Honeymoon Phase

  • Joeyphx444

    Posts: 2382

    Sep 28, 2009 2:51 AM GMT
    So when you meet a guy and everything is clicking and he comes up to you first or msgs u online first you guys have a great first convo and you have all this and that in common then like you talk a lot for a week or so then he seems to get bored when you are just as into it as you were in the beginning, what the hell happened?

    What's up with that? For me, it's been online when a guy will msg me or I will msg him and from the starts it just clicks and everything is great, but then they don't talk to you anymore or not as much or something. I don't like to feel like I am competing for someone's attention. So if they are busy, wouldn't you think they would take time to talk to you or send u a little msg? To me, that is fake. If someone really liked talkin to you and you guys clicked, they would nto just stop and ignore you or anything. When u like someone u dont just go away right? Is it that people just get so bored so soon?
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    Sep 28, 2009 9:32 PM GMT
    It could be too much to fast. (Overload) Sometimes people feel like they might miss out on another opportunity, so they don't place all there cards on the table which leaves you at pause until they decide to revisit if nothing else comes along. don't invest so much so quickly and you won't have such a strong attachment. In the meantime enjoy meeting new people. When the rt guy comes along, he'll stick around after all it will be you that he's been searching for!