i dont believe there is such a thing as 100% TOP in the gay world.

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    Sep 19, 2009 10:55 AM GMT
    I think 100% tops, i.e. a guy that always want to fuck and would never compromise on getting fucked, dont exist. I am actually thinking there are more true "bisexual" guys out there than the so called "100% TOPS". There is a little bottom boy in every gay men! Nobody will say no to bottoming for the "right guy" (i.e. Bo Dixon, Josh West), its just some of us wont say yes either.

    Of course, unless you have a massive hemroid popping thats a different story.
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    Sep 19, 2009 12:24 PM GMT
    KidnapMyAffection saidWhat do you make of those gay guys who don't have penetrative sex?


    g0ys? Fuck em.



    No, actually if guys just donĀ“t like it, fine. If they get on soap tubs and start telling the rest of us that we are bad for doing it... fuck em.
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    Sep 19, 2009 1:00 PM GMT
    Guess the same thing could be said about people who say they're 100% bottom as well. icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 19, 2009 1:02 PM GMT
    Okay.... thanks for sharing.

    What do you want us to say?
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    Sep 19, 2009 1:40 PM GMT
    SAHEM62896 saidOkay.... thanks for sharing.

    What do you want us to say?
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    this is for the thread "guessing the person above you is a top or btm", everyone is basically reinforcing a stereotype, when the fact is there is no such thing as a "top look" or a ""btm look"
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    Sep 19, 2009 2:16 PM GMT
    KidnapMyAffection saidWhat do you make of those gay guys who don't have penetrative sex?



    its irrelevant for those who dont identify themselves as either "top" or "bottom"
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    Sep 19, 2009 4:25 PM GMT
    OP, sorry if this is your experience... I know at least 2 tops who can't ever entertain the idea of having their butts touched. One of them has tried being the bottom once, but just to never repeat the experience again.
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    Sep 19, 2009 4:40 PM GMT
    Well OP

    You obviously have never met me.

    Welcome to the first 100% top. Pleased to meet you
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    Sep 21, 2009 6:15 PM GMT
    We all probably know a few guys that would never go for it. For some people, it's not at all pleasurable.

    I also know bottoms that get dizzy at the thought of putting it in someone. Just too much for them.
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    Sep 21, 2009 6:20 PM GMT
    Idk...i think im pretty close to 100% top lol. I really dont have a desire to bottom at all. But then again, im 21...i might change my mind later. Or if I happen to get a chance with Brady Quinn lol
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    Sep 21, 2009 6:23 PM GMT
    You probably need to get out more.
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    Sep 21, 2009 6:40 PM GMT
    MMMMMM.. 100% Top icon_razz.gif.....icon_cool.gif

    I wouldn't mind haveing one of thoes for myselficon_twisted.gif

    even though i'm a Bottom Versatile
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    Jan 17, 2010 1:04 AM GMT
    I guess it just kind of bothers me. I find it completely unattractive for a guy to flat-out refuse to bottom, like they're too masculine for it. I understand if there are issues downstairs that make it uncomfortable or painful, but no one is too manly, and being 100% vers w/my bf is the best thing in the world for me because we both get to give each other everything we have to offer:-D
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    Jan 17, 2010 1:15 AM GMT
    emailaddress saidI think 100% tops, i.e. a guy that always want to fuck and would never compromise on getting fucked, dont exist. I am actually thinking there are more true "bisexual" guys out there than the so called "100% TOPS". There is a little bottom boy in every gay men! Nobody will say no to bottoming for the "right guy" (i.e. Bo Dixon, Josh West), its just some of us wont say yes either.

    Of course, unless you have a massive hemroid popping thats a different story.


    What's the definition of Tender Love?

    Two homosexuals with hemorrhoids!

    As a pure homosexual, I can tell you kn-one will be topping me, it ain't gonna be happening to me!

    But from my experiences with bisexual men, many of them can't get those legs up in the air fast enough, and they have very little interest in being a top, as thats their role with the girls. But not all.
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    Jan 17, 2010 1:40 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidBlah blah blah...

    Looks like the hens in the hen house are yacking it up again. icon_lol.gif


    Just like in The View?

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    Jan 17, 2010 1:41 AM GMT
    really? my b/f is 100% top. he medically can not bttm, so yeah, he's 100% top.
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    Jan 17, 2010 4:54 PM GMT
    really? i haven't found anyone yet that i wanted to bottom for. maybe if i met the right guy . . .
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    Jan 17, 2010 5:16 PM GMT
    KansasColt09 saidI guess it just kind of bothers me. I find it completely unattractive for a guy to flat-out refuse to bottom, like they're too masculine for it.


    That's often the sense I get from guys who identify as exclusively top. I remember one time the subject came up one evening with a few of my friends, all tops as it turned out. Although they mostly talked about how bottoming just didn't appeal to them, they really seemed to be saying " 'Cause we're hombres"

    As the sole vers in the group, I said, "You boys just do not know what you are missing," and left the porch.
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    Jan 18, 2010 7:18 PM GMT
    What if it has nothing to do with masculinity or femininity? What if a guy just doesn't like to bottom? Should a guy who gets no pleasure (or even has pain) from bottoming force himself to do so just to placate people like you?!

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    KansasColt09 saidI guess it just kind of bothers me. I find it completely unattractive for a guy to flat-out refuse to bottom, like they're too masculine for it.


    That's often the sense I get from guys who identify as exclusively top. I remember one time the subject came up one evening with a few of my friends, all tops as it turned out. Although they mostly talked about how bottoming just didn't appeal to them, they really seemed to be saying " 'Cause we're hombres"

    As the sole vers in the group, I said, "You boys just do not know what you are missing," and left the porch.
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    Jan 18, 2010 7:28 PM GMT
    I like dick. Being picky is just being hard.
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    Jan 18, 2010 7:44 PM GMT
    I am 100 percent bottom. i dont ever want to be a top. its just not me..
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    Jan 18, 2010 8:08 PM GMT
    I'm exclusively a top...I bottomed for two of my boyfriends (twice with one and three times with the other) and just didn't like it.
    Its not that I dislike bottoming because of the masc/fem thing, its because I genuinely don't like things in my ass...doesn't hit the right spot for me.

    Besides, I think bottoms need more credit for taking it, instead of that "oh, he's the girl in the relationship" BS I always hear.
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    Jan 18, 2010 8:11 PM GMT
    I like a 100% bottom

    Don't tell me none exists!
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    Jan 18, 2010 8:27 PM GMT
    KansasColt09 saidI guess it just kind of bothers me. I find it completely unattractive for a guy to flat-out refuse to bottom, like they're too masculine for it. I understand if there are issues downstairs that make it uncomfortable or painful, but no one is too manly, and being 100% vers w/my bf is the best thing in the world for me because we both get to give each other everything we have to offer:-D



    It bothers you? really?? I find it completely unattractive when somebody is bothered that what's right for him isn't right for everybody else. Don't you have more important things to get bothered by?

    While I'm in a ranting mood: What exactly is 100% vers, anyway? As opposed to 75% vers?

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    Jan 18, 2010 8:32 PM GMT
    McGay saidYou probably need to get out more.


    Well said icon_smile.gif