How do I seduce the personal trainer at my gym?

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    Oct 12, 2009 9:55 PM GMT
    So for about a few months now me and a hot personal trainer have been checking each other out whenever I'm working out at the gym. He always stares at me or looks at my body whenever he thinks I'm not looking (but I can see him because of the mirrors in the gym)

    I've always been to shy to approach him and a bit scared that f he turned me down then I'd have to suffer the humiliation of seeing him everytime I'm there.

    However I'm moving out of town now in a few months and would like to make a move on him now. I don't mind if it doesn't work out because at least I will be leaving town soon and won't have to suffer the humiliation of a rejection even though I know he likes me.

    Do you guys have any suggestions or tips on how I can make a move/seduce him?
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    Oct 12, 2009 10:38 PM GMT
    step 1: say hi

    step 2: talking about something or ask help with an excercise

    step 3: see where it goes


    sheesh!
  • GQjock

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    Oct 12, 2009 10:54 PM GMT
    I second that - SHEESH!
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    Oct 12, 2009 11:28 PM GMT
    I can't tell you how many trainers I've seen looking at me in the gym.. many have smiled at me.. many have chatted with me.. I've taken none home and I Don't want too..

    I"m going to let you in on something..

    His job is to try and make you his job, to do that he has to appeal to you (in what ever way it gets him paid) and the line in sex (or it should be)

    Personally I wouldn't bother with him, he's probably watching you because you've watched him and he's wondering if you are checking him out and see what hes like as a trainer or something and considering the environment most trainers aren't afraid to just approach a guy in the gym.
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    Oct 13, 2009 2:08 AM GMT
    jprichva saidOh, don't listen to them. He clearly wants to fuck you. Let him.




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    Oct 13, 2009 2:15 AM GMT
    Rodmramer said
    jprichva saidOh, don't listen to them. He clearly wants to fuck you. Let him.




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    There have been dozens of variations on this topic and the answer to them all is blindingly obvious.
    Talk to the guy. You can talk about banal gym stuff so it's not as if you're putting your heart out there to be trampled on if he doesn't show interest.
    If he does show interest, then see if he'll meet you somewhere for coffee. If he does, you're halfway there.
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    Oct 13, 2009 2:30 AM GMT
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    Oct 13, 2009 3:06 AM GMT
    Approach him under the guise of needing someone to spot you or help you on technique for some sort of exercise. Strike up a conversation. Go from there.
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    Oct 13, 2009 3:10 AM GMT
    Try to catch him in the steam room or sauna and if the eye contact and energy is their, then make a move but take it slow...He will either look and join or leave.
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    Oct 13, 2009 3:12 AM GMT
    Hire him to be your trainer
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    Oct 13, 2009 3:18 AM GMT
    Just go up to him and say Hi....see if he takes the hint .... icon_lol.gif
  • B71115

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    Oct 13, 2009 3:24 AM GMT
    Ask him if he poses nude
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    Oct 13, 2009 3:34 AM GMT
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    Oct 13, 2009 4:10 AM GMT
    syd_hockey_79 saidApproach him under the guise of needing someone to spot you or help you on technique for some sort of exercise. Strike up a conversation. Go from there.


    Does this actually work? Doesn't the guy know this by now?
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    Oct 13, 2009 4:11 AM GMT
    Rodmramer saidHire him to be your trainer


    Best suggestion yet
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    Oct 13, 2009 4:34 AM GMT
    just be bold.. saucy..

    High school prom?.. I walked right up to the captain of the football team, cooly, boldly.. right in front of his malibu barbie, wannabe shrew of a girlfriend, and macked right out on him.. full out, hollywood style tounges playfully touching..

    and he let me.. (inside I was shaking like a leaf) but just did it.. said to myself "f'k it".. it's no big deal.. it's just a "whatever" thing..

    I smiled, winked and walked away without looking behind me.
    his girlfriend's eyes were bugging out like ren and stimpy, and he was was snickering softly..

    Ooops!.. (softly shrugz)..

    You have to go after what you want.. you have to take it..
    You live once in this life.. vivir - al maximo..

    Okay, so maybe you don't have the gumption to be that insane, or ostentatious, or risk getting pummeled into unconciousness..

    so, my PRACTICAL advice?..

    Just get a business card, hand write your cell number and yahoo messenger on the back.. wait till he's basically alone.. and softly say "hey.. thought if you had some time, we could get together for a drink or something.."

    and have the card held out and going in his hand.. automatic reflex is to take what's handed to you, out of protocol.. I'm telling you, he'll take it!

    if he responds like he wants you to stay, - well.. there you go!..

    If not.. you walk away with your pride, knowing that you went after something you felt like you were worth and deserved.. and you brush it off, like it didn't matter to you either way.. :-)

    good luck!..

    BTW - your gorgeous!.. if you walked up to me Id be like, "what took you so long".. but then again.. I probably would have beaten you to it..and been like.. "hey.. yo..".. (playfully winks) in which case.. you probably would have looked at me like I had three heads, and run.. and I would have laughed softly to myself.. but then been like.. "damn".. too bad.. :-P
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    Oct 13, 2009 4:49 AM GMT
    from my experience as a personal trainer, all i can say is:


    buy. more. training.



    [and actually, we look at everyone that way. we're whores of a different stripe, but whores nonetheless.]
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    Oct 13, 2009 5:06 AM GMT
    Funny now that you are moving away it is ok. It sounds like it is more about your ego and your feelings about being turned down than anything else. Work on that part. Everyone gets turned down, sooner or later. Work on why you are afraid, what is the worst that could happen if you approach him, what is the best that could happen if you approach him. Remember it is also about HIS FEELINGS as well. "Now that you are moving it does not matter", sounds pretty callous about him.
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    Oct 13, 2009 5:07 AM GMT
    Just let him see you checking out his butt when he puts the bell down.icon_biggrin.gificon_smile.gif
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    Oct 13, 2009 5:26 AM GMT
    Well, if porn has taught us anything, is that the two of you just need to happen to be in the locker room at the same time and, ta da!
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    Oct 13, 2009 5:40 AM GMT
    Ciarsolo7 saidWell, if porn has taught us anything, is that the two of you just need to happen to be in the locker room at the same time and, ta da!




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  • hectorjack

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    Oct 13, 2009 6:22 AM GMT
    COLORED TEXT GOES HEREHire him your personal trainer and give him a clear stand by ur act that ur interested at him and try to have eye contact. More over don’t u rush until u know he is also interested coz mutual understanding is very much essential even for a one night stand . If he seems to be not much interested never hesitated to show him your luv and concern, if ur persistent u can do wt u want . and of course if u need some thing real bad ideas hope out lik a rabbit all the time.icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 13, 2009 7:21 AM GMT
    Cogitor saidfrom my experience as a personal trainer, all i can say is:


    buy. more. training.



    [and actually, we look at everyone that way. we're whores of a different stripe, but whores nonetheless.]


    This is what I was thinking. But if you want to take the risk, knock yourself out. There is no "right" way to proposition someone when they're on the clock so I'd think just about anything would go.
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    Oct 13, 2009 8:04 AM GMT
    Rodmramer saidHire him to be your trainer


    And ask if he will train you at your/his place hahaha

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    No, go and talk to him. He could be horrified at your form. I know I stare sometimes because of that at trainwrecks waiting to happen...
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    Oct 13, 2009 8:42 AM GMT
    The same way I try seduce the beast of an owner at my gym. Woof!
    (He's not a canine but he works for non-profit shelter)
    Lurk in the shadows baby. LURK. pOUNCE! INject. Then he is all yours.
    (Ambien make me feel funny)