we tried to let my cock in his asshole last night, but was unsuccessful! shit... his ah is too tight! and get a big big big butt, can't get in that made me soft so many time, got hard then soft down... well.. reasonable he's vers t! haha
I could be. Usually, because I am uptight and squeeze my muscle out of fear of getting hurt, AIDS, STD or other reason. But if I am full heartedly surrendering myself to be penetrated , in a calm relaxing environment then I will loosing up .
My top need to really make love to me and make me cormfortable for the next stage.
My boyfriend has had this problem in the past. There have been times where it was impossible for him to to do anything but knock on the gate. One ex even claimed that sex hurt too much for him because his 'sit bones' were too close together...
As mentioned above it really depends on a few things, is the bottom ready for it and the physiology of both parties. Some guys have small hands, others have small asses. Take a top with a wide cock and a bottom with a tight butt, and it just ain't gonna happen without someone crying.
I'm really tight, and some people haven't been able to gain entrance. It just takes a little bit of time to get things lossened up and ready for penetration. I've also found that I do a lot better if my partner and I use silicon based lubes.