Oct 09, 2009 12:42 PM GMT
I am in a relationship of 3yrs and during this time, we have encountered trust issues that I thought were behind us. My boyfriend has a tendency to look through my phone and computer if he feels uneasy about something or thinks I'm up to something (which I'm not). We've had discussions about this and he even suggested I password my stuff to keep him from looking. Well...I took his advice and did just that. Now, I have nothing to hide but I hate to feel like my privacy is being invaded for no reason. Once he realized that I put a password on my phone and computer, he asked why I did it. I explained because he suggested it and because I didn't like my privacy to be invaded. He states that being in a relationship means that you have access to everything. I completely disagree with this....Your thoughts? Does being in a relationship mean that you give up everything?