Is your buddy's hag off limits?

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 19, 2009 6:54 PM GMT
    Disclaimer: I'm bi

    I got into a bit off an argument in the past with my closest gay friend (we've been tight on and off since high school) over me hitting on his hag. He was upset because a) he claimed some kind of ownership and b) she had a boyfriend at the time (I was drunk... I let my feelings slip. I wasn't trying to steal her).

    Well, she did tell me then that she also liked me, and at lunch today I learned from my friend that she broke up with her man 2 days ago (she's been complaining of not being happy for a while).

    I invited her out tonight, and she has some studying (she is also 8 years younger than me and still in college) but is gonna try to make it.

    My question is: Should I go for it, and risk pissing off my friend? Are your buddies hags or even close friends for that matter really off limits?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 19, 2009 7:58 PM GMT
    Wouldn't your buddy even try to understand?

    I mean, come on. Where's the tact? AAhhhhhaaaaa
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 19, 2009 8:51 PM GMT
    I think he might be afraid if it doesn't work out it would be awkward, since she is his closest female friend and I am one of his closest male friends.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 19, 2009 11:44 PM GMT
    and he should be upset and worried, you two could fuck up his friendship with the two closest people he has.

    to you and the women.
    I think it's more important you two be adults about the whole situation and lay out exactly what you are both wanting out of it and making sure that if it doesn't workout between you two that you'll both work hard to remain on friendly terms with each other and not let it come between your good friend.
  • DCEric

    Posts: 3713

    Oct 20, 2009 12:07 AM GMT
    Came here to say what lilTanker did.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 20, 2009 12:15 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidand he should be upset and worried, you two could fuck up his friendship with the two closest people he has.

    to you and the women.
    I think it's more important you two be adults about the whole situation and lay out exactly what you are both wanting out of it and making sure that if it doesn't workout between you two that you'll both work hard to remain on friendly terms with each other and not let it come between your good friend.


    I think he has the right to be worried but not to the point of being upset with us. Not trying to play at semantics, but it seems unfair that he isn't even willing to let us give it a shot.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 20, 2009 12:44 AM GMT
    Youre a grown ass man and she is a grown ass woman. Take the bull by the horns, be adults and lay out the ground rules to each other and your mutual friend.

    It won't be easy if it doesnt work out but thats life, if you and the hag really like each other. You wont know whatll work unless you try.

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 20, 2009 1:42 AM GMT
    That is funny that he is trippin. My straight friends have been trying to fuck my faghag for a while. i am like, if she gets a divorce, go for it.

    It may be awkward, but I know plenty of gay guys that are friends and have fucked the entire group.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 20, 2009 1:29 PM GMT

    Well we think that your friend, Ganymede0, is being a bit of a dog in the manger.

    You two met through your mutual friend, one of the tried and true ways of meeting someone.

    Unless...do you think he's worried about her getting hurt?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 24, 2009 5:53 AM GMT
    Balljunkie said
    It may be awkward, but I know plenty of gay guys that are friends and have fucked the entire group.


    GOOD observation icon_smile.gif