Getting rejected online when looking for sex....

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    Oct 20, 2009 3:36 AM GMT
    I have a major problem when it comes to getting rejected when looking for sex online via craigslist or adam4adam. If I post an ad, for instance, I'll get e-mails from guys I find reasonably attractive, send out my pics, and not get a response.

    I'm pretty specific in my ads as to my body (inshape, toned, but thin), and ethnicity (mixed).

    If I respond to 10 ads, or post 10 ads, on average I'll be rejected 8 to 9 times. What gives? No, I don't want to hear how I have no pics on this site because it was the same thing on here.

    The thing is, when I go out to the clubs I'm always getting hit on and told how sexy I am, and come home with hot guys all the time.

    I have to admit it is quite discouraging and confusing. What could the discrepancy between in person and online possibly be about?

    PS - My pics are very recent and look the exact way I do now. icon_question.gificon_question.gificon_sad.gificon_cry.gif

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    Oct 20, 2009 3:43 AM GMT
    i find people online have different attitude. lets put the sex aside, even just try to have normal conversation, it seems much harder compare to face to face. i guess thats the advantage of internet, no restriction of behave.
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    Oct 20, 2009 3:48 AM GMT
    Yes but it just seems weird that someone who so many people refer to as so attractive would be rejected so many times online.

    For instance, I have never approached a hot guy in a club and been rejected. icon_question.gificon_neutral.gif
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    Oct 20, 2009 3:54 AM GMT
    well, u are lucky. i used to rejection since......too long i don't even remember! icon_smile.gif
    time goes by,life move on. i don't care that anymore
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    Oct 20, 2009 4:11 AM GMT
    If you do so well with snagging guys at the club, then I'd say ditch the craigslist and adam4adam efforts, and stick with what you do best.
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    Oct 20, 2009 5:53 AM GMT
    Perhaps that don't find you attractive or you aren't their type.

    Then again I don't know much about the type that look for sex on craigslist.