Lapinblanc saidA straight guy will stick it in any hole...
And so do a lot of gay men...or maybe you missed that memo, lol.
chungo44 saidThe straight men I know are just as picky
Yeah, this is not a gay thing. But, having less options (because we make up a small portion of the population), doesn't mean you should be LESS picky, and settle for someone who's not good for you. There's a huge difference between compromise, and "putting up with."
There are certain things I know off the bat I'm probably not going to have in common with someone (music, hobbies), and I'm totally cool with that if they are (those are things that make us individuals).
There are other things I may not like (like political views, or certain behaviors), but am willing to tolerate as long as they agree to disagree, and they can also accept my differences.
Then there are things that are such immediate turn offs that I won't look past them (smoking, drugs, conceit, capri-pants).
Besides...honestly, I really dislike dating. Don't get me wrong; relationships are great. But, so is being single for just as many reasons. It's just the "dating" part in between the two that is the most annoying, lol.