Why are some people on RJ this dense?

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    Oct 01, 2009 6:04 AM GMT
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    what an attractive, ambitious, busy man!
    how you doing?


    10 days later (mind you I had been studying for class and in Boston without a computer for the majority of this time)...
    RANDOM MEMBER:
    wow
    i wonder why it's so hard for people to say hello back ? this is like the rudest site ever



    I'd just like to point out that if you message someone and they don't reply to you, then please

    (a) get over it
    (b) understand there's a number of reasons why they didn't reply to you
    (c) don't erroneously conclude that they are rude and then message them telling them they are not rude for not replying to your earlier message
    (d) please please please stop being retarded.

    Ok kids get out your popcorn because I smell flame wars coming up in this thread! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 01, 2009 6:16 AM GMT

    If you don't like random members to whine to you about not messaging them back expediently then why the fuck do you think we want you to whine to us about it?

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    Oh dear, i would never use such language, but it's a JakeBenson thread. icon_surprised.gif
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    Oct 01, 2009 6:25 AM GMT
    GuiltyGear said
    If you don't like random members to whine to you about not messaging them back expediently then why the fuck do you think we want you to whine to us about it?

    I didn't send YOU a private message flaming you for ignoring me. Do you get the difference? Sigh, of course not. Wow the stupidity is growing. What else do you fail to understand? Here, sit down. Have some tea. Tell Jake what else is wrong with the general left hemisphere of your cerebral cortex.


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    Oh dear, i would never use such language, but it's a JakeBenson thread. icon_surprised.gif


    hahahahaahah Finally you are becoming caustic and that's more entertaining. See, the word "fuck" is fun and you should use it more often.

    Btw I whine because I'm Jewish and I love attention but most importantly because I want to strike a flame war on why idiots get pissed off when I DON'T give them attention.
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    Oct 01, 2009 6:28 AM GMT
    crtrainer saidIs this a one time thing or do you meet a lot of people like this?


    Happens occasionally. Hence the title of the thread is labelled appropriately as "some" and not "most" or "all."

    I want this guy who messaged me to come into the public forums and defend himself to public why he decided I was "rude" and the whole RJ site in general was "rude" simply because I didn't reply to him in 10 days.
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    Oct 01, 2009 6:38 AM GMT
    Oh Jack,

    why didn´t you reply to me you are so rude etc etc Didn´t yo momma tell you be polite to people etc etc. The youth of today blalablabla


    OK It wasn´t me because (1) I don´t expect Jake to reply to me (2) he normally does anyway (even if the last time it was to decline starting a flame war in my All in one thread) and (3) I wouldn´t write back if he didn´t write back unless I wanted to pull him, and he´s too far away for that.

    Carry on camping!
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    Oct 01, 2009 6:48 AM GMT
    Sounds like my problems with text messaging.


    Douchebag: Hey Chris, whats up?

    meanwhile I'm in class with my phone off. 2 minutes later I get

    Douchebag: What the hell, are you ignoring me?
    Douchebag: Did I do something to piss you off?
    Fraternity Brother: tonights thingy blah blah blah
    Douchebag: Seriously you don't have to be an asshole.
    Mom: some random hysterical picture.



    That's most days. If my Mommy and fraternity brothers can understand I can't respond right away, why can't Douchebag?




    But yeah anyways. I know what you mean, just keep in mind that some people are on a WHOLE different playing field both mentally and emotionally. If you had responded rudely, that would be rude. Not responding is only rude if it's intended to be, but the ignoree has no way of knowing that, now do they?
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    Oct 01, 2009 7:13 AM GMT
    JakeBenson said[...]

    mind you I had been studying for class and in Boston without a computer for the majority of this time

    [...]

    Why didn't you just reply with this? I'm sure it would have made the guy feel a little foolish for being so harsh.
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    Oct 01, 2009 7:20 AM GMT
    I would totally throw a major bitch fit if JakeBenson didn't reply to my message...


    SO WATCH OUT!

    =P
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    Oct 01, 2009 7:43 AM GMT
    Lostboy said
    OK It wasn´t me because (1) I don´t expect Jake to reply to me (2) he normally does anyway (even if the last time it was to decline starting a flame war in my All in one thread) and (3) I wouldn´t write back if he didn´t write back unless I wanted to pull him, and he´s too far away for that.


    hahhah no it wasn't you. Even though I haven't replied to all your messages.
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    Oct 01, 2009 7:45 AM GMT
    the messages normally say something like "put me on your hotlist, bitch".

    Sometimes you obey. BTW I have named my dildo Jake.
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    Oct 01, 2009 7:46 AM GMT
    xrichx said
    JakeBenson said[...]

    mind you I had been studying for class and in Boston without a computer for the majority of this time

    [...]

    Why didn't you just reply with this? I'm sure it would have made the guy feel a little foolish for being so harsh.


    Oh I'm sorry, let me get on to the computer and type out 100 messages, "Hi here's where I was in the past TEN days so you don't think I didn't reply because I'm rude."

    You do have a good point, but I'd rather not try to make friends with someone who has clearly demonstrated a lack of basic understanding already.
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    Oct 01, 2009 7:47 AM GMT
    Lostboy saidthe messages normally say something like "put me on your hotlist, bitch".

    Sometimes you obey. BTW I have named my dildo Jake.


    Yeah your vulgar language actually is both entertaining to read and makes me open up the messages from you.
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    Oct 01, 2009 9:34 AM GMT
    I call b.s

    You had your [s]iphone[/s] gayphone with you. You totally surf rj with it. icon_biggrin.gif

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    Oct 01, 2009 3:05 PM GMT
    Years ago, when there were things called "party lines" (and no, I'm not talking about how long you have to wait to get into your favorite $10.00 a drink nightclub!) we learned patience. You sometimes had to delay making a phone call since someone else---usually the neighborhood gossip--- was tying up the phone line.
    Even after private lines were standard, I learned a valuable idea from the lady down the street when I was collecting for the newspaper {you see children, time was when young boys and girls used to actually DELIVER your paper to your door-stoop every morning or afternoon, on credit none the less! and would come around bi-weekly or monthly to collect for the previous deliveries.Strange, huh?}
    While she was getting out her money from her purse I heard her phone ring and, trying to be polite, said "You can answer that if you want."
    She replied: "I pay for the phone. I'll answer it if I feel like it.Just because it rings doesn't mean I have to jump and answer it. If it's important, they'll call back."

    Just remember: YOU pay for the text phone, or the internet connection. It's up to YOU whether you reply to anyone or not. Stop being a slave to electronics!

    "Just because the phone rings, doesn't mean you have to answer it"
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    Oct 01, 2009 3:14 PM GMT
    Well jakebenson you've ben quite civil in our few contacts, and actually if someone wrote me as you stated the above guy did, i'd be aggrevated too. So the best to you buddy !!!
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    Oct 01, 2009 3:23 PM GMT
    Ahhhhhh, You know this is coming so I'm just gonna put it out there...
    What color was this memeber? Now go back to your studies.
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    Oct 01, 2009 6:24 PM GMT
    Hillie saidAhhhhhh, You know this is coming so I'm just gonna put it out there...
    What color was this memeber? Now go back to your studies.


    He was BLAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACK!

    Do we really want to bring race into this? Because I ignore more white guys than black guys on RJ. FAR more white guys than black guys.

    And yes I would consider having sex with a black guy. I've crushed on plenty of them (all straight though).

    Anyway, race card is over and sooooo 2004.

    Next question.
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    Oct 01, 2009 6:57 PM GMT
    I don't believe you. No black guy writes or talks like that. He sounds like an Abercrombie and Fitch loving white guy.

    Flame on. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 01, 2009 7:00 PM GMT
    I am going to highjack your thread for a minute, Jake. Where are all of the good flame wars? I haven't seen any threads vanish because they got to hot to handle. What I wrote above me will most likely not start a flame war, but will be shrugged off?

    And have you gotten out of the comic strip biz, Jake?
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    Oct 01, 2009 8:24 PM GMT
    Balljunkie saidI am going to highjack your thread for a minute, Jake. Where are all of the good flame wars? I haven't seen any threads vanish because they got to hot to handle. What I wrote above me will most likely not start a flame war, but will be shrugged off?

    And have you gotten out of the comic strip biz, Jake?


    I think most of the stupid and ignorant people got flamed until they quit the site. We just ahve to wait for a fresh wave of dumb.
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    Oct 01, 2009 8:27 PM GMT
    I blocked their posts. i can´t see them anymore. IT´s great.
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    Oct 02, 2009 12:36 AM GMT
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    Balljunkie saidI am going to highjack your thread for a minute, Jake. Where are all of the good flame wars? I haven't seen any threads vanish because they got to hot to handle. What I wrote above me will most likely not start a flame war, but will be shrugged off?

    And have you gotten out of the comic strip biz, Jake?


    I think most of the stupid and ignorant people got flamed until they quit the site. We just ahve to wait for a fresh wave of dumb.


    AAAAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHHAHA.

    True, that and the idiots who used to complain here and complain to the admins simply block people's posts now that the option is available. To them happiness is better than truth. I'd rather expose myself to everything: hence have not blocked a single person yet. This is probably why I'm bitter: because I don't block out what really goes on in an attempt to aggrandize a delirious state of happiness.
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    Oct 02, 2009 12:56 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]JakeBenson said[ I'd rather expose myself to everything: hence have not blocked a single person yet. This is probably why I'm bitter: because I don't block out what really goes on in an attempt to aggrandize a delirious state of happiness.
    [/quote] >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Jake, man has it really been all that bad? How often are you getting hit on by the likes of what you described to start the forum topic?
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    Oct 02, 2009 12:59 AM GMT
    haha. insecure guys tend to blame me for their problems too. they are needing you to be validated Jake and you dissed them.
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    Oct 02, 2009 1:00 AM GMT
    realifedad said[quote] Jake, man has it really been all that bad? How often are you getting hit on by the likes of what you described to start the forum topic?


    It's bad enough where I got banned twice. Now that "ignore his posts" is possible, pussies who can't deal with multifarious opinions now have the option of living in bliss. And obviously this "ignore his posts" has become possible from a multitude of people complaining to have this option come into existence...I've even read them here and there on public forums before.