How do you hint at being gay?

  • trl_

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    Sep 11, 2009 5:56 PM GMT
    Here's the thing. I get along a lot better with girls than guys. I talk to girls and I think they think I'm hitting on them or flirting since I don't act gay and they can't tell off-hand. I want to be able to somehow give them hints or something, but I'm not sure what that would entail short of a "omg, he's so hot!" comment. icon_biggrin.gif

    I was thinking like "oh those are cute sandals" or something ...like that......i have no idea how to handle this lol.
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  • Timbales

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    Sep 11, 2009 6:41 PM GMT
    "Whoa! Check out that guy's ass!"
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    Sep 11, 2009 7:05 PM GMT
    I'm probably generalizing here, but a lot of the gays in my area have an HRC sticker on their car or on their gym water bottle or a keychain or whatever. It's a subtle indication that you're either gay, or you're straight but gay friendly.

    Of course, there's the old fashioned way of just talking to a guy. After a few conversations, you'll figure out if he's gay or not, and vice versa.

    If you're just trying to repel the girls, just stare at a hot guy when he walks by. They should be able crack the code on that. icon_lol.gif
  • mynyun

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    Sep 11, 2009 7:25 PM GMT
    I don't know if this helps but I was in class today and there were 2 or 3 girls talking about a teacher there that was about their age and one of the black girls said they thought he was a little sweet though. I thought for a second and from the body language and way she said it I figured what she meant. She didn't do anything OUT RIGHT but it was the subtle body language. Well anyway just to confirm what I thought I gave the other girl this confused look and said 'sweet'.? And she said 'you know'. And another girl said 'yea, you know, funny'. Well at that point I was for sure what it meant but kinda perterbed at the word "funny".
    The second girl goes 'well I don't know the pc term for it....' and that's when I said 'then you mean gay!'.
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    Sep 11, 2009 7:36 PM GMT
    Just tell them "I'm a fairy nice fellow, in my own queer way." LMAO
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    Sep 11, 2009 7:47 PM GMT
    It's all in the walk. Apparently I walk like a bottom calling for it's top. At least, that's what my friends tell me.icon_redface.gif
  • cowboyathlete

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    Sep 11, 2009 7:50 PM GMT
    There is a friend at my gym who I cannot quite figure out (he may be bi curious). I have never mentioned girls or women, and I made a reference once to having gay friends who go to such and such a grocery store.
  • Timbales

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    Sep 11, 2009 7:50 PM GMT
    TheIStrat saidIt's all in the walk. Apparently I walk like a bottom calling for it's top. At least, that's what my friends tell me.icon_redface.gif


    Yo baby, can I get some fries with that shake?
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    Sep 11, 2009 7:52 PM GMT
    I find that my big pink feather boa can be a giveaway from time to time...
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    Sep 11, 2009 7:54 PM GMT
    Stop flirting with women. Flirt with men.
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    Sep 11, 2009 8:13 PM GMT
    sometimes at the gym or at a bar i see a girl who's got a great body or is really pretty, and i want to give her compliment, i say, 'listen, i'm gay but i just have to tell you you've got a great ass,' or tits or face or whatever.
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    Sep 11, 2009 8:16 PM GMT
    Wayull, speaking as a bi guy, I wonder if maybe you ARE flirting with the girlsicon_twisted.gif.
    You don't have to label yourself as gay or straight unless you want to. With regard to your question though, I agree with mickeytopogigio: if you want to discourage women and encourage men, that's pretty straightforward. Be really obvious about treating women like sisters and flirt heavily with the men! I also like the ideas about carrying or wearing symbols, if that appeals to you. You'll get more guys that way too.
  • Tritimium

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    Sep 11, 2009 8:26 PM GMT
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    Would that do it? icon_biggrin.gif Or even:

    sorry_girls_im_gay_single_but_gay_tshirt
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    Sep 11, 2009 8:39 PM GMT
    "If I were into girls, you´d be my type".

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    Sep 11, 2009 8:41 PM GMT
    How about keeping it nice and casual?

    I find wearing a feather boa is both an understated and discreet way of letting those in the know that I'm light on my feet.

    Or adopt a British accent. They're all homos in Englandland.
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    Sep 11, 2009 8:55 PM GMT
    Just ask them to go Shoping with you.. Haha That should work.
  • trl_

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    Sep 11, 2009 8:57 PM GMT
    mickeytopogigio saidStop flirting with women. Flirt with men.


    I don't flirt with women lol

    They think I am because I'm being really friendly. That's what I'm trying to say haha
  • mynyun

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    Sep 11, 2009 8:59 PM GMT
    Girls will pick up on flirting almost ALL the time.icon_lol.gif But I have flirted with str8 guys and they are totally oblivious to it. Most of the time now I flirt with them to see how far I can go before they do realize it.icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 11, 2009 9:05 PM GMT
    How do you hint at being gay?

    Easy! Take out your wallet photos, and casually show them pics of:

    You playing on your college basketball team:


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    Wearing your old military uniform:

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    Your pets:

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    The VW you just bought through Craigslist:

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    Sep 11, 2009 9:17 PM GMT
    I think that would about clear it up Red icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 11, 2009 9:26 PM GMT
    It's pretty simple I usually go with

    see that dude over there?

    He so damn fine I'd totally fuck his brains out
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    Sep 11, 2009 9:50 PM GMT
    I don't know how to do this either... there's a chic in my boxing classes that constantly talks to me and hits on me and I'm like just leave me the f*** alone
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    Sep 11, 2009 9:52 PM GMT
    i always tell women off the bat right away that i am gay nowadays. that way, if they fall for me, i already told them so. i have had way too may women show interest in me to play that game any more. i just told one of my co-workers last night and she was totally shocked. she had no idea.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Sep 11, 2009 9:53 PM GMT
    I'd just listen to your female friends and when they start talking about some cute guy.. just say, "really, tell me all about him". Or bring up someone you all know who's gay and say a bunch of positive things...