I hate how forceful and annoying people can be!

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    Oct 24, 2009 5:15 PM GMT
    Last night, I was kinda bored so I was looking around at other social networking sites, and I found one called DList. I signed up for an account. Within 3 minutes, some guy who was like 10-15 years older than me sends me an IM and this is how the conversation went:

    Him - Hey
    Me- Hey. What's up?
    Him - I'm really horny and I want to see ur cock. Do you have a webcam?
    Me - Um. Lo siento. No puedo comprenderte. Puedes decirlo en Espanol?
    Him - (User has left chat)

    And just this morning, some guy messaged me and was like "Hey, can I have your cell number?" I said no and he asked me if I wanted to go out with him sometime. I again said no and he proceeded to call me a little slut and a no good piece of shit...

    WHAT THE FUCK!!??
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    Oct 24, 2009 5:19 PM GMT
    x18xcollegeguy saidLast night, I was kinda bored so I was looking around at other social networking sites, and I found one called DList. I signed up for an account. Within 3 minutes, some guy who was like 10-15 years older than me sends me an IM and this is how the conversation went:

    Him - Hey
    Me- Hey. What's up?
    Him - I'm really horny and I want to see ur cock. Do you have a webcam?
    Me - Um. Lo siento. No puedo comprenderte. Puedes decirlo en Espanol?
    Him - (User has left chat)

    And just this morning, some guy messaged me and was like "Hey, can I have your cell number?" I said no and he asked me if I wanted to go out with him sometime. I again said no and he proceeded to call me a little slut and a no good piece of shit...

    WHAT THE FUCK!!??


    I've had the same experience and I just don't pay any attention to people like that. Some just won't take no for an answer and keep bugging you.
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    Oct 24, 2009 5:22 PM GMT
    Just ignore such people.
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    Oct 24, 2009 7:47 PM GMT
    Usually people insecure of themselves do that a lot.
    I got one a couple of days back,

    A guy lets call him A, sent me mail saying cute pics (some networking site not RJ) and I replied saying thanks.
    A: What are you looking for
    Me: Chatting
    A: Good, are you horny
    Me: Not a lot
    A: Do you care for a nice blowjob
    Me: Thanks but am not interested
    A: Didn't offer anything but you should have manners

    Didn't respond back coz I was not even sure where I lost my manners.
    Then he again sends me a mail with subject line "You should have some manners" and body said "You should learn some basic manners".

    So I blocked him for good.
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    Oct 24, 2009 7:52 PM GMT
    x18xcollegeguy saidLast night, I was kinda bored so I was looking around at other social networking sites, and I found one called DList. I signed up for an account. Within 3 minutes, some guy who was like 10-15 years older than me sends me an IM and this is how the conversation went:

    Him - Hey
    Me- Hey. What's up?
    Him - I'm really horny and I want to see ur cock. Do you have a webcam?
    Me - Um. Lo siento. No puedo comprenderte. Puedes decirlo en Espanol?
    Him - (User has left chat)

    And just this morning, some guy messaged me and was like "Hey, can I have your cell number?" I said no and he asked me if I wanted to go out with him sometime. I again said no and he proceeded to call me a little slut and a no good piece of shit...

    WHAT THE FUCK!!??


    Many gay men have never been taught to behave properly. Just block them; put them on ignore.

    I usually have one or two online stalkers at any given moment, and, from time to time, real life ones, too.

    The best way to get rid of them is to ignore them.

    I don't even acknowledge folks with the sort of approach you mentioned. I block them without acknowledgment.

    I pre-ignore any picture-less. E.g, if I read picture-less profile, I'll always block it so that they don't try to contact me.

    A general rule that's good to apply is "would I be tolerant of this in Real Space?" If the answer is "no", you don't even need to give them the time of day. Understand, they're creeps.

    Being online is no excuse for bad decorum.

    Folks in Real Space have faces, legs, arms, etc., and MANNERS.
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    Oct 24, 2009 9:38 PM GMT
    x18xcollegeguy saidLast night, I was kinda bored so I was looking around at other social networking sites, and I found one called DList. I signed up for an account. Within 3 minutes, some guy who was like 10-15 years older than me sends me an IM and this is how the conversation went:

    Him - Hey
    Me- Hey. What's up?
    Him - I'm really horny and I want to see ur cock. Do you have a webcam?
    Me - Um. Lo siento. No puedo comprenderte. Puedes decirlo en Espanol?
    Him - (User has left chat)

    And just this morning, some guy messaged me and was like "Hey, can I have your cell number?" I said no and he asked me if I wanted to go out with him sometime. I again said no and he proceeded to call me a little slut and a no good piece of shit...

    WHAT THE FUCK!!??


    LMAO! Thats fucking awesome! Yeah I really don't like DList. I have a profile on there but yeah... nuts. I haven't checked it in years for the exact reasons. I mean sure I like cock as much as the next guy but can we have a conversation and hopefully a connection before you try getting in to my pants? Gracias!
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    Oct 24, 2009 9:47 PM GMT
    I love it. Being called a slut for NOT putting out. That is too much.
    Anyway thank goodness for blocking.