You know I'm really getting tired of Bi-sexuals and other sexual deviants getting hated on and being scolded for not comforming to the rules of straight or gay.
People there is such thing as a Kinsey scale and just because you identify as one thing doesn't necessarily tell the whole story. We're humyn and we evolve and grow; so does our sexual tendencies.. what turns us on in our 20's isn't necessarily going to be the same in our 30's 40's 50's etc.
I'm a Queer Identifed, Gender Non-conformist male. That is I LIVE my life as a GAY MALE however, that's not the entire story and I'm not married to that "label". I don't attach myself to rules of gender either [I don't have a perferred gender pronoun (PGP); refer to me as he or she as you please]. One can identify as gay and still be attracted to womyn. You might not be able to connect with a female like you do a male or male bodied person but it's still there. I'm trying to to introduce gender identity too much into this topic (sexuailty and gender identity are 2 different animals) however, what if you're Gay indentified and fall for a Trans-person (MTF or FTM)? I can still find womyn (trans MTF included)very attractive but I can't connect like I do with a Male (Trans FTM included).
I mean there's so much more to it and we should know better than to demean Bisexuality. It DOES exist and it IS real and contrary to popular belief, it is not a "gateway" to Gay-dom as much as we'd like to think it is.
In fact I had a mentor who was Gay Identified and realised he was very much attracted and connected to womyn as well as men and now identifies as bi-sexual/queer. (Queer doesn't equate gay all the time for everyone).
It amazes me the amount of ignorance and closed-mindedness that exists within the Gay comunity at times. We cannot expect to demand equal rights and everything else AND be ignorant about other people's chosen lifestyles. It doesn't work that way.