There is nothing like THE REAL THING. Unfortunately and I repeat strongly, unfortunately, we can no longer take chances with so many types of diseases out there and a condom is necessary. While on this subject, I wonder how many or if any of you have given thought of how untrusting we have to be with our partners today by having to use protection. To me, it has made the whole sexual act not only false and untrusting with being intimate but less enjoyable. There has to be some sort of physical attraction or an outright love connection between two people or you wouldn’t want to have sex. Insisting that a condom be used shows outright distrust and surely, somewhere in your minds, this must interfere with a genuine sexual experience. Perhaps, the use of a condom is so standard in use today that no one gives any thought to this. Automatically reaching for a condom without thought would probably apply more to “animals” that just want to get their rocks off and move on to the next partner. I would be interested in what others have to say regarding this. You have to admit that the act shows total distrust by using a condom. This, of course, does not apply to a man and a woman having sex, using a condom that don’t want children.