Dec 09, 2007 11:26 PM GMT
My partner and I have been together for over 2 years now and he's an absolutely amazing guy. Recently I quit a high paying job that kept me travelling quite a bit, so that I could be with him. I managed to find work locally but nothing that would pay nearly enough as before. As a result I had to cut back on certain extras such as gym membership etc, I put on weight and started feeling really bad about myself. Not being able to have the same input financially, body image and other factors really damaged my self worth with me now having to rely on my boyfriend to pick up the slack. I've been so frustrated and unhappy and as a result I have pushed him away to the point where I don't know if I still love him the way I used to. Maybe I'm just being stupid and because of my hurt pride I'm projecting my negativity onto him and our relationship. What if my feelings have changed, how do I tell him without destroying him. I don't know where to go from here?