When do you say I LOVE YOU?

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    Oct 20, 2009 4:08 AM GMT
    simple question...when do you tell your significant other that you love them?
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    Oct 20, 2009 4:16 AM GMT
    Well if you call this person your significant other...I think you better do it soon icon_smile.gif

    It is a good question though.

    For me, I said it more frequently when I was younger...the word just spilled out to boyfriends early in my gay career. As I got older, I think I learned what the word "love" meant to me. Because of this, it has become much harder to say.

    I was speaking with a friend who is just crazy about a guy he has been seeing for a couple of years. I asked him if he loved the guy.

    His answer?

    "We are beyond that. We don't have to say it...we know it."

    I found that interesting.....icon_idea.gif

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    Oct 20, 2009 4:27 AM GMT
    when you really mean it, or nothing about your guy annoys you to death :-)
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    Oct 20, 2009 4:33 AM GMT
    Say it the minute when you realize your in love w/ him!
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    Oct 20, 2009 4:35 AM GMT
    yes, thats a very interesting question, i also have friends are no need to say love you, but for me is important, i think it is depend on the person.

    and when???? mmm.... when the right moment come, you will know. the first time i say it to my bf is after friend's birthday dinner, we were walking back home, was holding hand and i just tell him i love him. i have to admit i was a bit drunk. at the time i was a bit stress after i spit the word, i don't know how is he going to react, then he said he love me too, i felt soo ........ ( say it, u will see)
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    Oct 20, 2009 4:47 AM GMT


    Just play them this song and start getting it on again.
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    Oct 20, 2009 5:39 AM GMT
    Annie Lennox sang it best, in my opinion.

    "Some people never say the words I Love You, but like a child they are longing to be told."

    "Some People never say the words I Love You, it's not their style to be so bold."


    Don't wait for someone to tell you, just say it if you feel it I guess. I have to admit I never have but have felt it.
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    Oct 20, 2009 5:40 AM GMT
    When they are just that significant. ;)
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    Oct 20, 2009 10:36 AM GMT
    never they stop sucking cock after they find out they have you!

    or so I'm told.
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    Oct 21, 2009 1:20 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidnever they stop sucking cock after they find out they have you!

    or so I'm told.


    LMAO! funny answer
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    Oct 21, 2009 1:28 AM GMT
    I don't even know what it means to 'love' someone.
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    Oct 21, 2009 1:38 AM GMT
    When he buys you that sweet little Audi TT-RS you've always wanted, it's okay to tell him you love him. But if it's in the wrong color or the interior is alcantara instead of leather, you just give him the boot instead. That's what page 312, paragraph 3 of the manual says, right?
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    Oct 21, 2009 1:41 AM GMT

    after they tell you.

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    Oct 21, 2009 3:18 AM GMT
    When I'm sure I'm ready to live up to the meaning of that word with the person I am with...good times and bad.
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    Oct 21, 2009 3:37 AM GMT
    True love is an action verb in my book. I say it when I mean it and when I'd do everything to prove it. That said, I feel that my actions should speak for themselves first.
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    Oct 21, 2009 3:54 AM GMT
    Good gosh, let's see...we say it to each other at least twice a day x 365 days x 20 years....14,600 times so far, each.



    not too shabby
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    Oct 21, 2009 3:58 AM GMT
    I don't think there is a rite tme to say it. It's how you feel, it's how the person makes you feel. I think love is earned though and it isn't a word i'd toss around to just anyone. By saying it means you're giving a part of you to that person and that should be earned. When you feel it's rite then just do it.
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    Oct 21, 2009 4:00 AM GMT
    I would use the "L" word only when I'm sure about it - - and I really mean it.
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    Oct 21, 2009 4:00 AM GMT
    When do you tell them you love them? Are you serious?

    I can't believe a person would need help with something like this and have to ask other people.


    You tell them when you actually LOVE them, how's that for an answer? Trust me, you'll know when. You'll just look at him one day and it'll slap you in the face, then you'll know. If that day doesn't come, you probably should invest your time in somebody else.
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    Oct 21, 2009 4:04 AM GMT
    In all seriousness, my boyfriend and I show it much more than we say it. Say something too reflexively, too casually, and it loses power. Nearly two years in, we still probably average about once a week. Like I said, we show it much more often, however.
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    Oct 21, 2009 4:07 AM GMT
    Every "relationship" I've been in, I've been told within a few weeks. Which usually scares the hell out of me. But I usually realize that most men (okay, boys...) confuse attachment, attraction, affection, an attention with love.

    I'm scared to feel it, let alone say it.
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    Oct 21, 2009 4:17 AM GMT
    ThePenIsMyTier saidEvery "relationship" I've been in, I've been told within a few weeks. Which usually scares the hell out of me.


    Yeah. Been there. Nothing sends me running faster.
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    Oct 21, 2009 4:19 AM GMT
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    ThePenIsMyTier saidEvery "relationship" I've been in, I've been told within a few weeks. Which usually scares the hell out of me.

    Nothing sends me running faster.

    For me it's a dirty bathroom.... I am sorry but I am not getting on my knees when the tiles are dirty!!!!
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    Oct 21, 2009 4:24 AM GMT
    >6 months
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    Oct 21, 2009 4:25 AM GMT
    Gilbercrat said
    ThePenIsMyTier saidEvery "relationship" I've been in, I've been told within a few weeks. Which usually scares the hell out of me. But I usually realize that most men (okay, boys...) confuse attachment, attraction, affection, an attention with love.

    I'm scared to feel it, let alone say it.


    I can't stand that. My friend who is 22 is dating a guy who's 18 and this is his first relationship. They've only been dating a couple months and write "I love you" all over one another's facebook walls....sometimes multiple times a day. It's so fucking immature and makes me want to punch both of them in the face.

    End rant.

    let them alone, just because you don't have a love life. icon_razz.gif Don't check their wall anyway.