Lack of gaydar !

  • Artesin

    Posts: 482

    Dec 14, 2007 7:00 AM GMT
    When you lack gaydar and don't go to any gay bars how do you manage to find men? I suspect that some people in my school may be closet cases but how would I go about getting a bit closer to them? I'm openly gay but I don't go flaunting it about and I'm generally outgoing and laid back. Any guys that are out seem to be grosely overweight or overly (annoyling so) flamboyant.
  • HndsmKansan

    Posts: 16305

    Dec 14, 2007 1:33 PM GMT
    Well I started a threat on "Gaydar" some time ago (you might scroll down and find it). My Gaydar isn't very good, but part of that is because I don't pay much attention to whats going on around me when I'm focused (like shopping).

    I do know when it happens, however. I had a nice guy say hello when I was in a store about 2 weeks ago and I knew immediately. Its the look given you and its immediate.

    Gaydar is something that may be developed over time.
    I would suggest you hang around with some gay friends and that will help you by watching interaction between them....and with others.
  • 1AlanZSky

    Posts: 1505

    Jan 05, 2015 8:16 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidWell I started a threat on "Gaydar" some time ago (you might scroll down and find it). My Gaydar isn't very good, but part of that is because I don't pay much attention to whats going on around me when I'm focused (like shopping).

    I do know when it happens, however. I had a nice guy say hello when I was in a store about 2 weeks ago and I knew immediately. Its the look given you and its immediate.

    Gaydar is something that may be developed over time.
    I would suggest you hang around with some gay friends and that will help you by watching interaction between them....and with others.


    If in the gym they are quiet and listening to headphones and they seem butch but also a bit feminine, they are gay.