I would/will NEVER....

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    Oct 02, 2009 3:48 PM GMT
    I'm curious as to how often each of us says this about something that they've never experienced.*

    Examples would be something like, but not limited to the following:

    I would couldn't have a boyfriend who_______.

    I would never eat _____ because its ______.

    I will never go to a(n)___________.

    What interests me is that, being older, I realize that many of the limitations I've put on myself were arbitrary and that jumping those limitations has been liberating. Also, I have found that my experiences with real life situations changed my view on how I would deal or might react with situations that were very different than the 'theoretically sound' proposals I'd had prior to the experience. It could be food, politics, religion/spirituality, sexuality, style, values, anything. It really is the issue of how your life experience has changed what you thought or were taught was true.

    * I'm excluding the obvious issues of things that are life threatening, absurd/impossible.

    My example is this: Prior to having my apartment burglarized, I knew that if something like that had ever happened to me, I would feel violated. I would be upset about having items broken or stolen, but the idea of feeling violated was silly.
    After it happened, (and they only stole a TV and a VCR), I then understood that feeling of not being safe at home. The feeling that someone had sullied part of my life.
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    Oct 02, 2009 7:20 PM GMT
    Ah, but you haven't described your experiences with amphibians and alchemists (assuming they are not one and the same) that changed your mind.

    Hmmmmm???
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    Oct 02, 2009 7:26 PM GMT
    jprichva saidI couldn't have a boyfriend who.....
    ...is an amphibian. or sex kitty they don't stay that way icon_sad.gif

    I would never eat....
    library paste or at jack and the crack.Hmmm let me thing about thaticon_eek.gif
    ...because it's...
    damned hard to find nowadays and everyone wants too.

    I will never go to a[n]...
    alchemist or doctor they go to the same schools






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    Oct 02, 2009 8:04 PM GMT
    I would couldn't have a boyfriend whoate his own boogers and then wanted to snowball them with me.


    I would never eat....pig brains

    ...because it's...uh...pig brains


    I will never go to an black club drunk (again) and it is nearly a thousand degrees inside the club and another thousand degrees outside the club.
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    Oct 02, 2009 8:11 PM GMT
    Never thought I'd date a guy with a bald spot and shorter than 5'7 but here I am and he has got to be the hottest short guy on the planet. Just goes to show that a hot body can make up for a lot of shit haha!