who does't really "get into" blowjobs?

  • rnch

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    Sep 09, 2009 7:32 PM GMT
    i don't. bj's are ok for foreplay and building up to "the main event", but i just don't seem to "get off" mentally and physically over blowjobs.

    my bf definately does..so i guess i'm doing something right....icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 09, 2009 7:39 PM GMT
    It can feel good but I can never come from them. Truthfully, I prefer getting hand jobs but really enjoy sucking a throbbing hard member, and can always get a guy to cum from sucking him.

    There's something primal about bringing a man to orgasm in your mouth.

    I'm kind of jealous that I can't get off from them because from the guys reactions, it must feel really good....
  • latenighter

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    Sep 09, 2009 8:10 PM GMT
    bj's are ok, for me, bj's are just foreplays, other things i like are touching, body contact, nipple play, and i prefer anal penetration much more than bj's.
    i'd say bj is about 15% of the total weightings of the entire sexual experience.
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    Sep 09, 2009 8:31 PM GMT
    I consider giving a good BJ an art form, of which I'm very proud. I'm not pleased unless I get the other guy absolutely howling with pleasure. And every guy I've ever blown tells me the same thing: I get this "cat that ate the canary" grin when he's cum from my mouth, of total smug satisfaction at a job well done. And had them say to me it was the most intense BJ of their entire life. Should it be otherwise? I simply love dick. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 10, 2009 3:12 PM GMT
    I love getting a good blowjob and my boyfriend is one of the best i've known at giving them. On the flip side I enjoy giving too. There is something to be said about waking up your man with a good suck.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 10, 2009 8:04 PM GMT
    I like them, but I still think of them as "second best". icon_lol.gif

    Of course, there's a BIG difference in BJs from one person to another. That can make all the difference.
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    Sep 10, 2009 8:37 PM GMT
    A BJ may not be your favorite form of having sex, which is understandable. But I give BJs that guys tell me, without exception, are the best of their entire lives. Maybe not their best SEX ever, if they prefer other things more, but their best BJ.

    For myself, my best sex I ever experienced was in fact a BJ, my first gay encounter, a circumstance which perhaps contributed to the thrill. The orgasm went on and on and on... I've never had a longer one nor more intense.

    A BJ is an art form, in my view. When giving one, my goal is to blow a guy's mind, not just his dick. And I love dick, and I love it in my mouth. Unless you have that attitude, I don't think you can really give good oral.

    Love of dick equals a great blow job; simply going through the motions equals a wet dick and little more. Guys who can't get satisfaction from a BJ haven't met the right mouth yet.
  • jerseyguy

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    Sep 11, 2009 5:41 PM GMT
    I'd much rather given than receive. Just a personal preference. Plus, I've been told I'm pretty good at it. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 11, 2009 5:55 PM GMT
    I'm a bottom and my bf is definitely a top but if Antwan Tanner from Dead Tone came at me, I'd definitely be the giver. lol!
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    Sep 11, 2009 9:48 PM GMT
    jerseyguy saidI'd much rather given than receive. Just a personal preference. Plus, I've been told I'm pretty good at it. icon_biggrin.gif


    Ditto.
  • zakariahzol

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    Sep 11, 2009 10:00 PM GMT
    I just LOVEEEEEEEEEEEE the male penis. The sight of it make me all excited . The hair, thick and hard, the tescticle , the cum.....So of course I cant stop myself from putting it in my mouth and gently feeling it.

    I cant never forget one day, I was sitting and relaxing in my chair. My ex bf, come over and without saying a single word pull down his short to his ankle.
    I was staring at the most perfect and wonderful piece of meat, ever.
    I better stop............


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    Sep 12, 2009 6:32 AM GMT
    don't really like giving them. there are just certain guys that get me going to where i want to. most guys don't seem to know how to do them either so i start to lose my momentum while they are trying to figure it out.
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    Sep 16, 2009 2:33 AM GMT
    i can never get off from a BJ either. Handjobs sure. Just something about a bj that wont do it for me. Tho i love giving them, and im told im good at em. much prefer sex to just oral.
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    Sep 16, 2009 9:31 AM GMT
    Giving, getting it's all good, as long as when I'm giving the suckee understands that after a while my jaw will crap up.

    Seems that some people just don't get simple politness.
  • OilCheck

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    Sep 20, 2009 12:49 AM GMT
    totally depends on the situ. if i know we're gonna be fucking bjs are just the appetizer for sure. but sometimes if you don't have anyplace to go and it's sorta public discreet bjs can be really hot. i fuckin' love the taste of iticon_lol.gif
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    Sep 20, 2009 2:05 PM GMT
    Love, love, love giving them, especially on dicks that are just big enough to be a challenge. It's super hot to make other men come that way. Love receiving them, even though I hardly ever come.

    But when I watch porn I fast-forward through them to the ass-eating.
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    Sep 26, 2009 6:47 PM GMT
    rnch saidi don't. bj's are ok for foreplay and building up to "the main event", but i just don't seem to "get off" mentally and physically over blowjobs.

    my bf definately does..so i guess i'm doing something right....icon_lol.gif


    it's aprt of the male anatomy...it's there for pleasure.

    I happen to love a man's penis.
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    Sep 30, 2009 11:00 PM GMT
    Blowjobs don't do anything for me...than again it could be along with something i've noticed most guys just don't seems to know what to do when they give one. I've gone soft on so many guys it's sad. Especailly since no one's ever complained when I do them...for how can you complain after you cum icon_lol.gif plus a guys body will usually tell you how well he likes iticon_razz.gif
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    Oct 01, 2009 1:14 AM GMT
    Blowjobs....

    Not for cut guys
  • oldsouls

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    Oct 01, 2009 9:13 PM GMT
    I would have to say I could care less about getting a bj. It feels good but I never come close and could just go limp. I do however love to give one. Just something about sucking on a good member that lights all of my fires. Maybe just havent come across someone who could do it well enough to get me off but on the good side I have never had a complaint!
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    Oct 02, 2009 6:01 PM GMT
    Wow--this has been enlightening for me. I absolutely love a hot mouth around my cock, and I love blowing a hot guy too. Love love love me some blow jobs.
  • rnch

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    Oct 02, 2009 7:13 PM GMT
    oldsouls saidI would have to say I could care less about getting a bj. It feels good but I never come close and could just go limp. I do however love to give one. Just something about sucking on a good member that lights all of my fires. Maybe just havent come across someone who could do it well enough to get me off but on the good side I have never had a complaint!
    yes, my thoughts/feelings also.
  • mondo_trasho

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    Oct 02, 2009 9:33 PM GMT
    I love 'em, giving & receiving.
    I've never came from one, or been with someone who could.
    Now I feel like I've been missing out, I better start training ASAP!
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    Oct 03, 2009 3:40 AM GMT
    Oral sex has rarely gotten me off. I don't know why, but I think it's just the way I'm hardwired. I would hate to think it's because there are that many people who are bad at giving head.

    On the other hand I love giving it! And apparently I'm good at it. I guess it's the cosmic trade-off.
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    Jul 03, 2010 4:22 AM GMT
    kscott6671 saidI love getting a good blowjob and my boyfriend is one of the best i've known at giving them. On the flip side I enjoy giving too. There is something to be said about waking up your man with a good suck.icon_biggrin.gif


    ...I agree. I love to run my tongue down a guys chest, then his stomach, all the way down to his hard, hot cock.

    ...then it's time to give this guy some pleasure.icon_smile.gificon_smile.gif