Can you dance well, and do you think it makes you a better lover??

  • MikemikeMike

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    Sep 14, 2009 5:35 AM GMT
    For myself, I would say yes and YES!!
  • Webster666

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    Sep 14, 2009 7:04 AM GMT
    No, and No.
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    Sep 14, 2009 7:08 AM GMT
    MikemikeMike saidFor myself, I would say yes and YES!!


    Depends. You plan on doing Tap on my balls? icon_eek.gificon_lol.gif
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    Sep 14, 2009 12:08 PM GMT
    Yes I can dance very well and in my humble opion which means nothing...lol. It does make you a better lover.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 14, 2009 12:37 PM GMT
    I love to dance but am somewhat reserved, Now naked in the dark w/ a warm body partnered by my stiff companion unleashes a different side of me.
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    Sep 14, 2009 12:39 PM GMT
    Yes I can and FOR SURE it makes you a better lover (does the word rhythm ring a bell....)
  • Ironman4U

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    Sep 14, 2009 12:40 PM GMT
    Great dancer (been told) and great lover (been told that too!). Never thought about the correlation, but I guess it all comes down to having the RIGHT MOVES.
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    Sep 14, 2009 1:05 PM GMT
    Aww yay! Another thread for people to compliment themselves!

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    Sep 14, 2009 3:22 PM GMT
    No I can't dance. I've never been able to. My body is just way too stiff to be able to move that way. I avoid the dance floor.

    But it hasn't hindered me sexually at all.
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    Sep 14, 2009 3:32 PM GMT
    Yes and No.
  • Rookz

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    Sep 14, 2009 3:51 PM GMT
    Yes I can dance. And yes, if you know how to control your core and hips you can grind like there's no tomorrow.

    Importantly, for those who surrender into the fun of either activities, just enjoy it! icon_biggrin.gif
  • jrs1

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    Sep 14, 2009 3:58 PM GMT

    I dunno ... if you are either an accomplished dancer, gymnast, athlete ... you might expect to have increased muscle stamina. but, I think there are the ' natural born killers ' of the bedroom boom (i.e., ' natural ' being operative for having a seemingly built in ability to read their lover's reactions to tactile stimuli) and those who actively learn to pay attention to detail (i.e., learn their partner's weak spots) in order to accomplish being great lovers. I would be interested in a study on this but, until then, I would not say that positive experience in one correlates to positive performance in the other; you need to learn your partner's body because it doesn't come with a manual.
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    Sep 14, 2009 4:19 PM GMT
    Yep....twisting, turning, knee bends, rhythm, flexibility, awareness of your muscles and how they move, attitude, timing, stamina, creativity, syncopation...............copulation.
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    Sep 14, 2009 4:20 PM GMT
    i think being a dancer is more of a attractive issue. Someone who dances really well is usually more attractive to someone else. It doesn't always mean thats the way it will be in bed but it will certainly help you get to the bed icon_smile.gif
  • GQjock

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    Sep 14, 2009 4:23 PM GMT
    Possibly yes ....

    If you can dance well .... sounds klunky grammatically speaking
    If you're a good dancer
    You are aware of your body movements and that awareness can be implemented in bed

    So if you are able to translate that talent into bed
    Yep ... you be better in bed
  • MichVBPlayer2...

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    Sep 14, 2009 4:41 PM GMT
    So funny for you to post this. I was just out at a country line dancing bar and this good looking guy came up and started talking to me. Sadly, he couldn't keep the beat if it was being tapped on his head. A lesbian friend of mine said "Stay away from him. He can't even dance, which means you know he'll be bad in bed". I found this strange to make this comparison but then here it is again.

    I myself love dancing. The only thing I think dancing gives me is a killer set of abs. Other than looking good, I don't see how it improves my sexual prowess. Dancing can be a great foreplay tactic. I know nothing turns me on more than spending an evening moving and swaying to music with someone I find attractive. It just makes me wanna get him home and continue that closeness in a more intimate setting. On the other hand, I have been with guys who couldn't dance a lick, and yet had great sex with. So yet again, gross generalizations just don't seem to work.
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    Sep 14, 2009 7:15 PM GMT
    Yes, and I dunno
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    Sep 14, 2009 7:21 PM GMT
    not necessarily.
    Awareness of your body doesn't necessarily impart an awareness or appreciation for someone elses' body and how to please them. A good lover knows their own body and knows how to explore and please another.

    I wouldn't say I dance well, but I do dance freely and that seems to incite a higher degree of interest and sexual excitement in guys around me.

    It's a natural instinctual posturing & carnal courting... I love it!
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    Sep 14, 2009 8:06 PM GMT
    I think a good dancer will make a good lover better. I don't think that it will make a bad lover good though.

    Dance is like a tool set. Having the tools doesn't mean you know how to use them in every, or any situation. Paying attention to the person your with and understanding what they like and want is as important as your 'abilities' to meet those desires. Thinking you know what they want because it's what you want is no guarantee that your right. Consider it like talking. Great dancing ability is like talking. You can be exceptional at it. However, responding to the needs of the person your with is like listening. This is an entirely different skill set (and one often sadly lacking).

    Too many guys think that what they want and like is what everybody wants and likes. They are very lucky if they find someone with the same set of wants and likes. They're better off if they ask 'what do you like, and what don't you like?" and "This is what I like and what I don't like." If you or he is a good dancer, then you [or he] will be better able to meet those needs whether it's through rhythm, strength/stamina, or flexibility.
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    Sep 14, 2009 8:39 PM GMT
    They say dance is the vertical expression of a horizontal feeling...
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    Sep 14, 2009 8:47 PM GMT
    Yes and absolutely yes

    if you can't shake your hips while standing up.... you will be inept at moving em while lying down
  • AlexGuess

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    Sep 14, 2009 8:51 PM GMT
    Epiphany1882 said
    MikemikeMike saidFor myself, I would say yes and YES!!


    Depends. You plan on doing Tap on my balls? icon_eek.gificon_lol.gif


    LOL

    Yes, and uh I don't know always been good in both things icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 14, 2009 8:56 PM GMT
    i'm biased
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    Sep 14, 2009 9:33 PM GMT
    I like the way many spanish guys dance. Many of them look like they would be good in bed.
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    Sep 14, 2009 9:36 PM GMT
    SerpentMound saidI like the way many spanish guys dance. Many of them look like they would be good in bed.


    then you should check out men from the caribbean