my own race now. That would be just crazy!!. Love the white ones too!icon_biggrin.gif


    Don't worry it will take time until you find the right color from that damn crayon box. plus!,someones Skin color is not whats going to make you happy in the end anyways icon_smile.gif
  • johnny9027

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    Sep 07, 2009 6:55 AM GMT
    lenoxx saidPshhh White guys ...You need to find yourself a nice latino!!!!icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif


    jk can't be hating on my own race now. That would be just crazy!!. Love the white ones too!icon_biggrin.gif


    Don't worry it will take time until you find the right color from that damn crayon box. plus!,someones Skin color is not whats going to make you happy in the end anyways icon_smile.gif

    yeah...it sounds like reasonable...but my fantasy is always white guys so only they can arouse my sexual instinct...that's too bad isn't it?...hope some day i can get rid of these terrible thoughts
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    Sep 07, 2009 7:00 AM GMT
    It's okay. Not everyone likes everything. It's just like how some people like sea food, but I just can't stand it. Nothing wrong with that. There will be a nice white man that will sweep you off you feet someday. It's just going to take some time since you're just sexually interested in just that race.
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    Sep 07, 2009 2:03 PM GMT
    In life you come across many different kinds of men. Amongst white men, you find that some enjoy dating out of their race and some do not.

    Considering all of the white guys I've dated in the past, there are plenty of white men who date outside of their own race.

    Try not to be bitter, or upset however when you meet guys who are not into you. Try to understand that human attraction is still very much uncertain and unexplored scientifically. There are many biological, chemical and social aspects of why someone is into what they are.

    And so many times it is not as much personal as it is many ancient predispositions that prevent someone from being able to find you attractive.

    The only true advice I can give you is to look for white guys that are: 1, into dating guys outside of their race. and 2. are into your race.

    Though I find such pre requisites very hindering. Because you may wind up being used by people with awkward ethnic fetishes.

    You are still very much young though, and I strongly suggest that you give yourself some time grow, mature and most of all develop some more confidence in yourself. Maybe you'll have more luck then.

    My last bit of advice. Stop and do some soul searching. Ask yourself why nothing else is going to make you happy but a white guy. When you find your answer it may surprise you. And may make you more understanding when a white guy explains to you that he likes his race better than yours.

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    Sep 07, 2009 6:55 PM GMT
    i think its fair to say that if your not Caucasian and your on this site (being the majority are white males)...your only into white men...but the trick/difficulty is actually getting one to return the feelings....in a long term fashion. Ive dated white men and have been in relationships with two. On the one hand, some will downright state that they are not into other ethnic groups and on the other hand some will go out of their way to get noticed by you. So dont let the few who are not down with the swirl discourage you. If you gave up looking, he might just find you.
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    Sep 07, 2009 7:00 PM GMT
    Wow. You really just posted this?
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    Sep 07, 2009 7:13 PM GMT
    LOL @ lilTanker.

    Like with anything else, it takes time to find someone. In the meantime, try learning to be happy with yourself. There is a difference between being alone and being lonely.
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    Sep 07, 2009 7:35 PM GMT
    me luv u long time!!
  • johnny9027

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    Sep 07, 2009 10:55 PM GMT
    Halfstep saidIn life you come across many different kinds of men. Amongst white men, you find that some enjoy dating out of their race and some do not.

    Considering all of the white guys I've dated in the past, there are plenty of white men who date outside of their own race.

    Try not to be bitter, or upset however when you meet guys who are not into you. Try to understand that human attraction is still very much uncertain and unexplored scientifically. There are many biological, chemical and social aspects of why someone is into what they are.

    And so many times it is not as much personal as it is many ancient predispositions that prevent someone from being able to find you attractive.

    The only true advice I can give you is to look for white guys that are: 1, into dating guys outside of their race. and 2. are into your race.

    Though I find such pre requisites very hindering. Because you may wind up being used by people with awkward ethnic fetishes.

    You are still very much young though, and I strongly suggest that you give yourself some time grow, mature and most of all develop some more confidence in yourself. Maybe you'll have more luck then.

    My last bit of advice. Stop and do some soul searching. Ask yourself why nothing else is going to make you happy but a white guy. When you find your answer it may surprise you. And may make you more understanding when a white guy explains to you that he likes his race better than yours.


    thank you very much for your caring suggestions...i think i should get more mature to get rid of the infatuation about white men's body...
  • jrs1

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    Sep 08, 2009 12:41 AM GMT

    I can't speak for handsome tanker, but:

    if this thread were sincerely about learning some aspect concerning being gay ... that would be one thing. but, instead, it seems as though you're interested in an attention [insert your word of choice] thread. you're a young guy and probably have a lot of learning to do; we all could use more understanding. but don't call out an entire race with the assumption that they're all the same (hence the thrown spoon) ... there are plenty of white men interested in asians ... but what about black men, latino-hispanic, south asian, etc.? they've got hearts, too ...
  • Webster666

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    Sep 08, 2009 1:52 AM GMT
    Some guys were meant to be single...
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    Sep 08, 2009 1:56 AM GMT
    johnny9027 saidNot being racism, i just find it hard to find a cute white boyfriend...ar white ppl just into white ppl...and i felt desperate now...please don't throw stones to me...lol


    Aren't Chinese guys pretty widely popular? I'm assuming you are Chinese mostly because you live oustide of Toronto and there are lots of Chinese Canadians there. If I'm wrong please excuse the ignorance.
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  • TallGWMvballe...

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    Sep 15, 2009 5:13 PM GMT
    There is a lid for every jar.

    Just be yourself and put yourself out there as available.
    Present a positive image to everyone and do not be negative to those who are not your type and more people will notice and be attracted to you... including those you want icon_smile.gif
  • NyRuinz

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    Sep 16, 2009 4:51 AM GMT
    gymguy1 saidWow. You really just posted this?


    That's what I said!