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Razzmaniac Posts: 22	Oct 13, 2009 10:33 AM GMT Ok, this is probably a dumb observation and question, but always wondered why some guys can take dick, toys, arms DEEP. . . with ease. . .while others can barely take a dick alone with out hitting something up in there to be painful. What is it thats getting in the way?? Is there a certain "technique" or length of practice to be able to take anything deeper?? An 8" dick can be painful when going deep. . . yet i see some guys on the net fisting and taking past the elbow . . .wow. . . i'm totally baffled. . . maybe i just need more practice??

Hidden member	Oct 13, 2009 12:06 PM GMT in my experience, any asshole cant get used to giant stuff at once and have to gradually adapt a specialized size cock. my cock is much thicker than average level and make my partner take some time to adapt to my glans inserting. i found if ur btm's cock is hard, his muscle will be tight than usual, u could let him relax that good for ur inserting. hope useful for u.
Longblack Posts: 7	Oct 13, 2009 12:13 PM GMT Guys, beware: anal incontinence may hit you in your later years. There is NO CURE
Ghen Posts: 1058	Oct 13, 2009 2:39 PM GMT Longblack saidGuys, beware: anal incontinence may hit you in your later years. There is NO CURE I loled
rnch Posts: 1054	Oct 13, 2009 2:45 PM GMT Longblack saidGuys, beware: anal incontinence may hit you in your later years. There is NO CURE so all of the senior citizens that wear "adult diapesr" are/were Anal Addicts???
Hidden member	Oct 13, 2009 3:13 PM GMT You don't go from cherry to fisting in an afternoon. Practice, practice, practice.
GuiltyGear Posts: 5927	Oct 13, 2009 3:31 PM GMT Practice makes perfect. I was told by a knowledgeable top that you have to get your asshole completely trashed once to be a good bottom that can take anything, that's complete with unbearable pain and blood. I'm supposed to call him when I'm ready for him to break me in. It's been a few years since the offer was extended.
Longblack Posts: 7	Oct 13, 2009 10:45 PM GMT rnch said Longblack saidGuys, beware: anal incontinence may hit you in your later years. There is NO CURE so all of the senior citizens that wear "adult diapesr" are/were Anal Addicts??? they do so for urinary incontinence
Jd22639 Posts: 30	Oct 13, 2009 10:50 PM GMT I'm not gonna lie, when i was younger, it was no problem, but now, anything bigger then like 6inches doesn't even sound appealing. I'd rather be with a guy that's smaller then some dude that's packin. btm is just something i'm not good at.
Hidden member	Oct 14, 2009 4:06 AM GMT I think you kind of grow into liking the pain and mistaking it for pleasure.
Hidden member	Oct 14, 2009 6:52 AM GMT There is probably some anatomical variation from person to person. But if someone just shoves his cock in and jams it into the side of the rectum, it's going to hurt. To go deep, you have to find the entrance to the colon and get lined up before you start slamming away. An experienced bottom may be able to guide the penis in the right direction with muscle control and a little english on the hips. Get some anatomical diagrams and a toy and spend a few quiet evenings in careful self-exploration.
Hidden member	Oct 14, 2009 10:07 AM GMT I think it's a little physical and a little mental. Many guys I've been with can't get past the pain, it's going to hurt always so I'll never relax enough for it not to hurt... reason I think that is you get a little drink in them (not drunk but enough to calm down about it) and they go from "it's gonna hurt" to "OMG POUND ME HARDER" hehehe You gotta accept a little pain first and you get over it eventually. one of my first guys was 9inches long, it took him an hour to finally enter me completely but he did it and it hurt but after a week I was in heaven, I'd gotten over the pain and had relaxed which made it easier for him to enter me without much pain. Mind you every time a guy first pushes into me it hurts just a little, but it passes fast and I'm good! Now, about those peoples who can take a titan missile.. well.. that takes practice.. lots and lots and lots of practice.. I can take a cock of pretty much any size but I can't take a hand and i wont take one, not because it'll hurt but because I don't want one in there.. but some do
Razzmaniac Posts: 22	Oct 14, 2009 10:18 AM GMT I guess i just need to be worked over by a good ff top. . .LOL. . . i mean, a longer dick kinda hurts the harder they pound, but it feels awesome after awhile. . . Its prolly easier being trained as a ff bottom, can move things around with your hands i guess, know which way to go. . .i see vids of guys my age and younger taking past the elbow. . . i mean, that blows my mind. . . totally jealous of those guys but HOW. . .HOW do you get to that point??
rnch Posts: 1054	Oct 14, 2009 1:56 PM GMT Longblack said rnch said Longblack saidGuys, beware: anal incontinence may hit you in your later years. There is NO CURE so all of the senior citizens that wear "adult diapesr" are/were Anal Addicts??? they do so for urinary incontinence yes, lb, we all know that...my comments were a joke...jeeeez.....
Niceguy89 Posts: 214	Oct 14, 2009 3:49 PM GMT as long as we are asking stupid questions Whats so good about the anal sex when ur passed the pain? (i never been there so...) Is it explainable in words? (is explainable a word?)
CreaseHem Posts: 1581	Oct 14, 2009 6:24 PM GMT mindgarden saidThere is probably some anatomical variation from person to person. But if someone just shoves his cock in and jams it into the side of the rectum, it's going to hurt. To go deep, you have to find the entrance to the colon and get lined up before you start slamming away. An experienced bottom may be able to guide the penis in the right direction with muscle control and a little english on the hips. Get some anatomical diagrams and a toy and spend a few quiet evenings in careful self-exploration. Good answer. I beleive its easier when there is a sexy man involved. You just get kinda loose for a stud.
Mash4077 Posts: 26	Oct 14, 2009 8:26 PM GMT Niceguy89 saidas long as we are asking stupid questions Whats so good about the anal sex when ur passed the pain? (i never been there so...) Is it explainable in words? (is explainable a word?) Have you ever had an orgasm without touching your dick??? Sex with the RIGHT top is OMG amazing.
Razzmaniac Posts: 22	Oct 14, 2009 11:02 PM GMT I agree MASH. . . some tops are just there to pound, nothing wrong with that at times. . . but others can make a bottom squirm in extasy. . . .THOSE are the ones who know how to really "open" up a bottom and go deep
Hidden member	Oct 15, 2009 5:01 AM GMT Razzmaniac saidI agree MASH. . . some tops are just there to pound, nothing wrong with that at times. . . but others can make a bottom squirm in extasy. . . .THOSE are the ones who know how to really "open" up a bottom and go deep I hear you LOUD and CLEAR.... now start squirming.. It's all in the hips and just the right kind of thrust that gets a guy off....
hauna Posts: 1	Oct 15, 2009 8:08 AM GMT I am caucasian and live in Nigeria. Wow, some friends of mine are sooo huge. I like getting them on thier backs and then guiding thier cock into me. That way you control the initial entry and can go as deep as you feel comfortable. After that, all positions are welcome and I just love the feel of large cock in my ass.
Razzmaniac Posts: 22	Oct 15, 2009 10:59 AM GMT ya, some positions are better then others. . .its like that damn prostate always gets in the way. . .lol. . .some positions i could get a longer one all the way in and other positions a 6" just beats the hell out of my prostate.
Hidden member	Oct 15, 2009 12:54 PM GMT hauna saidI am caucasian and live in Nigeria. Wow, some friends of mine are sooo huge. I like getting them on thier backs and then guiding thier cock into me. That way you control the initial entry and can go as deep as you feel comfortable. After that, all positions are welcome and I just love the feel of large cock in my ass. For most guys this really IS the secret. I often lay on my back and just let them take their time and control the entry. Of course with all cocks there is small amount of pain involved at first till your hot hole relaxes, but after that it's smooth sailing. I think most guys would be surprised to find out that they can manage more inches in DEEP than they think. I think it's about 99% mental. As long as a guy has done some prep,, you are totally good to go. BTW... Kissing a guy while he is working your cock with his ass is a sure way to get me off each and every time! Holding his tight ass in your hands as he slides up and down is also hot... somehow there's a connection between the ass in your hands and the movement that connects to my brain along with kissing that makes me wanna pop BIG TIME!
Balljunkie Posts: 580	Oct 16, 2009 8:02 AM GMT I like to lay a guy on his stomach, kiss behind his ears and shoulders while sliding it in. They get all tingly while you kiss them. It is so hot.
Razzmaniac Posts: 22	Oct 16, 2009 6:36 PM GMT Balljunkie saidI like to lay a guy on his stomach, kiss behind his ears and shoulders while sliding it in. They get all tingly while you kiss them. It is so hot. ya i totally agree. . .when a guy does me in that position and kisses like that or my neck. . . totally relaxes me bro. . . and YEP. . .tingles too. .
fulldelight Posts: 356	Oct 17, 2009 6:21 AM GMT Since when is pain a problem? Sometimes I just can't stand the whole tender and soft thing... sometimes I really just want to be banged hard. In cases like that you don't worry it's gonna hurt, you actually HOPE it's gonna hurt Now, don't get me wrong, I haven't done fisting or anything like it, but if you don't feel a thing and the top is doing nothing because "it might hurt", then why the f are we even trying? Go buy a big mack and come back when you're ready for sex.
Hidden member	Oct 17, 2009 1:11 PM GMT Having always been a top, my apprehension is probably more mental than physical. I dont like my ass played with at all, no rimming, no tongue fucking, no fingers, no toys and certainly no cock. I am spotless clean so its not that. I just don't enjoy it. However, give me the chance and I will GET more ass than a toilet seat lol. I totally enjoy giving pleasure to some hot man cunt. I will lick, tongue fuck, rim, play with, toy with and fuck the hell out of that thing like I own it. Just feeling that sphincter open up as I gently begin to enter that boi hole and push my fat cock and mushroom head into, makes me even rock harder than I already am when I start lol. Bring it on men. Im ready !! Im sorry what was the question?
Jd22639 Posts: 30	Oct 17, 2009 4:03 PM GMT Razzmaniac saidI agree MASH. . . some tops are just there to pound, nothing wrong with that at times. . . but others can make a bottom squirm in extasy. . . .THOSE are the ones who know how to really "open" up a bottom and go deep My all time favorite sex story, one night stand, bottom came twice without touching himself. It was so hot. I didn't finish, but it was still so fucking hot to me. No problem if a btm cums and cant keep taking, only because it's so hot to see a guy cum like that.
Hidden member	Oct 18, 2009 5:08 AM GMT I was going to say "practice makes perfect", but GG already beat me to it!
Christian73 Posts: 426	Oct 18, 2009 3:23 PM GMT A couple of things here. One - You must be able to relax. If you think it's going to hurt, it will. Two - Start off slowly. Use fingers, get rimmed, have him use his head to play with your hole a bit. Three - Make sure you're clean. If there is stool in your rectum, it can make you uncomfortable.
Hidden member	Oct 18, 2009 7:01 PM GMT Jd22639 said Razzmaniac saidI agree MASH. . . some tops are just there to pound, nothing wrong with that at times. . . but others can make a bottom squirm in extasy. . . .THOSE are the ones who know how to really "open" up a bottom and go deep My all time favorite sex story, one night stand, bottom came twice without touching himself. It was so hot. I didn't finish, but it was still so fucking hot to me. No problem if a btm cums and cant keep taking, only because it's so hot to see a guy cum like that. Didn't you complain about this in another thread? I think you might have a fetish, my dear.
bodyarthero Posts: 55	Oct 19, 2009 10:01 AM GMT i nearly passed out the first time i had it up there. it was sooo painful. wasn't a good idea that i decided to have my first time with my mate who was 9 inches. but i have to say that it was sooo hot. and practice definitely makes perfect :p
Niceguy89 Posts: 214	Oct 19, 2009 1:05 PM GMT you really inspire me to stay virgin for the rest of my life with that story won't happen though
brad941 Posts: 2	Oct 19, 2009 4:55 PM GMT reading all of this makes me want to try again it's been a long time since a cock has been in my ass but i sure would like to try with some hot guy
Hidden member	Oct 19, 2009 10:05 PM GMT As a bottom you should always take charge! Else yes you are liable to feel pain. You gotta communicate with the top until the rythm is right for both.
Razzmaniac Posts: 22	Oct 20, 2009 2:31 AM GMT hector2009 saidAs a bottom you should always take charge! Else yes you are liable to feel pain. You gotta communicate with the top until the rythm is right for both. YES, take control. . .rythm is great. . .and try new positions. . .im a bottom and if a top is boring and doesnt flip me where he wants me, i have to be the one to flip to different positions until I can get him off. . .
Jd22639 Posts: 30	Oct 21, 2009 2:44 AM GMT MunchingZombie said Jd22639 Didn't you complain about this in another thread? I think you might have a fetish, my dear. no that's a hypothetical situation. and he's just a dead fish, that i have regular sex with. My one night stand was a different story. It was hot.
Hotslider Posts: 18	Oct 21, 2009 6:31 AM GMT I think it has to do with your internal configuration. Our intestine are not all the same. Straight and Curve dick don't it the same spot. http://coloncancer.about.com/od/thebasics/ig/Anatomy-of-the-Large-Intestine/Anal-Canal-Diagram.htm
bradsmith Posts: 86	Oct 22, 2009 3:07 AM GMT How do you get to Carnegie Hall? Practice, practice, practice!
Hidden member	Oct 27, 2009 7:11 AM GMT Ok, it has been a long time since I have had this problem but I was with this guy once that no matter what position we were in or how gentle I was with him, he felt pain when I was in him all the way, not most of the thrusting but just the end of the thrust when my balls were banging his bum. After a few times when I would have to pull back, which was not as satisfying for me, I suggested we go shopping. Yeah, shopping for a dildo. We selected a very good one that was slightly bigger round then me and slightly longer too and it even had a vibrator. I would use it on him with lots of lube and get it to just the point where he started to have pain and then he would take over the guidance system. He worked that baby till it became comfortable for him and then afterwards the sex would be great. Now for the guys who want to be fist fucked, I have not had any experience with this but I guess that the same idea could apply but just buy a series of bigger and bigger dildos to use before the actual event so your bum is ready. Hope this helps. I can not imagine why a guy would like to feel a lot of pain while having sex but, hey, each to his own.
Hidden member	Oct 30, 2009 10:28 PM GMT Alexander7 and I have a similar cock. Decent length and girth. I'd have no problem letting him work my ass over as I love a hot flip fuck and can get very turned on by a nice sized dick in my ass. When you are extra excited by the look of a guys cock, it's easier to relax and take it all as his bush hits your ass cheeks...
Hidden member	Oct 30, 2009 10:45 PM GMT When I was younger there was one guy that I looked at and said "no way", but now I'd give it a shot.

inmotion1 Posts: 39	Oct 31, 2009 1:55 AM GMT This might sound weird, but in the morning I can take anything regardless of size. When I go home with a guy at night, I usually top because I cant take it. I dont know if I am more relaxed in the morning or just extremely horny. LOL...well anyway....