ThePenIsMyTier saidWould it really feel like an authentic buddy this way? Participate in the forums, talk to people, etc. Friendships happen if you try.
"Mutual Buddy" lists grow, but friendships/chatships may not this way.
Gotta agree with ThePenisMyTier, here, freshsteeds. I read the comments on the forums. If I really like what a guy has to say on a certain topic, I check out his profile and then read his other comments -- At the bottom of every profile, there is a list of all of the comments that RJer has posted in the different forum topics. The guys who make posts that I really, really like are the ones who show some intelligence, a sensibility about RJ that I like, a sense of humor or a scathing wit, and a little subversiveness (or a lot in the cases of McGay and GuerillaSodomite). And those are the guys that I put on my hotlist.