I never get hit on :(

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    Oct 24, 2009 8:59 PM GMT
    By girls that is....

    I get hit on all the time by guys but never a girl. No girl has asked for my number or hinted at me that she is interested. Do you reckon they sense gayness and can detect it or am I just totally obvious the way I look? Have any of you guys out there been hit on by sheilas, or is it just me?

    I kinda wish a girl would ask for my number for a change or have a desire to get into my pants. I suppose I just want to see how it's like.

    Sometimes it does hurt my feelings that girls don't find me sexually attractive. Nah just kidding, but I do wonder often why I get chased around by boys and never girls. Thanks mates.
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    Oct 24, 2009 9:03 PM GMT
    i find its the opposite. do u feel less attractive since girls dont hit on you

    maybe broaden ur horizon, visit a farmers market or hang out at the tyra banks studio audience. being validated is a need we all have but in reality it really doesnt matter on the grand scheme of things. u look fine.
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    Oct 24, 2009 9:05 PM GMT
    Yeahhhh, but then again I'm not putting myself in a whole bunch of situations where girls feel comfortable hitting on me. I don't think being in class while the professor is talking is an appropriate time to get my number or whatever.

    I mean, I'm kind and polite to everyone so maybe people think there's a hidden agenda. Ahahah, some people I swear~

    At any rate, maybe it's just how I handle situations. I'm not out trying to meet people, but when I am it's around a lot of guys. I'm not talking to the girls that much. I usually see guys playing insulting girls and that really gets them to like them. *shrug* Maybe it's because I'm not that active in conversations from the beginning. I just sorta like things flow~
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    Oct 24, 2009 10:09 PM GMT
    women have always fallen for me.
    men not so much,
    quite tragic.

    but i'm the artsy type, and you know how girls like to go all romantic over the starving artists. ( i never told them i gulp down 4000 cal/day ) .

    maybe you look too ..gay? teehee .. j/k .

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    Oct 24, 2009 11:28 PM GMT

    It strengthens my confidence in the vibes I'm putting out that women respond to them. It's uplifting because if they like me, I know gay men who are sweet, demure, and sensible will too. The pigs and freaks shrink from me like devils in the presence of Michael. My love light doth shine too brightly for them.

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    Oct 24, 2009 11:34 PM GMT
    MAte consider yourself lucky, i get hit on by girls ALL the time, seriously like I go to restaurants bars and I always get numbers, however when it comes to guys NADDA and thats my target audience lol
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    Oct 25, 2009 12:04 AM GMT
    I assume that most people know, or assume that I am gay simply because I'm single and I live in NYC, I'm not wearing a wedding ring.

    But that doesn't stop the female gender from hitting on me. Some know I am gay but like to flirt. Some don't know and I tell them I am. The reaction of the ones who didn't know falls into two camps. Some are amused to find out and continue to flirt, and others are horrified and can be downright mean.

    But I kinda like the vibe when flirting with a girl. Its diferent and it is fun. Girls can be very classy when they flirt, just like some guys.

    I've been in gay bars and straight girls/woman ask me if I am gay.WTF is that? And as I said, this is in NYC!

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    Oct 25, 2009 12:59 AM GMT
    For me, it's way easier with the ladies icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 25, 2009 1:01 AM GMT


    "I get hit on all the time by guys but never a girl" AggieBoy there's a whole bunch of guys on here upset about just the opposite.

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    Oct 25, 2009 2:35 AM GMT
    AggieBoy saidBy girls that is....

    I get hit on all the time by guys but never a girl. No girl has asked for my number or hinted at me that she is interested. Do you reckon they sense gayness and can detect it or am I just totally obvious the way I look? Have any of you guys out there been hit on by sheilas, or is it just me?


    It's because women, despite them championing equal rights for women, take advantage of what they have already been taking advantage of. They've always been the ones being chased and reinforce that. If women were truly equal then they'd change their behavior and start hitting on men. I think it's truly appalling and hypocritical that they claim men dominate them when in fact they dominate men when it comes to flirting and courting rituals. I mean, where the fuck is there a "men in free before 11pm" on a Thursday night at ANY straight club in the universe? That's right. There isn't. Because women are fucking cunts. And I can say that here because they're BANNED from this site hahaahahahahahaahah.
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    Oct 25, 2009 1:22 PM GMT
    Yep, I am always gettin hit on by women as opposed to men. May be because I tend to hang out w/the breeders I work with...

    meninlove said

    "I get hit on all the time by guys but never a girl" AggieBoy there's a whole bunch of guys on here upset about just the opposite.

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    Oct 25, 2009 5:35 PM GMT
    as long as i can remember i was never a chick magnet. Guys would always try to get my attention though. So i have been even asking myself this question if a girl ever chased me or showed interest..would i have given in and would i be gay today?. So yes i am suggesting that it might have been possible that i choose my sexuality based on which sex that found me most attractive. This has made me even question the theory of being born gay vs. choosing to be gay.
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    Oct 25, 2009 5:39 PM GMT
    AggieBoy saidBy girls that is....
    I get hit on all the time by guys but never a girl. No girl has asked for my number or hinted at me that she is interested. Do you reckon they sense gayness and can detect it or am I just totally obvious the way I look? Have any of you guys out there been hit on by sheilas, or is it just me?

    I hope you will forgive me if I don't empathize OR sympathize with your problem there.
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    Oct 25, 2009 5:43 PM GMT
    I have the opposite effect, guys ignore walk off or refuse to talk to me unless i initiate the conversation. girls wont leave me the hell alone, I stopped going to straight bars becuase of this, i have no interest in fish tacos icon_confused.gif