Who here DOES NOT have ANAL sex?

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    Sep 09, 2009 3:20 AM GMT
    Anyone........anyone else????
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    Sep 09, 2009 4:07 AM GMT

    Does fingering count? If not, yes.

    P.S. I don't fail to indulge because of sanctimony or moral misdirection, I'm just real anal about the whole practice, but I'll eat the **** outta some ***!
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    Sep 09, 2009 4:28 AM GMT
    Waves hand wildly !

    The idea of fucking someone doesn't get my dick hard.
    The idea of getting fucked seems very hot, but, in actual practice, it has never turned out that way. OUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Sep 09, 2009 4:30 AM GMT
    wrestlervic said
    silverfox1 saidWell since you aren't going to get much of a response here because it seems pretty obvious that gay men aren't gay men unless they practice anal intercourse...

    So instead I will ask you Vic if you use the telly award in your picture as a dildo? icon_question.gif


    I don't know if that is a joke or a jab, but I know many gay-identified men that don't have anal intercourse. I'm just not seeing many here.


    He has a point. Exactly what is the point in identifying the fucks and the fuck nots? May I ask? What do you apply to men who do not, there has got to be something.
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    Sep 09, 2009 4:35 AM GMT
    I just don't want it to end up being a deal-breaker for me. Like, I wouldn't want someone to be disappointed if I had to tell them, nah, don't do that.
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    Sep 09, 2009 4:37 AM GMT
    wrestlervic saidAnyone........anyone else????



    Im versatile I can have a bottom couple I can have a top couple or someone versatile like me, I just couldnt care less. Sex is more than just top or bottom, but once again they want to put everything on this forum plain black and white....

    I get you have preferences but what's the goal of this thread? This is just as absurd as someone saying Who here DOES ONLY do (race comes here) guys?
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    Sep 09, 2009 4:48 AM GMT
    When I see posts that say PENIS or BUTT, TOP or BOTTOM, or whatever, I feel totally left out.

    On Friday I met a very cool guy, hot hot big legs, in DC. We were both attracted to each other. He had two friends with him. He asked me to take him home. I had to lean in and whisper to him that I hoped he would not be disappointed if I told him that I was not into anal sex. He smiled, and politely understood. Then decided he needed to run off to Burger King with his friends.

    A guy I dated years ago broke up with me because he expected to do it sometime with me.

    Talking in a forum is all about connecting people with similar likes, that's the only reason I posted it.
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    Sep 09, 2009 6:46 AM GMT

    Don't feel left out, anal is just another dimension to gay sex.
    I think heavy petting, kissing, and oral are the corner stones.
    So many gay men like it you see and if a guy does JUST ANAL
    I often think, "closet case," no kissing? No....you know. icon_redface.gif
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    Sep 09, 2009 8:53 AM GMT
    Yeah, I'm with Charlitos.

    I'm vers, couldn't be bothered if my partner is a top or a bottom, and really there's much more to sex than that.

    I dated a guy for 3 years, and I can count the number of times we had anal on one hand. Please take into account that we lived together for about a year and half of those three years.

    So yeah......................

    Oh and didn't Noel Coward publicly state that he hated the idea of anal sex, but in much nicer terms?
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    Sep 09, 2009 9:05 AM GMT
    does "not enough" count?
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    Sep 09, 2009 3:17 PM GMT

    OK we'll answer. We have done, but seldom.

    Both of us think like GuiltyGear. Sexual innovation is where the fun is.

    We also think it's not a great idea to hinge your love life on a single sexual activity.

    Now if you'll excuse us, it's hammering rain down outside, which is perfect music for what Bill has in mind. heheh..

    -Doug
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    Sep 09, 2009 3:29 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    OK we'll answer. We have done, but seldom.

    Both of us think like GuiltyGear. Sexual innovation is where the fun is.

    We also think it's not a great idea to hinge your love life on a single sexual activity.

    Now if you'll excuse us, it's hammering rain down outside, which is perfect music for what Bill has in mind. heheh..

    -Doug

    Same for us. Both have done it, and I'm versatile, but neither of us regularly, and not lately. And I've never topped him, cause we both recognize he could never handle me. And frankly, I think he became a bit traumatized when his late partner contracted HIV as a bottom, and died (as did mine prior).

    But lately I've been getting the urge, making this thread timely for me, and I'm thinking about playing bottom again myself. I think he'd like that, but it's up to him. If he declines no problem, I'm happy with other things, being versatile in more than just anal. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 09, 2009 7:04 PM GMT
    wrestlervic said He asked me to take him home. I had to lean in and whisper to him that I hoped he would not be disappointed if I told him that I was not into anal sex. He smiled, and politely understood. Then decided he needed to run off to Burger King with his friends.


    Learned your lesson yet? Don't divulge that info until you are both getting hot & ripping off clothes, you silly goose! If he is really disappointed he's not going to get some ass, then he can get dressed and leave.
    Otherwise, you & him might find other ways to 'amuse' yourselves....
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    Sep 09, 2009 7:16 PM GMT
    I don't think I can remember the last time.
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    Sep 09, 2009 7:21 PM GMT
    I've seen some surveys, that propose anal sex among gay men isn't as common as popularly assumed, neither as popularly imagined by the general public nor by gays ourselves. Unfortunately I can't recall exact percentages, but I think anal sex was in the minority of sex activities. Perhaps someone else here can quote something authoritative.
  • rnch

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    Sep 09, 2009 7:26 PM GMT
    i didn't "go anal" with my first 3 bfs. the secong one wanted to tried to, but i wasn't ready for that step yet.

    with my current bf, we "went anal" on our fourth time together in bed. he was/is a very patient, gradual, skifffull lover and an expert in foreplay. i dunno who was more su-prised/amazed/happy when he slipped in..me or him. icon_cool.gif

    even now, 16 months later, we don't have anal sex everytime we make love.
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    Sep 09, 2009 9:16 PM GMT


    I think the concept is much hotter sometimes than the activity. after a 8 yr separation frm gay sex, On my return the first thing I wanted was to get laid but that proved to be on the back burner as the pain was to much to bare. but my bf is patient and coaxing when he's really horny
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    Sep 10, 2009 1:32 AM GMT
    ooooers




    Odd thread

    *leaves*

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    I loves you all, but damn it, I like anal, I love doing it, getting it, eating it what ever.. I like it, I want it I crave it.. DAMN IT now I've gone and done it!
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    Sep 10, 2009 2:11 AM GMT
    GuiltyGear said
    Does fingering count? If not, yes.

    P.S. I don't fail to indulge because of sanctimony or moral misdirection, I'm just real anal about the whole practice, but I'll eat the **** outta some ***!
    I had no idea you were into scat. icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 12, 2009 2:07 PM GMT
    charlitos said
    wrestlervic saidAnyone........anyone else????



    Im versatile I can have a bottom couple I can have a top couple or someone versatile like me, I just couldnt care less. Sex is more than just top or bottom, but once again they want to put everything on this forum plain black and white....

    I get you have preferences but what's the goal of this thread? This is just as absurd as someone saying Who here DOES ONLY do (race comes here) guys?


    Amen. People love to limit themselves with labels. I guess it makes it easier for them not having to think and then patting themselves on the back for it.
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    Sep 12, 2009 10:45 PM GMT
    No, I never had anal sex, whether active (myself penetrating) or passive (receiving intercourse). I see this sort of thing as vile and potentially dangerous - on medical rather than on religious terms.
    But that does not mean that I had never enjoyed being in a man's embrace, or even, on a few cases, having a good smooch.