what kind of guys do you attract in the real world?

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    Sep 08, 2009 11:14 PM GMT
    OK this thread has been done before, but couldn´t find it.

    I´ve just noticed that in the real world I seem to be a magnet for hot guys in their 30s. The hot 20 somethings who hotlist me on RJ seem not to notice me.

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    Which is a pity, as i could teach them a thing or two icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 08, 2009 11:20 PM GMT
    I'm pretty clueless.. I have no idea when a guy is attracted to me. icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 08, 2009 11:33 PM GMT
    I have always missed it when other have bee attracted to me. They could also just come up to me and show signs and i could still be missing it. I fined out about it later when my friends say " That guy in the store that you lectured to for 2 hours was not really interested in your perfume.. tupiddd"

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    Sep 08, 2009 11:46 PM GMT
    The wrong ones
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    Sep 08, 2009 11:48 PM GMT
    The fat greasy ones....hahaha Joke.



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    Sep 08, 2009 11:49 PM GMT
    I've been attracting guys in their early 20's lately. ???
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    Sep 08, 2009 11:50 PM GMT
    klassikjock saidThe fat greasy ones....hahaha Joke.



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    LOL! Are those avocado slices ON TOP of the burger!!?!! WTF?
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    Sep 08, 2009 11:54 PM GMT
    joeyveras said
    klassikjock saidThe fat greasy ones....hahaha Joke.



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    LOL! Are those avocado slices ON TOP of the burger!!?!! WTF?


    I think those are Pickles.
  • Celticmusl

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    Sep 08, 2009 11:57 PM GMT
    In my thirties it was guys in their thirties. In my forties it has been guys in their twenties. I am clueless and I don't understand it but I'm starting to roll with it....nice guys and guys I could be serious about can be from any age group.
  • Celticmusl

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    Sep 09, 2009 12:17 AM GMT
    theantijock saidBottoms.

    Often I seem to attract the guy who attracts the guy who I'm attracted to but who'll have nothing to do with me. So I just take his guy home out of spite.


    Too hilarious! Yeah, I like a guy that likes a guy that is already in a relationship. The guy that is already in a relationship likes me. His bf likes the guy that I like that doesn't like me. (Warning: This may or may not be a real life situation).
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    Sep 09, 2009 12:18 AM GMT
    Oh, gosh, not very many.

    Having a husband sort of limits it a bit. I will say that I've been attracting more friend types, though, and that's fun. Met some super dudes here on RJ, as a matter of fact.
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    Sep 09, 2009 12:34 AM GMT
    I attracted the stalkers, the psychologically damaged, and the ones that want to just fuck me icon_neutral.gif
  • baldone

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    Sep 09, 2009 12:39 AM GMT
    not many, and the ones i do are really messed up...no sex just want to talk about every ones problems.....borrrrrrrrring after a while...man has needs....icon_evil.gif
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    Sep 09, 2009 12:42 AM GMT
    I seem to attract a very broad range of guys who are all very great guys but a little bit shy usually, not overly confident and perhaps just a little bit damaged or emotionally hidden.

    apparently they favor my overly forward manor and apparently I'm very confident.

    but either through my fault or there's it never lasts anything beyond a couple of months or something, but I try to leave'em better then I found'em and I been pretty successful with that I suppose so I can't complain icon_smile.gif

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    Sep 09, 2009 12:44 AM GMT
    mickeytopogigio saidOh, gosh, not very many.

    Having a husband sort of limits it a bit. I will say that I've been attracting more friend types, though, and that's fun. Met some super dudes here on RJ, as a matter of fact.

    you come across as very safe *nods* warm, fun, caring.. there is not a hint of "hunt and fuck" from you (to put it bluntly)
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    Sep 09, 2009 12:46 AM GMT
    Lostboy saidI´ve just noticed that in the real world I seem to be a magnet for hot guys in their 30s. The hot 20 somethings seem not to notice me.
    Oh sweety, they notice you, you just creep them out.
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    Sep 09, 2009 12:47 AM GMT
    lol, to the OP, your in your 30s... of course guys your age are going to look at you more often... in the real world, i tend to attract guys that have no clue how to act in any social situation... either really young or really old. lol, is it possible to be an aspergers magnet?
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    Sep 09, 2009 12:47 AM GMT
    jprichva saidLately? Only 20 to 21-yr olds.

    Unlike Lostboy, I don't want 'em.

    Cause ya fabulously funny as hell icon_biggrin.gif and I'm not 20 to 21 any more icon_wink.gif *giggles*
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    Sep 09, 2009 12:50 AM GMT
    Haven't the foggiest clue as to who or what type of guys I attract. It's a shame really.
  • jgymnast733

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    Sep 09, 2009 12:56 AM GMT
    I always seem to attract Italian guys, particularly sicilians',,and their all ass men..icon_wink.gif........Then it's Latinos',,then irish.......
    Funny how men of colour never really approch me.....
    But it's all good,,I'm not complaining at all....icon_exclaim.gif
  • jrs1

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    Sep 09, 2009 12:58 AM GMT


    Really attractive guys ... who want to have sex and not a relationship. I don't put out and I am reserved, so ... go figure. I make long-lasting and genuine friendships, so I am not here to complain.
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    Sep 09, 2009 12:59 AM GMT
    To be honest its hard for me say. The ones I think liked me, didn't actually, and the ones I thought were not much to care for me, actually did. Maybe I need to be more attentive to human nature and learn about body language more.
  • DrewT

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    Sep 09, 2009 1:05 AM GMT
    In the real world? Very few, or I'm blind. The ones that I do attract are usually older (30/40) or younger (16ish) or completely not my type. Or a combination! So basically no one I'm interested in.
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    Sep 09, 2009 1:09 AM GMT
    I dont get it. I am attracted to fit guys in their late 30's, 40's 50's and beyond. Yet all I seem lately to be hit on by is young 20 something bottoms. Im flattered but a bit uneasy. One HOT 20 yo latin kid I met with I actually asked for his ID the moment he went for my zipper. lol
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    Sep 09, 2009 1:11 AM GMT
    It's not so much the age but the type.

    I typically attract the guys from the dark side of the tracks. They are attracted to my good nature and I to their acerbic disregard to societal etiquette.

    I now have friends and acquaintances that would all simply implode if placed in the same room.

    It has led to a lifetime of experiences that I would have never dared venture into on my own. Thus, nothing really shocks me anymore.