Can a bottom...

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    Sep 27, 2009 4:40 AM GMT
    ...be too tight? I had this happen and the guy got off, but to me it felt like a tourniquet. Has anybody else had a bottom that was too tight?
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    Sep 27, 2009 3:51 PM GMT
    Well, was he nervous? Or, is he inexperienced? Both could contribute to real tightness.
  • mctrinh84

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    Sep 27, 2009 8:30 PM GMT
    we tried to let my cock in his asshole last night, but was unsuccessful! shit... his ah is too tight! and get a big big big butt, can't get in that made me soft so many time, got hard then soft down... well.. reasonable he's vers t! haha
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    Sep 27, 2009 9:34 PM GMT
    no, he just hasn't had sex in a long time. He was relaxed, but it was really tight.
  • zakariahzol

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    Sep 27, 2009 10:51 PM GMT
    I could be. Usually, because I am uptight and squeeze my muscle out of fear of getting hurt, AIDS, STD or other reason. But if I am full heartedly surrendering myself to be penetrated , in a calm relaxing environment then I will loosing up .

    My top need to really make love to me and make me cormfortable for the next stage.
  • Melos

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    Sep 28, 2009 11:14 PM GMT
    My boyfriend has had this problem in the past. There have been times where it was impossible for him to to do anything but knock on the gate. One ex even claimed that sex hurt too much for him because his 'sit bones' were too close together...

    As mentioned above it really depends on a few things, is the bottom ready for it and the physiology of both parties. Some guys have small hands, others have small asses. Take a top with a wide cock and a bottom with a tight butt, and it just ain't gonna happen without someone crying.
  • Timbales

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    Sep 28, 2009 11:25 PM GMT
    I remember one time when I was younger a guy said he thought I left bruises on his dick.
  • rnch

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    Sep 28, 2009 11:44 PM GMT
    rimming, lube, one, two, three fingers...and a bottle of fresh poppers has never failed me. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 29, 2009 9:53 PM GMT
    use a lot of LUBE !
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    Sep 30, 2009 12:07 AM GMT
    I'm really tight, and some people haven't been able to gain entrance. It just takes a little bit of time to get things lossened up and ready for penetration. I've also found that I do a lot better if my partner and I use silicon based lubes.