What do you look at in the shower?

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    Oct 04, 2009 11:08 AM GMT
    When you see a man next to you in the shower or locker room, do you first of all look at his cock or do you check out his muscles?

    I used to always focus on a guy's penis (and, after that, his balls). But now that I have been doing more and more lifting, I seem to be more interested in sizing myself up against another stud. It is like some form of primitive rivalry, like the male of the species does in nature...

    In the past I was always wanting to be sure I was the guy with the biggest cock. But now I want to be the guy with the biggest muscles, and I would trade having the biggest cock for the biggest muscles.

    My proudest day was recently - a mate, a champion powerlifter, had got me into bodybuilding by taking me to the gym. After we had showered, he said he could not help notice the size of my penis and complimented me on it (to be honest, it was bigger than usual, because I had stayed overnight at his the day before, and I had not had an opportunity to jack off, so it was a bit more swollen than usual). But recently, he complimented me on my muscle size, which to me is now better than someone complimenting me on the size of my manhood. Does anyone else agree?

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    Oct 04, 2009 8:03 PM GMT

    Man, ya'll are brave! I look at the floor of course because I don't know if the object of my affection is straight or not. Didn't you guys read on here about a member of this site who went to Philly and almost got his head taken off for cruising in the locker room? I've struggled a lot trying to come to grips with my homosexuality and I have accepted that it's not this deplorable stain on society I used to think it was. I find that knowledge hard to maintain when I'm administering possibly unwanted advances to random citizens in locker rooms. It almost reinforces a notion that gay men are sex crazed and look at any man part in view, propriety be damned! That said, I look at ass when he's turned around. If he's standing right, you can see a hairy sack or a particularly pendulous dick from the back too.


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    Oct 04, 2009 8:05 PM GMT
    ass every time.
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    Oct 04, 2009 8:10 PM GMT
    Welcome to RJ!

    I never want to make anyone feel uncomfortable and especially get the Idea that I'm making sexual advances so I never look unless I get that eye contact that says........HEY
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    Oct 04, 2009 9:24 PM GMT
    Wow hahaha. I generally keep my eyes to myself as I am a men's locker room and I doubt they would want me checking them out.
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    Oct 04, 2009 9:32 PM GMT
    In the locker room...??? I don't look, I go for it. Usually I get about a good 30 secs of that sweetness before he AND his friends knock me unconscious. LMAO Just kiddin
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    Oct 05, 2009 1:13 PM GMT
    THIS, if I can!





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    Oct 05, 2009 2:21 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidass every time.


    Same here. Love the ass and lower back.
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    Oct 06, 2009 3:06 AM GMT
    Toejam.

    How can so much accumulate in just one day?
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    Oct 06, 2009 4:18 AM GMT

    A gotta see a freak so I can steal his towel after he uses it, take it home, and sleep with it.
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    Oct 06, 2009 5:16 AM GMT
    Noticing muscles and being noticed or complimented on muscles is a lot more meaningful than penises. Your penis is basically the one you have genetically and that's that.

    Muscles, tone, definition ... these are things you worked for and an accomplishment worthy of notice, compliment, and admiration.
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    Oct 06, 2009 4:51 PM GMT
    I always have my blinders on. Unless of course a guy is sprawled out naked in the sauna, begging to be looked at! ;)
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    Oct 09, 2009 2:18 PM GMT
    I'm surprised at some of the answers here - maybe that is a North American thing? In European locker rooms, or at least where I work out, it seems to be the done thing to pose. If a guy has something to show off, he will proudly show it off to others, inviting a look/chance to admire. I usually look at a guy a bit like a doctor - dispassionately, but with a clear professional interest in the muscle groups, cock and balls, etc. Of course, I am not a doctor. But all my str8 mates themselves always check out a guy's manhood out of a sort of male interest.
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    Nov 18, 2009 6:18 AM GMT
    brandohsaurus said
    Lostboy saidass every time.


    Same here. Love the ass and lower back.


    Yep
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    Nov 18, 2009 11:09 AM GMT
    I look at it all if it's nice to look at - I'm only human!

    I'd do it discretely though, as others have said, they might not appreciate you looking so it's not fair to be blatant about it!
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    Nov 18, 2009 7:42 PM GMT
    Um, nothing. I can't see much without my glasses, so it's mostly lost on me as to what nice visuals there are to had there. icon_sad.gif

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    abs - i go straight for the abs. such a sucker for a 6-pack
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    Apr 22, 2010 1:40 AM GMT
    mplsmike saidUm, nothing. I can't see much without my glasses, so it's mostly lost on me as to what nice visuals there are to had there. icon_sad.gif

    Hahaha win
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    Apr 22, 2010 2:39 AM GMT
    LawSchoolFoolNOLA saidabs - i go straight for the abs. such a sucker for a 6-pack


    This is the same for me, followed by (in this order mostly!) cock, ass, chest, face, teeth, posture, back, thighs, legs, feet, nose, eyes, hair, and last but not least - where his eyes are looking on ME.
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    Apr 22, 2010 3:46 AM GMT
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    LawSchoolFoolNOLA saidabs - i go straight for the abs. such a sucker for a 6-pack


    This is the same for me, followed by (in this order mostly!) cock, ass, chest, face, teeth, posture, back, thighs, legs, feet, nose, eyes, hair, and last but not least - where his eyes are looking on ME.

    Holy crap you really have it planned out. If I find someone attractive I'm never really sure why.
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    Apr 22, 2010 3:49 AM GMT
    Sumarokoff saidWhen you see a man next to you in the shower or locker room, do you first of all look at his cock or do you check out his muscles?

    Muscles...because every man has a dick, but not every man has a great physique.
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    Apr 22, 2010 7:01 PM GMT
    Honestly, the muscles. I like good muscley legs, but MORE than a sexual thing, I'm looking for a bit of inspiration. I like being able to say not just "I WANT to look like that," but "I CAN look like that."
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    Apr 22, 2010 7:49 PM GMT
    Everything surreptitiously. If it looks good, though, I'll let them see me check out their torso in a kind of straight, confident way. I think even straight guys like having their chest admired, and you never know.
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    Apr 22, 2010 7:53 PM GMT
    I look at both. But if I had to pick, I'd rather be the most buff guy than the most well-endowed.

    But I'd rather be with the most buff guy who is also the most well-endowed.
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    Apr 22, 2010 8:30 PM GMT
    My gym has stalls. There is nothing to look at.