How do you know if a guy is checking you out?

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    Oct 03, 2009 5:59 AM GMT
    Hey,
    I'm pretty oblivious when it comes to if guys are checking me out. I don't know if they are just looking at me or checking me out. Lol! I mean I know the typical signs like if they smile and so on, but are there any other things I should pay attention to?

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    Oct 03, 2009 11:43 AM GMT
    Thanks icon_smile.gif, yeah I'm pretty new at all this, so just trying to get some insight on stuff.

    Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it. icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 03, 2009 11:50 AM GMT
    The only time someone checks me out is in the 20 items or less line at wal-mart. nyuck nyuck

    But seriously, I would'nt know.
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    Oct 03, 2009 12:20 PM GMT
    Nothing say I want a piece of that like a firm open palmed slap to the behind icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 03, 2009 12:52 PM GMT
    Smacking Drews ass with my open palm....
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    Oct 03, 2009 1:02 PM GMT
    You gotta be open to their interest, in whatever shape it takes, to receive the message. It's probably happening in many different ways but you may not know it yet...just keep an open heart and mind and try to keep your guard down so that you can receive the message(s) when they come...and maybe you can find a way to send back or out what your thinking from a distance, too!

    Good luck
  • mustangd

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    Oct 03, 2009 1:22 PM GMT
    is the old, " i looked up and saw someone in the mirror looking at me and he gave himself whiplash with how fast his head snapped back to another direction " still a viable means of noticing interest? this would be a variation of the above mentioned checking a shoe routine. ( at the gym or any where in public )
  • Melos

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    Oct 03, 2009 2:37 PM GMT
    I've encountered a slightly different breed back in the day. I used to be very behind the learning curve thinking I liked girls most of my life. I used to notice something I kinda called 'the look' from girls starting in college.

    Their eyes squint a little like they are thinking about a really really hard math problem and they give you the ol' up and down, usually starting at the feet and then slowly to your head. Like everyone else mentioned, if you caught them in the process they would act like a deer in headlights and quickly stop everything they are doing and look away. This doesn't exactly mean that she wants your nuts, but that she at least noticed you and may be interested.

    With gay guys, I've had a different experience depending on the setting. At the gym, the creepers tend to continue creeping regardless of what my response is. At the bars, a firm ass grab generally tells you that they have been keeping an eye on you. In either situation, if you feel like someone is staring in to your soul from behind, look around and you are usually right.
  • rdberg1957

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    Oct 03, 2009 2:51 PM GMT
    I also have trouble knowing when guys are looking at me or are interested. Someone has to be pretty direct for me to notice--since I am from Minnesota, that rarely happens. Eye contact is helpful--if someone makes eye contact, that's a clue that they are interested at some level. However, in Minnesota, eye contact is very limited until you know someone.
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    Oct 03, 2009 2:53 PM GMT
    mattyrec saidSmacking Drews ass with my open palm....


    *queues up next to Drew*
  • iCute23

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    Oct 03, 2009 5:06 PM GMT
    Hmm...
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    Oct 03, 2009 5:31 PM GMT
    crtrainer saidIf you're someplace like a gay bar you probably ARE being checked out. But an interesting gamesy thing I've seen is people who go out of thier way NOT to look at you..........No Shit! If you feel someone looking & then when you return the look he's suddenly studying his shoe, watch, scratching nose or eyes, rubbing his head or trying to look "casual" in a very deliberate way - there's a possibility that he was looking & didn't want to get caught! After all - who can resist the fascination of a shoe - right?


    Absolutely frickin hilarious! thank you sir. so true and too funny.
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    Oct 03, 2009 6:01 PM GMT
    crtrainer saidaw Niceguy - I really like your topics...............If you're someplace like a gay bar you probably ARE being checked out. But an interesting gamesy thing I've seen is people who go out of thier way NOT to look at you..........No Shit! If you feel someone looking & then when you return the look he's suddenly studying his shoe, watch, scratching nose or eyes, rubbing his head or trying to look "casual" in a very deliberate way - there's a possibility that he was looking & didn't want to get caught! After all - who can resist the fascination of a shoe - right? If you sense that this is going on, you can smile directly at the guy and 1) He'll respond to your manly direct approach 2)He'll run for the hills (not yet an adult - maybe next time) or 3) Look at you weird because he really was looking at his shoe
    If you're at the gym or someplace not exclusively gay it's tricky. Just keep talking to the guy, even if it takes several conversations over a period of time & you'll find out if he's straight, interested or whatever.
    Good Luck ( & give us progress reports) icon_wink.gif


    Ha actually that made helped me big time... thanks man.
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    Oct 03, 2009 6:35 PM GMT
    If he is looking at you for more than 5 minutes and a little bit of drool is dangling from his mouth, he just might be checking you out...or he might have rabies.
  • sumdude

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    Oct 07, 2009 6:00 PM GMT
    Melos said: Their eyes squint a little like they are thinking about a really really hard math problem and they give you the ol' up and down, usually starting at the feet and then slowly to your head.

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    I always thought it was bad. I meabn like intellectually I can appreciate that this happens and people have told me about this - but when it has happened to me - I always just wanna barney with the guy cos I feel like he's wanting to fight. And sometimes he's hooooot.
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  • sumdude

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    Oct 07, 2009 6:05 PM GMT
    My conclusion is that the next time it's a hot guy I'm gonna just give him the chin nod and say "wassup" or maybe smile and say "wassup."
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    Oct 07, 2009 6:06 PM GMT
    here are some clear signs.

    * if he grabs your butt as you walk by, you look back and he winks at you
    * if he looks at you from afar, smiling and winking at you, keep staring and doesn't look away
    * if he looks, then glance away as you look at him, he might feel shy or embarassed
    * if he smiles at you and starting to say "Hi"
    * if he comes over and ask you to dance or buy you a drink
    * if he looks you up and down with the stare - like he's imagining you naked

    Ok, some for now, will post more if I think of any. icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 07, 2009 7:03 PM GMT
    SexySwimmer saidhere are some clear signs.

    * if he grabs your butt as you walk by, you look back and he winks at you
    * if he looks at you from afar, smiling and winking at you, keep staring and doesn't look away
    * if he looks, then glance away as you look at him, he might feel shy or embarassed
    * if he smiles at you and starting to say "Hi"
    * if he comes over and ask you to dance or buy you a drink
    * if he looks you up and down with the stare - like he's imagining you naked

    Ok, some for now, will post more if I think of any. icon_cool.gif


    Haha, thanks! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 07, 2009 10:24 PM GMT
    TheNiceGuy1986 saidHey,
    I'm pretty oblivious when it comes to if guys are checking me out. I don't know if they are just looking at me or checking me out. Lol! I mean I know the typical signs like if they smile and so on, but are there any other things I should pay attention to?

    Thanks! icon_biggrin.gif


    Hey I'm just like you. I have no clue either. There is this dude who works at one of the markets I go to all the time and there is just this vibe I get off him but I'm not sure if I'm reading it right. It confuses me. He's fucking hot as hell but his girlfriend works in the meat department. I know this because he struck up a lame conversation with me that had no meaning and made a point to point out his girlfriend but every time I go there and he's working even when he's helping some one he always looks in my direction and gives that nod and smile and for some reason I start blushing. Confuses the hell out of me. I won't lie I'd jump the check out dude at my market if given the chance but I'd like to know for sure before I just start humping his leg while he calls 911 on me icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 07, 2009 10:39 PM GMT
    Seems that the recurring theme is a hand on the arse
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    Oct 07, 2009 11:14 PM GMT

    How do you know if a guy is checking you out?

    He does this.


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