I hate man like this

  • johnny9027

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    Oct 25, 2009 3:25 AM GMT
    Last week i was out of control in front of a bar.

    k, things is like this. There's a guy i met in some club and we talk a lot. It seems he is really interested in me. Then i went home start to chat with him on MSN. We have chat for a week, and during the week he is like sometimes enthusiastic sometimes busy...All these I just can understand..cuz he's a Grad student, and doin' a lot of work is normal. And he keep flirtng with me online that makes me think he must like me or something. So I start to date him out. On a Wednseday night, I happened to have some friends around me including him, and i hint him to go out but he had no response for my gesture. So i stand up and walk to him and whisper at his ear to ask him to go out just both of us. He finally came out with me, and in front of the bar's door he told me he is in a relationship and he said wecan just be friends...i was so pissed off that he didn't tell me this before even i ask him before if he is available, and he said he just broke up with his ex and he might be available.

    I really hate ppl with blur answer or who just wanna try to be nice and don't wanna tell the truth...
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    Oct 25, 2009 3:32 AM GMT
    Your anger is totally understandable, and I'll bet that he regrets what he did, not sure whether you should give him another chance cause he may pull something similar again, then you'd really be upset. Good luck !!!!
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    Oct 25, 2009 3:52 AM GMT
    Hey johnny, this looks like the answer. We bolded a few words...

    "and he said he just broke up with his ex and he might be available."

    ..when a guy says that, it's probably best to back away until he is available, but don't stay too long at the fair (as in waiting for that to happen).


    -us two
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    Oct 25, 2009 8:20 AM GMT
    youre 19....focus on SCHOOL.
    there will be plenty of time for drama later on.
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    Oct 25, 2009 1:36 PM GMT
    johnny9027 said...he told me he is in a relationship and he said wecan just be friends...before even i ask him before if he is available, and he said he just broke up with his ex and he might be available. ...

    With those bullshit answers, he is just not into YOU. Dont be offended. Nobody is into everybody. But he is just using this "ex" as a cover instead of saying he's not interested. Move on....and dont let him play anymore games with you.
  • cowboyathlete

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    Oct 25, 2009 6:04 PM GMT
    NEXT!
  • johnny9027

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    Oct 25, 2009 10:17 PM GMT
    gymworkout saidYeah sounds like he wasn't into you. I've have been faced with a lot of the same stuff with meeting guys the past two years. It's hard to understand especially when you get told by someone that they really like you...etc but don't have time for dating, relationships...and a week later you see their status change to being in a relationship or they tell you "sorry, can't do what we have been doing, I'm seeing someone". I just try to be optimistic but I know how hard it is to be faced with this type of person and to really truly understand why.



    In that case let's hook up together...lol
  • johnny9027

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    Oct 25, 2009 10:19 PM GMT
    sundayswim saidyoure 19....focus on SCHOOL.
    there will be plenty of time for drama later on.


    That's so true...but sometimes i just can't stand the loneliness..
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    Oct 25, 2009 11:21 PM GMT
    johnny9027 said
    sundayswim saidyoure 19....focus on SCHOOL.
    there will be plenty of time for drama later on.


    That's so true...but sometimes i just can't stand the loneliness..


    At 19 in many ways I wonted to find my man, and get on with the rest of my life. But......I had to wait until I was almost 30 until my first life partner come alone, and now I've been with him for 20 years.
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    Oct 26, 2009 12:08 AM GMT
    funny pictures