Guys Who Claim to be Straight...Except Like Getting Blown by Other Guys

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    Sep 18, 2009 7:45 AM GMT
    Last night I performed fellatio upon one of these not-as-uncommon-as-you-might-think species: the guy who claims to be completely "straight", yet enjoys the oral talents of another guy on his manhood.

    What's the deal, anyway? Personally, I consider myself 100% gay (okay, I did eat out a girl once, but in all fairness she was a lesbian who wanted to experiment), and as such, I could never imagine myself getting sexual satisfaction by ANY sex act that involved a woman.

    These are the same guys who will claim, a mouth is a mouth, so they don't care if it's a man or woman doing the pleasuring. After I rendered him temporarily paralyzed (crime scene orgasm :lolicon_smile.gif, he confessed. decisively, that that was the "third best bj" he'd ever gotten. Gee, what an accomplishment. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Anyway, my question is, are guys who claim to be "straight" except for getting bj's really as they describe themselves, or are they perhaps harboring repressed sexual feelings in regards to their true orientations?

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    Sep 18, 2009 7:50 AM GMT
    In the end does it matter you achieved your goal....Orgasm. If he needs to categorize himself that way in order to feel more comft...So be it.
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    Sep 18, 2009 8:08 AM GMT
    Well it does matter. I'm just wondering how so many guys can claim to be straight, yet be able to get it up and actually orgasm from a guy working their members.....
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    Sep 18, 2009 8:36 AM GMT
    The_Austonian saidWell it does matter. I'm just wondering how so many guys can claim to be straight, yet be able to get it up and actually orgasm from a guy working their members.....


    Sexual categories are fluid constructions that only arose during the latter half of the 20th century; before that, people arguably had more freedom. We choose the names and identities we feel comfortable with, so it's perfectly fine if they wish to call themselves straight.
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    Sep 18, 2009 2:39 PM GMT
    Being gay means you are attracted to men, not that you have sex with them. I can have all the sex I want with women and I'll still be gay. I could never touch a guy again, and I'd still be gay.

    Not every straight guy is uncomfortable with his sexuality and I can fully believe a mouth is just a mouth to some. If a man sticks his dick into a fleshlight or jams a dildo up his ass it doesn't make him attracted to those objects. The same could go for people.

    And as for being able to get it up for a guy, he wasn't. You probably already know this since you're a guy as well, but when guys are horny, it doesn't take much to get an erection. So if he's comfortable with his sexuality and not threatened, there's no reason why he wouldn't be able to conjure up a few girls in his mind and let you get him off.
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    Sep 18, 2009 3:11 PM GMT
    I've had someone tell me it is because men have a wider palate and that makes it easier for them to handle him. Tiny women just can't get the job done.

    I personally don't think you would go looking for a man to suck your dick if that isn't what you want.
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    Sep 18, 2009 3:29 PM GMT
    brandohsaurus said
    I personally don't think you would go looking for a man to suck your dick if that isn't what you want.


    Ding ding ding ding! We have a winner.

    Of course, the question is: does the above statement qualify someone as gay, bi, polysexual, etc? If a category is required - as society seems to prefer, to maintain order, control, hierarchy, etc. - what would the category be!
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    Sep 18, 2009 3:38 PM GMT
    QUOTE AUTHOR GOES HEREhe confessed. decisively, that that was the "third best bj" he'd ever gotten.


    Can I meet the winner?
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    Sep 18, 2009 3:42 PM GMT
    RunintheCity said
    brandohsaurus said
    I personally don't think you would go looking for a man to suck your dick if that isn't what you want.


    Ding ding ding ding! We have a winner.

    Of course, the question is: does the above statement qualify someone as gay, bi, polysexual, etc? If a category is required - as society seems to prefer, to maintain order, control, hierarchy, etc. - what would the category be!
    Whatever the catagory, any guy wanting another guy to suck him off cannot claim to be 'straight'. a straight guy couldn't get his dick up by being touched and fondled by another guy if his life depended on it because he would be so turned off by the touch of another man on his privates. If a guy is turned on by the touch of another man he is at the very least bisexual. Straight men would have their flight of fight reaction come into play if some other man was trying to touch his dick, that's just a truely straight persons first reaction.
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    Sep 18, 2009 3:47 PM GMT
    The_Austonian saidLast night I performed fellatio upon one of these not-as-uncommon-as-you-might-think species: the guy who claims to be completely "straight", yet enjoys the oral talents of another guy on his manhood.

    What's the deal, anyway? Personally, I consider myself 100% gay (okay, I did eat out a girl once, but in all fairness she was a lesbian who wanted to experiment), and as such, I could never imagine myself getting sexual satisfaction by ANY sex act that involved a woman.

    These are the same guys who will claim, a mouth is a mouth, so they don't care if it's a man or woman doing the pleasuring. After I rendered him temporarily paralyzed (crime scene orgasm :lolicon_smile.gif, he confessed. decisively, that that was the "third best bj" he'd ever gotten. Gee, what an accomplishment. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Anyway, my question is, are guys who claim to be "straight" except for getting bj's really as they describe themselves, or are they perhaps harboring repressed sexual feelings in regards to their true orientations?



    No one can give a blow job like a gay man. It's as simple as that.

    It's our equipment. We know how to work it after all.

    This is not so uncommon - I can't tell you the number of married men that I've fvcked! And that have sucked me off.
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    Sep 18, 2009 3:49 PM GMT
    "Guys Who Claim to be Straight...Except Like Getting Blown by Other Guys"

    ........ are not straight lol.
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    Sep 18, 2009 3:51 PM GMT


    No one can give a blow job like a gay man. It's as simple as that.

    It's our equipment. We know how to work it after all.

    This is not so uncommon - I can't tell you the number of married men that I've fvcked! And that have sucked me off.[/quote]



    Ditto same here !!
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    Sep 18, 2009 4:43 PM GMT
    I know what category he fits in to.

    He is a MAN.
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    Sep 18, 2009 4:50 PM GMT
    JP85257 saidI know what category he fits in to.

    He is a MAN.


    LOL Well said JP!

    For me, the issue isn't so much whether my sexual partner chooses to call himself...he could call himself a potato for all I care! I just performed a sexual act and/or am interacting with him in the way that I please so I'mcontent with that. Should he not want to identify as queer/gay/etc. that's on him, not me.

    My issue is more when these same aforemoentioned D***noses are the first ones to call out an openly queer person and yell the homo/trans/queer-phobic comments and even engage in gay-bashings when they themselves engage in the same acts they're condeming...like I've learned very early in my life "those who deny are the ones most involved".

    I hope that gives you more perspective, Austonian.
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    Sep 18, 2009 5:30 PM GMT
    Did he return the favor?
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    Sep 18, 2009 5:39 PM GMT
    The_Austonian saidLast night I performed fellatio upon one of these not-as-uncommon-as-you-might-think species: the guy who claims to be completely "straight", yet enjoys the oral talents of another guy on his manhood.

    What's the deal, anyway? Personally, I consider myself 100% gay (okay, I did eat out a girl once, but in all fairness she was a lesbian who wanted to experiment), and as such, I could never imagine myself getting sexual satisfaction by ANY sex act that involved a woman.

    These are the same guys who will claim, a mouth is a mouth, so they don't care if it's a man or woman doing the pleasuring. After I rendered him temporarily paralyzed (crime scene orgasm :lolicon_smile.gif, he confessed. decisively, that that was the "third best bj" he'd ever gotten. Gee, what an accomplishment. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Anyway, my question is, are guys who claim to be "straight" except for getting bj's really as they describe themselves, or are they perhaps harboring repressed sexual feelings in regards to their true orientations?

    Kinsey

    I think the quotation marks would be better suited for '"completely"' rather '"straight.."' I'd say he's a 2 or so on the Kinsey scale.

    That said... this topic has been talked to death several times already.

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    And of course (gay) guys give better blowjobs.... they enjoy doing it.... while most women do not. pfft... 'it's demeaning.'
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    Sep 18, 2009 5:43 PM GMT
    bi
  • KepaArg

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    Sep 18, 2009 6:05 PM GMT
    Bi, but calling himself straight is something more comfortable to him. This is how I feel about ''gay for pay'' porn stars! Women just donĀ“t do it for me and not even for a price!
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    Sep 18, 2009 6:54 PM GMT
    First off, why do you care? If it bothers you then why have sex with him? If it doesn't matter then what difference does it really make? It is his life and his body, he gets to make that call, and none of us can determine his sexuality for him nor ought we even try.

    Having gay sex doesn't make you gay. If it does, then homophobia is not necessarily an irrational form of thought. They might actually have a genuine reason to fear and loathe us.

    However, I will admit that even I raise an eyebrow when a guy claims to be straight but actively and repeatedly seeks out sexual contact with men. But in the end, his choice of sexual identity is none of my business, and I have no business calling him bi or gay, since that is a prerogative left solely to him. That is the whole point of the sexual revolution; individual sexual empowerment, and thus not allowing anyone else to determine your sexuality for you. If I have the right to declare that he is bi or gay, then doesn't he have the right to declare that I am actually straight but my desire for other men is a product of mental illness? I thought we'd gotten past all that. Apparently even some of us like to try and control other people's sexual identities, which is a shame.

    Lastly, the notion that a straight man could not physically get it up for a man, is not only wrong, but it is insulting and dangerous. Getting off on sexual contact for a straight man does not require a woman. If it did, no straight man could masturbate for God's sake! We shouldn't be pushing our own experiences on other people. Just because a majority of us couldn't get an erection for a woman, that doesn't mean that a guy can't get an erection from physical contact from another man. That is remarkably narrow minded thinking. For example, perhaps he's getting off on the power and domination aspect of having another man sexually submit to him, rather than the actual sexual act itself. Or he just doesn't care and a mouth is a mouth to him. Unfortunately, there are people out there who really are that egotistical and narcissistic. But that doesn't make them gay. It just makes them shallow jerks.
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    Sep 18, 2009 7:39 PM GMT
    hockeytiger saidFirst off, why do you care? If it bothers you then why have sex with him? If it doesn't matter then what difference does it really make? It is his life and his body, he gets to make that call, and none of us can determine his sexuality for him nor ought we even try.

    Having gay sex doesn't make you gay. If it does, then homophobia is not necessarily an irrational form of thought. They might actually have a genuine reason to fear and loathe us.

    However, I will admit that even I raise an eyebrow when a guy claims to be straight but actively and repeatedly seeks out sexual contact with men. But in the end, his choice of sexual identity is none of my business, and I have no business calling him bi or gay, since that is a prerogative left solely to him. That is the whole point of the sexual revolution; individual sexual empowerment, and thus not allowing anyone else to determine your sexuality for you. If I have the right to declare that he is bi or gay, then doesn't he have the right to declare that I am actually straight but my desire for other men is a product of mental illness? I thought we'd gotten past all that. Apparently even some of us like to try and control other people's sexual identities, which is a shame.

    Lastly, the notion that a straight man could not physically get it up for a man, is not only wrong, but it is insulting and dangerous. Getting off on sexual contact for a straight man does not require a woman. If it did, no straight man could masturbate for God's sake! We shouldn't be pushing our own experiences on other people. Just because a majority of us couldn't get an erection for a woman, that doesn't mean that a guy can't get an erection from physical contact from another man. That is remarkably narrow minded thinking. For example, perhaps he's getting off on the power and domination aspect of having another man sexually submit to him, rather than the actual sexual act itself. Or he just doesn't care and a mouth is a mouth to him. Unfortunately, there are people out there who really are that egotistical and narcissistic. But that doesn't make them gay. It just makes them shallow jerks.


    Thank for sharing, I do more or less agree with you.
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    Sep 18, 2009 7:40 PM GMT
    This thread is new and exciting...
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    Sep 18, 2009 7:43 PM GMT
    "My issue is more when these same aforemoentioned D***noses are the first ones to call out an openly queer person and yell the homo/trans/queer-phobic comments and even engage in gay-bashings when they themselves engage in the same acts they're condeming...like I've learned very early in my life "those who deny are the ones most involved"."

    This happens because some people, as demonstrated in this thread, don't connect the deed to the identity. A lot of them have rape fantasies. It would be a way to engage in homosexual sex and not have to consider themselves to any degree homosexual.
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    Sep 18, 2009 7:54 PM GMT
    I think sexual orientation has a lot of gray areas although most of us identify with one or the other because of societal pressures from both ends... especially among men. Look at women, it's common and sometimes even encouraged for them to experiment, and most bisexual women who I know are not ashamed of it, nor are they under as great of pressure to "pick a team."

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    Sep 18, 2009 8:01 PM GMT
    RunintheCity said
    brandohsaurus said
    ...Of course, the question is: does the above statement qualify someone as gay, bi, polysexual, etc? If a category is required - as society seems to prefer, to maintain order, control, hierarchy, etc. - what would the category be!



    Phallo-centric.
  • jgymnast733

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    Sep 18, 2009 8:01 PM GMT
    Oh boy,icon_eek.gif
    I'v had my share of guys who claim to be str8 yet somehow we always wind up hooking up one way or the other...Theres this guy down the block from my job who's married yet ask's if he could come to my place after work and chill with a few beers..Let me tell you,,he didnt get 3feet into my apartment before he was all over me, and yes we FUCKED..
    Afterwards, he started feeling guilty for cheating,,which is strange because just 15minutes ago he was telling me to CUM in his mouth.....
    GO FIGUREicon_rolleyes.gif......