College dating or having fun

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    Sep 10, 2009 3:22 PM GMT
    College usually is only 4 yrs for everyone so would it be better to try to find a bf or have some fun? What do ya'll think?
  • Timbales

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    Sep 10, 2009 3:26 PM GMT
    The best thing is to do what you want to do and be honest with whoever you are doing it with.
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    Sep 10, 2009 3:37 PM GMT
    Since you are a closted frat boy having a bf would be a difficult option for you. One can have a bf and still have fun. By "fun" I am assuming you mean hooking-up. I did both. I actually did date a closted frat boy while I was in college. He was from a different school. I later realized he had a gf at his school while dating me. For that reason (and others) I ended things with him. My last semester as an undergrad I started dating a guy and we were bfs for 3.5 years.
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    Sep 10, 2009 4:14 PM GMT
    You have 4yrs to explore both why limit yourself! dating could lead to casual fun and casual fun could end in a flourishing relationship!
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    Sep 10, 2009 4:22 PM GMT
    I vote for dating multiple guys at once or one after the other and having fun. Don't get too serious with anyone cause the world is your oyster.

    It would be nice if more guys who are older and out of college felt the same way too.....remember fun?
  • ChilaxinJOCK0...

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    Sep 10, 2009 5:11 PM GMT
    Having Fun...I dont wanna date anyone at College...too much work lol