sexdate

  • Nayro

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    Sep 13, 2009 8:58 PM GMT
    hi,
    I know most of u think that ur first sexexperience should be with a guy u love and stuff and that I shouldnt rush into things I would later regret.
    Having that said.

    I am 20 years old and I still never had sex... I live in a small village where every1 knows eachother. I want to have a sexdate with a hot muscular guy but I cant seem to find one. What should I do? Should I just go to Amsterdam for a weekend and see whats there? I dont know.. Any tips?
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    Sep 13, 2009 9:02 PM GMT
    Your first time is not going to be magical and most certainly will not be with someone you are going to love until the end of time, blah blah blah.

    Go, pop that cherry. But if you can't find someone in your home town who wants to fuck you, how are you going to find someone who will date you?
  • Nayro

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    Sep 16, 2009 10:00 PM GMT
    k thanks, i will.... I think
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    Sep 16, 2009 10:27 PM GMT
    The only reason people say that the first time you have sex, you should do it with someone that loves you and that you love, is so that the person will have some reason to stick around for a second round.

    The first time is never fireworks, and the chances of being with the guy for the rest of your life is incredibly slim.

    As long as you are ready mentally and emotionnally then there's no reason not to do it. Life isn't an 80s teen click flick.
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    Sep 17, 2009 12:17 AM GMT
    Niceguy89 saidhi,
    I know most of u think that ur first sexexperience should be with a guy u love and stuff and that I shouldnt rush into things I would later regret.
    Having that said.

    I am 20 years old and I still never had sex... I live in a small village where every1 knows eachother. I want to have a sexdate with a hot muscular guy but I cant seem to find one. What should I do? Should I just go to Amsterdam for a weekend and see whats there? I dont know.. Any tips?


    Love? Not so much.

    But if you care for him it helps a lot. It makes you want to please him a lot more, and thus makes it more meaningful. But hardly mindblowing or life changing in any way.

    However, if the fact that you haven't had sex is distracting you, then I suggest getting it over with so you can get on with your life. But understand that having had sex doesn't change anything really. You are still the same dude you were the night before.

    About the only long lasting effects one can get from a random hookup is from being raped or contracting an STD, both of which are more likely from a random hookup.