What annoys you about your boyfriend?

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    Sep 18, 2009 4:37 AM GMT
    What annoys you about your boyfriend?

    Other than the things I've heard some people mention like cheating, bad sex (or the lack of it), working too much, or being away for too long (traveling or long distance), what is it about your boyfriend that drives you insane?... but you still love him.

    Is it his chronic bad breath? Does he claw you in bed with his sharp toenails? Does he eat all your food and not buy groceries? Does he nag you about every little thing you do? Does he criticize you for your recent weight gain? Is his body not as in shape as when you first met? Does he chase your friends away? Do you have opposing views on a lot of issues?

    This is your chance to vent about your man. But, you still love him for all his short comings. Isn't that what love is all about?
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    Sep 18, 2009 2:12 PM GMT

    Hey enolcyc, because Bill and I love each other, we vent to each other about each other, rather than to others. We found it works better.
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    Sep 18, 2009 2:29 PM GMT
    That he is imaginary.
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    Sep 19, 2009 2:02 AM GMT
    Venting to each other (like meninlove) isn't always possible without being a bit hurtful. Hurtful things once said, can have a life of its own. However, venting to a public forum doesn't feel that right to me.
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    Sep 19, 2009 2:03 AM GMT
    RunintheCity saidThat he is imaginary.


    Damn It! I didn't get here quick enough, that was going to be my answer, haha.

    icon_sad.gif But yes, that he's imaginary.
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    Sep 19, 2009 2:04 AM GMT
    RunintheCity saidThat he is imaginary.


    Haha no shit mines tooicon_confused.gif
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    Sep 20, 2009 12:33 PM GMT
    I love him to death but sometimes I feel like he's just too soft and too clingy. As awful as it sounds, sometimes I'd like for him to be more of a "man". But then I remember that the things about him that annoy me are also part of the reason I love him so much. And no one has ever been as supportive or protective over me as he has been. As weird as it sounds, lately when I look at him I realized that i love him more. I didn't think I could and sometimes its a bit disturbing.
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    Sep 20, 2009 12:35 PM GMT
    He no longer is my boyfriend - that's what shits me! icon_smile.gif Well that's my fault really for dumping him, but he insisted on constantly being overseas.....
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    Sep 20, 2009 12:44 PM GMT

    He's taking too long to find me! I know that the world is a big place so I'll cut him some slack. And at least I'll know ahead of time to love him even though he'll obviously lack a sense of urgency but,

    I do wish he'd get here...
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    Sep 20, 2009 12:53 PM GMT
    He isnt consistent with his workout routines. He will be good for a few months and then nothing for a period of time.
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    Sep 20, 2009 1:47 PM GMT
    It annoys me that he's invisible. It makes it really, really hard to have sex with him.
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    Sep 20, 2009 1:53 PM GMT
    RunintheCity saidThat he is imaginary.


    Damn it RunintheCity.....that's my boyfriend. I knew he was cheating on me. icon_mad.gif
  • Latenight30

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    Sep 20, 2009 2:06 PM GMT
    i think I used to do all thoose things first listed.
    There are times when I'm very busy and it's the same time he needs attention. After 8 years I just give him as much as I can. He does the same for me
    I love him.
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    Sep 20, 2009 2:20 PM GMT
    Lol, where do I start??? But I love him to death, so I deal.. lol.icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 20, 2009 11:04 PM GMT
    That he's a devoted catholic, that he has trouble showing his emotion and that our relationship is on a timer nearing it's end. However that last one isn't his fault.
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    Sep 20, 2009 11:12 PM GMT
    he gets soooo pissy over little things like if I forget to turn a light off or leave the shower door open after showering, oh and he never takes out the garbage and makes me pump the gas!

    but I still lovie my hunny, im sure I annoy the crap outta him too hehe, I know this bothers him so I do it all the time...when we are in the car at a stop light I will throw myself on him and be like "hunnnnny love you!!" he hates it cause the people next to us might be watching icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 20, 2009 11:29 PM GMT
    civicevolution saidhe gets soooo pissy over little things like if I forget to turn a light off or leave the shower door open after showering, oh and he never takes out the garbage and makes me pump the gas!

    but I still lovie my hunny, im sure I annoy the crap outta him too hehe, I know this bothers him so I do it all the time...when we are in the car at a stop light I will throw myself on him and be like "hunnnnny love you!!" he hates it cause the people next to us might be watching icon_twisted.gif



    woof.. thats gross. I would never date someone I can't hold hands or kiss in public... WTF! hate that... did it for almost 6 years...never again! Having to deal with that insecurity is the pitts!
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    Sep 20, 2009 11:37 PM GMT
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    civicevolution saidhe gets soooo pissy over little things like if I forget to turn a light off or leave the shower door open after showering, oh and he never takes out the garbage and makes me pump the gas!

    but I still lovie my hunny, im sure I annoy the crap outta him too hehe, I know this bothers him so I do it all the time...when we are in the car at a stop light I will throw myself on him and be like "hunnnnny love you!!" he hates it cause the people next to us might be watching icon_twisted.gif



    woof.. thats gross. I would never date someone I can't hold hands or kiss in public... WTF! hate that... did it for almost 6 years...never again! Having to deal with that insecurity is the pitts!


    I kinda understand tho...we live deep in the burbs...almost country land....I call it land of the soccer moms haha...i make sure to get my pda in boystown icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 20, 2009 11:41 PM GMT
    civicevolution said
    jrunner25 said
    civicevolution saidhe gets soooo pissy over little things like if I forget to turn a light off or leave the shower door open after showering, oh and he never takes out the garbage and makes me pump the gas!

    but I still lovie my hunny, im sure I annoy the crap outta him too hehe, I know this bothers him so I do it all the time...when we are in the car at a stop light I will throw myself on him and be like "hunnnnny love you!!" he hates it cause the people next to us might be watching icon_twisted.gif



    woof.. thats gross. I would never date someone I can't hold hands or kiss in public... WTF! hate that... did it for almost 6 years...never again! Having to deal with that insecurity is the pitts!


    I kinda understand tho...we live deep in the burbs...almost country land....I call it land of the soccer moms haha...i make sure to get my pda in boystown icon_biggrin.gif



    I lived in manhattan beach.. its was the same thing... esp since my ex grew up there. it was especially hard for him. I hated it... I made sure people knew I was gay...
    as for getting your pda in boys town. I found that trying to do that in boys town seemed contrived. If anything, at first glance, it makes a person come off as insecure about his relationship to his boyfriend.
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    Sep 20, 2009 11:57 PM GMT
    that he doesnt exist, I dont have one...
  • cowboyathlete

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    Sep 21, 2009 12:22 AM GMT
    That I don't have one.
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    Sep 21, 2009 12:48 AM GMT
    Well, mine for one ISN'T invisible, so that means having to pay double at the movies, restaurants, nightclubs, you name it. Why can't I just be happy!
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    Sep 21, 2009 1:14 AM GMT
    Not in a relationship now, but what annoyed me the most in my ex-bf was that, in spite of all his money, he would never pay anything, not even a phone call.
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    Sep 21, 2009 1:22 AM GMT
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    RunintheCity saidThat he is imaginary.


    Damn it RunintheCity.....that's my boyfriend. I knew he was cheating on me. icon_mad.gif



    That's really sad that your imagining your imaginary boyfriend is cheating on you. You need help. My imaginary boyfriend would never cheat on me!
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    Sep 22, 2009 1:25 PM GMT
    He is too clingy and follows me around on weekends when he comes to visit (Every weekend) so I almost never get to just ... play games or read or do things I like.

    He is my first boyfriend and I think he's shit in bed because it's just not fun... He's only got me off once or twice and *Still* won't listen to me asking him not to play with my nipples, or that my neck is super sensitive and loves being played with.

    He's a giant man-child who doesn't clean up after himself unless asked.

    Whenever he wants a hug just just... hugs me. No matter what I'm doing, where I'm going, or whether I know, so I can be making a dash for the loo and suddenly I'm restrained. Then I get in trouble for asking to be let go. He KNOWS I hate being restrained, too.

    His attitude in bed is all volume... fondle, grope, kneed, twist. No stroke, lick, or anything else... boy is hamfisted like Miss Piggy.