Sep 08, 2009 9:25 AM GMT
So, guys I need some advice.
I am a relatively good looking, toned/defined 27 year old lad who enjoys going to the gym regularly. I always seem to get attention out and about on the scene etc but when it comes to the gym, my confidence in other guys goes out the window. I am crap. If someone looks, I look away. I have absolutely no idea why and even though I know I am doing it, I can't seem to stop. Call me pathetic.
Anyway... there are two guys in the gym who I fancy the pants off. The first one has been giving me eye contact for months. He looks, looks away, looks again, looks when he is going from machine to machine or just about anywhere. I catch him looking at the corner of his eye and we often see each other outside of the gym. He does a rather strange 'looking into your soul' gaze which is immensely hot. He gave me a very slight small smile a while back but since then nothing. He stills look occasionally but I am so confused to what it means, if anything. Is he interested? If so, why hasn't he once said hi.
Then there is the second guy, I was casually walking through the gym and he clocks me. We have a brief moment of eyeballing each other then its over. He then goes off the get some water and I see him looking. Now I wasn't sure if he just wanted to use the same machine, he then then comes over and asks to use it in between sets. As he pulls himself up I pretty much stare at him as he is pretty damn fit (he can't see me doing this, or at least I hope he cant) and then he jumps back down. As he does this he flashes me the biggest smile and waits for me to do my next set. After his next one he can't quite lift himself all the way up and falls back down. We both laugh and yet again he flashes me that lovely smile with a cheeky grin after. He leaves. Now I am very confused. Was that all one big flirt off and I missed it or is that just a straight guy being friendly?
You see, I told you I was crap. I really don't know how to read the signals and I just wondered if anyone had any comments before I make a dick of myself and speak to him again...
I am a relatively good looking, toned/defined 27 year old lad who enjoys going to the gym regularly. I always seem to get attention out and about on the scene etc but when it comes to the gym, my confidence in other guys goes out the window. I am crap. If someone looks, I look away. I have absolutely no idea why and even though I know I am doing it, I can't seem to stop. Call me pathetic.
Anyway... there are two guys in the gym who I fancy the pants off. The first one has been giving me eye contact for months. He looks, looks away, looks again, looks when he is going from machine to machine or just about anywhere. I catch him looking at the corner of his eye and we often see each other outside of the gym. He does a rather strange 'looking into your soul' gaze which is immensely hot. He gave me a very slight small smile a while back but since then nothing. He stills look occasionally but I am so confused to what it means, if anything. Is he interested? If so, why hasn't he once said hi.
Then there is the second guy, I was casually walking through the gym and he clocks me. We have a brief moment of eyeballing each other then its over. He then goes off the get some water and I see him looking. Now I wasn't sure if he just wanted to use the same machine, he then then comes over and asks to use it in between sets. As he pulls himself up I pretty much stare at him as he is pretty damn fit (he can't see me doing this, or at least I hope he cant) and then he jumps back down. As he does this he flashes me the biggest smile and waits for me to do my next set. After his next one he can't quite lift himself all the way up and falls back down. We both laugh and yet again he flashes me that lovely smile with a cheeky grin after. He leaves. Now I am very confused. Was that all one big flirt off and I missed it or is that just a straight guy being friendly?
You see, I told you I was crap. I really don't know how to read the signals and I just wondered if anyone had any comments before I make a dick of myself and speak to him again...
