Cute VS HOT

  • daydreamer85

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    Oct 25, 2009 4:07 PM GMT
    More of than so I get described as cute and other times as hot which leaves me feeling rather akward... A friend of mine once said cute is = to ugly but fuckable...



    So what makes someone cute and what makes someone hot? Can a guy be both?
  • HndsmKansan

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    Oct 25, 2009 4:11 PM GMT
    We probably all have different descriptions for these two words.

    For me, "cute" is a description which doesn't necessarily convey sexual
    interest. Its a positive comment sometimes conveying innocence.
    "cute puppies" for instance.

    "Hot" is all about sexual interest. If someone is "hot", they are generally
    desired sexually.
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    Oct 25, 2009 4:17 PM GMT
    Well for me, Cute is a great start toward being Hot !!!! but I've certainly known a few hot guys that were anything but cute. I'll take the first option anyday !!!
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    Oct 25, 2009 5:26 PM GMT
    ha.what ever happen to handsome?, i personally agree that the word cute is used when the person is not sure if they would date you or consider you optional.....
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    Oct 25, 2009 6:32 PM GMT
    How many times will I have to post the examples? anyway!

    CUTE

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    HOT
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    Oct 25, 2009 9:54 PM GMT
    a cute man can be hot and a hot man can be cute... they are still attractive.
  • johnny9027

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    Oct 25, 2009 10:25 PM GMT
    to be honest, IF u guys have a long conversation, and u try to seduce him, and in his response, cute means he just tries to be nice and hot means he wants to fuck u....but if he pops out with " r so cute", things r different...anyways it depends on different contexts...
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    Oct 26, 2009 8:11 PM GMT
    For me:

    Cute= The things you do, how you dress on a day

    Hot=Totally fuckable
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    Oct 26, 2009 8:20 PM GMT
    I agree with Charlitos definition by pictures

    to me they almost have the same meaning
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    Oct 26, 2009 8:31 PM GMT
    When I tell someone that he is cute, I am telling him how much I like the way he looks and how much I like who they are. When I tell someone that he is hot, I'm saying that he is turning me on and that I am physically attracted to him.

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    Oct 26, 2009 8:32 PM GMT
    For me.... Hot is just purely sexual. Cute can be sexual, but often times isnt PURELY sexual.
  • Webster666

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    Oct 26, 2009 8:36 PM GMT
    Cute certainly doesn't mean ugly.
    I think of cute as a boyish look.
    Hot means sexy.
    So, you can be both cute and hot...
  • Timbales

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    Oct 26, 2009 8:40 PM GMT
    To me, hot doesn't necessarily mean good looking. Cute always means good looking to me.
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    Oct 26, 2009 8:49 PM GMT
    lilTanker saida cute man can be hot and a hot man can be cute... they are still attractive.
  • MSUBioNerd

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    Oct 26, 2009 8:56 PM GMT
    There are behavioral and personality components as well, and they are certainly not mutually exclusive. Cute often does not have sexual connotations; hot generally does. But if you're speaking purely on appearance, cute is primarily a function of the face; hot is primarily a function of the body.
  • duglyduckling

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    Oct 26, 2009 8:59 PM GMT
    Hot usually brings an instant attraction... sexual attraction...

    Cute usually brings nice guy to mind... not necessarily a sexual object...

    You'd never say that's a "hot" dog, it's always a "cute" dog... but you'd always say, that's a "hot" guy... never a "cute" guy...


    the saddest part is that I always get commented as cute than hot... but that's life... I'll take any compliment I guess...
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    Oct 26, 2009 9:02 PM GMT
    I have been labelled as both cute and hot and as described above it matches pretty well.
    Cute - Lets be friends with scope for sex
    Hot - Lets get it going.
  • Little_Spoon

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    Oct 26, 2009 9:05 PM GMT
    K thanks.
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    I think a serious face vs a fun loving face is the difference between cute and hot.

    Don't get me wrong, someone who is hot can have a fun smile. But it's a serious fun smile.

    I don't know how else to explain.
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    Oct 26, 2009 9:30 PM GMT

    My friend told me this one time

    Cute = long term relationships.
    Hot = short term relationships.
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    Oct 26, 2009 9:36 PM GMT
    I like cute, hot, and sexy all in one.
  • lostlogic

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    Oct 26, 2009 9:37 PM GMT
    I don't think because somebody is "hot" that it means they are fuckable (for a lack of better words). Some people think a lot of hollywood starlights are hot but many of them being a size zero, how can you fuck sticks?

    I like to think the term "hot" as not being a physical trait but instead a result from action or personality. For example a guy might be mediocre looking but if I was having major car troubles and the guy comes to help and fixes everything, I might find that to be pretty hot.

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    Oct 26, 2009 9:47 PM GMT
    I guess for me, cute and hot are sort of interchangable at different times. Cute and hot are equally attractive, but used in different contexts. Hot has more of a sensual or erotic quality to it, cute is more affection based. To use it in a sentence: I like cute guys and I like hot guys icon_smile.gif

    I also use handsome, especially for older guys which is a combination of the above two, but with the added admiration for being distinguished and being a beautiful, older man.

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    Oct 26, 2009 10:24 PM GMT
    Even a hot guy in the pics can be cute WHEN they smile. Everyone is cute when they smile because he's more appraochable. Hot is when a guy is posing with COME TO BED with me EYES.
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    Oct 26, 2009 11:04 PM GMT
    I have to agree with webster666-
    Cute is something I would call/(use to describe) a teenager/young adult/baby.
    Hot is well... a sexy/fuckable/irresistible adult male/female.
    Handsome is more of a nonsexual term for adult males.
  • dfrourke

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    Oct 26, 2009 11:57 PM GMT
    ugh...this has been talked about...listen and learn:



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