Being a guy....

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    Oct 10, 2009 1:07 PM GMT
    Let me start by saying that I played rugy and grew up in a family where any male figure had bad manners......

    A friend and I were talking about things that guys do and what are reactions were to them...Some of them are...

    1. Burping...is it okay to do among friends or in public?

    2. Farting...same as above? But also, when is it okay to do it in front of your bf?

    3. Peeing in the shower....okay or unsanitary?

    4. Peeing with the door open...when is it okay to do this?

    5. Is it okay to change in front of your friends or be naked in front of your friends?

    6. Is it okay to skinny dip with friends?
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    Oct 10, 2009 2:41 PM GMT
    1. Yes, but it had better be good, funny, doing something cool or other.

    2. Well, farting in front of friends.. all good, in public.. depends restaurant no, out in the middle of a park with no many others around.. well.. fog it up.

    3. Meh, it's all pipes just pee hahaha

    4. Pee gawd damn it, just don't make me have to listen to you.

    5 - 6 go for it, I don't care your a mate, big, thing, muscled, fat, I'm not looking at you as a sexual object so you can go be getting naked all you want.
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    Oct 10, 2009 6:32 PM GMT
    kwcouple33040 said...

    1. Burping...is it okay to do among friends or in public?

    2. Farting...same as above? But also, when is it okay to do it in front of your bf?

    3. Peeing in the shower....okay or unsanitary?

    4. Peeing with the door open...when is it okay to do this?

    5. Is it okay to change in front of your friends or be naked in front of your friends?

    6. Is it okay to skinny dip with friends?


    1. not for me.
    2. not for me.
    3. very funny ... but ... see: above.
    4. do it sometimes ... wouldn't care if my guy did it.
    5. not for me.
    6. depends on the moment.

    1a. is it alright to hold the door open for your guy?
    2a. is it a good thing to pay for a meal or two for him when you go out?
    3a. how often should you sleep at his place and vice versa?
    4a. you two disagree on some things, how often should you cave?
    5a. you don't speak his native tongue, should you learn it?
    6a. you're out and someone wishes to dance, drink, converse with you ... he's watching ... do you go for it?

    ... there's far more to being a guy than the aforementioned.
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    Oct 10, 2009 6:37 PM GMT
    1. Burping...is it okay to do among friends or in public?
    ---Yes. Cover your mouth. Apologize.

    2. Farting...same as above? But also, when is it okay to do it in front of your bf?
    ---Yes. You can't hold it in. Do you think that Queen Elizabeth never farts ? Apologize.

    3. Peeing in the shower....okay or unsanitary?
    ---100% okay.

    4. Peeing with the door open...when is it okay to do this?
    ---It's fine if you're home alone or with your boy friend. Otherwise, close the door.

    5. Is it okay to change in front of your friends or be naked in front of your friends?
    ---Sure. Why not ?

    6. Is it okay to skinny dip with friends?
    ---Yes.
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    Oct 10, 2009 6:40 PM GMT
    I'm confused here....these things are acceptable and make men..... men? icon_eek.gif
    I don't see how any of these are acceptable. icon_confused.gif
    Some are bloody repulsive, while others are just ill mannered. Wouldn't associate with pigs like that. Nevermind having mates who would do such things.
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    Oct 10, 2009 6:58 PM GMT
    The first 3 have been discussed in separate RJ threads in the past, where I said these were things I avoided or minimized.

    I pee with the door open when I'm alone or my partner's home. I suppose I might include my male friends in that, since I sometimes use a public men's restroom with them, which is basically the same thing. But a private home seems to require a little more decorum.

    Likewise I share a locker room and gang shower with some of them, which is a guy thing to do, not to mention some nude swims at private residential pools. But at home I wouldn't deliberately show myself in less than my underwear, otherwise they might get the wrong idea.

    But if they did happen to see me naked while dressing, I wouldn't be all embarrassed or bothered, nor would they. Once again, it's a guy thing to experience social nudity under certain circumstances, regardless of being straight or gay. I'm not sure I'd classify that as manners, but rather acceptable social behavior for men, among other men, in a broader sense.
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    Oct 10, 2009 7:10 PM GMT
    Musclequest saidI'm confused here....these things are acceptable and make men..... men? icon_eek.gif
    I don't see how any of these are acceptable. icon_confused.gif
    Some are bloody repulsive, while others are just ill mannered. Wouldn't associate with pigs like that. Nevermind having mates who would do such things.
    Cheers,
    Keith
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    I respect the opinion offered...but can't help feeling an un-exploded "hand-grenade" was tossed in our collective lap......does it go off into some big flame war or does it just sit there and make us sweat for a little while? The beads of sweaty tension are building on the brow and down the back..........LOL! icon_eek.gif
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    Oct 10, 2009 7:16 PM GMT
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    Oct 10, 2009 7:18 PM GMT
    Red_Vespa said
    Once again, it's a guy thing to experience social nudity under certain circumstances, regardless of being straight or gay. I'm not sure I'd classify that as manners, but rather acceptable social behavior for men, among other men, in a broader sense.


    I definitely agree with you, its more of a social behavoir for men rather than manners. I guess you can say It's kind of a sign of how comfortable you're with eachtoher. I have four guy friends who I've been friends with for years and we can pretty much do anything around eachother and not feel uncomfortable doing it. It's a guy thing... Lol

    1. Yeah. Among good friends only though... Not in public, that's just bad-mannered.
    2. Same as above. Only around my guy friends tho. It's ok to do it in front of you're bf as long as you guys are comfortable enough with eachother.
    3. 50/50. I mean the toilet is right there, but if you do, then aim for the drain instead of pissing all over the shower.
    4. Only if you're alone, around good friends or with your bf. Again as long as you both are comfortable enough with eachother.
    5. Yeah. I mean they dont have to look, but if they want to, I'm not stopping them. Lol It's a guy thing...
    6. Hell Yeah!!! Lol
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    Oct 10, 2009 7:35 PM GMT
    5 & 6 OK. Rest got to go.
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    Oct 10, 2009 7:56 PM GMT
    ugh, throw up!
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    Oct 10, 2009 7:56 PM GMT

    1. Burping...is it okay to do among friends or in public?
    Only when its funny! I mean only when youre with your best friends and they just go like MAN STOP BEING A PIG!

    2. Farting...same as above? But also, when is it okay to do it in front of your bf?
    Thats kinda gross, in front of my bf I wouldnt care, but never NEVER do it in the elevator

    3. Peeing in the shower....okay or unsanitary?
    It feels amazing when u pee in the shower man...

    4. Peeing with the door open...when is it okay to do this?
    Whats the problem? Back in the jungle we didnt have doors!

    5. Is it okay to change in front of your friends or be naked in front of your friends?
    its hot specially if they play copy cat icon_razz.gif

    6. Is it okay to skinny dip with friends?
    yup, its fun
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    Oct 10, 2009 11:56 PM GMT
    kwcouple33040 saidLet me start by saying that I played rugy and grew up in a family where any male figure had bad manners......

    A friend and I were talking about things that guys do and what are reactions were to them...Some of them are...

    1. Burping...is it okay to do among friends or in public?

    2. Farting...same as above? But also, when is it okay to do it in front of your bf?

    3. Peeing in the shower....okay or unsanitary?

    4. Peeing with the door open...when is it okay to do this?

    5. Is it okay to change in front of your friends or be naked in front of your friends?

    6. Is it okay to skinny dip with friends?


    1,2,3,4, I don't stress over these. But who says you can't be a "guy" AND have manners at the same time?

    5,6 not if they are straight...unless you are trying to "convert" them
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    Oct 11, 2009 12:40 AM GMT
    1. Yes, otherwise it'll cause you discomfort if you don't

    2. yes, but only in public if you squeeze it out as quietly as possible and pretend like you didn't do it. For as bf, he's going to be seeing you alot. Just let it rip, other wise you'll be holding your farts forever.

    3. Urine is actually quite sanitary, probably more than the dirt you're rinsing off.

    4. Its ok to do this when you can stand in a way where people can't see your penis.

    5. Yeah its fine. Given its cool with them.

    6. Why not? Its not like anyone's trying to check out each other's junk or fuck.

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    Oct 11, 2009 12:48 AM GMT
    1.I drink an incredible amount of Diet Coke, so I am always burping.
    2.I'm kind of shy, so I'm always keeping my feelings in.
    3.Sometimes you just can't help it with the sound of the running water.
    4.As long as there is not a woman in the house.
    5.I have no problem changing in front of my friends.
    6.It's better than getting your clothes wet.
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    Oct 11, 2009 1:41 AM GMT
    Eeww. Peeing in the shower! People. icon_mad.gif
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    Oct 11, 2009 2:08 AM GMT
    Musclequest saidI'm confused here....these things are acceptable and make men..... men? ....... Nevermind having mates who would do such things.
    Cheers, Keith
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    damn Keith.....and here I was hoping to skinny dip w/ you!
    being as you're in a relationship, how else would one see your hot body butt naked?
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    May 18, 2010 5:23 AM GMT
    kwcouple33040 said
    4. Peeing with the door open...when is it okay to do this?

    This seems to be very common with the guys that I know. I always pee with the door open when I'm home alone, and around most of my guy friends. I shut the door when women and kids are here. Some of my guy friends never shut the door at their place no matter who is there.
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    May 18, 2010 5:50 AM GMT
    1. Burping...is it okay to do among friends or in public?

    only if its not a gross loud burp, i dont mind it though.

    2. Farting...same as above? But also, when is it okay to do it in front of your bf?

    never..

    3. Peeing in the shower....okay or unsanitary?

    hahaha, my ex and i had a talk about this, i think its okay if noone else is in the shower with you, however if im taking a shower with anyone, it is NOT okay to pee.

    4. Peeing with the door open...when is it okay to do this?

    ehh.. i always close the door..

    5. Is it okay to change in front of your friends or be naked in front of your friends?

    i dont mind changing infront of my friends, but i dont get fully naked..

    6. Is it okay to skinny dip with friends?

    yep, thats not bad.
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    May 18, 2010 5:59 AM GMT
    kwcouple33040 saidLet me start by saying that I played rugy and grew up in a family where any male figure had bad manners......

    A friend and I were talking about things that guys do and what are reactions were to them...Some of them are...

    1. Burping...is it okay to do among friends or in public?

    2. Farting...same as above? But also, when is it okay to do it in front of your bf?

    3. Peeing in the shower....okay or unsanitary?

    4. Peeing with the door open...when is it okay to do this?

    5. Is it okay to change in front of your friends or be naked in front of your friends?

    6. Is it okay to skinny dip with friends?
    1. *burrrrrrrrp* What was the question again?

    2. *farrrrrrrrt* Oops, sorry, missed it again. Repeat the question once more please? That Mexican food was really good!

    3. Okay.

    4. When you don't want to shut the door.

    5. Yes.

    6. Yes.
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    May 18, 2010 6:16 AM GMT
    Who dragged this old ass thread out...