IDK whats wrong with me.

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    Oct 25, 2009 5:40 PM GMT
    I love muscle. but that is all i love about men. I'm fat and have always wanted muscle and just recently i have started to push myself to lose weight. im only attracted to muscular men i think i have a problem. i can recognize if a guy is hot but if he doesn't have a built body, nothing happens i just love muscle. so does anybody know what is wrong with me.
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    Oct 25, 2009 5:44 PM GMT
    You have a fetish.

    Next.
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    Oct 25, 2009 6:02 PM GMT
    ENVY....you want what you don't have.....icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 25, 2009 6:14 PM GMT
    Nothing's wrong with you. It's just the way you are "wired." Everybody has something. For me, it's "short." ...The man has to be short for me to have a lasting attraction to him. Or another way to put it...my attraction to a man is inversely proportional to his height. ... icon_lol.gif

    Good going with losing weight! You are on the right track there. Here is a site that I like a lot: http://whfoods.com/foodstoc.php

    Here's a page here on RJ that might be helpful....but you'd never find it on your own... icon_rolleyes.gif ... http://www.realjock.com/article/1164/
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    Oct 25, 2009 8:47 PM GMT

    Lose the weight, but don't just lose it, pack on muscle yourself. Otherwise you'll always be waiting for that muscular guy who can look past your lack of muscle.

    Other than that, don't take for granted that musclemen like being desired for their bodies only. The way you talk is very superficial. Superficiality is a VERY unattractive trait, one your muscle friends can afford to hang on to, but not you. I suggest you explore what you like about men besides muscle and become an amicable and interesting man. All men like that including muscular men. Fail to be a muscle snob, it is most problematic because as you know, they are judging you back.

    .............judgemental queens

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    Oct 25, 2009 9:12 PM GMT
    thanks, i lift 3 our of the 5 days i workout i want to see weight loss goals first before i see muscle growth. i also have a decent muscle structure thanks to football and every day activity. im not a fat blob. well im very fat but i have some muscles. my legs back and triceps are quite strong its just got to the point i want to throw up when ever i look in the mirror.
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    Oct 26, 2009 12:48 AM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidYou have a fetish.

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    I don't know what I'd do without you.
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    Oct 26, 2009 12:50 AM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidYou have a fetish.

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    LMAO. sorry I don't mean to be rude but thats funny. but i think that Caslon is right. There is nothing wrong with you.
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    Oct 26, 2009 1:01 AM GMT
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    MunchingZombie saidYou have a fetish.

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    I don't know what I'd do without you.

    personally I'd find masturbating a lot less interesting.
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    Oct 27, 2009 2:54 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    Funkapottomous said
    MunchingZombie saidYou have a fetish.

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    I don't know what I'd do without you.

    personally I'd find masturbating a lot less interesting.


    haha, no I already know all about BDSM without Zombie's help.
  • me35mtl

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    Oct 27, 2009 3:28 AM GMT
    it could be alot of things..

    it could be that you grew up with people telling you that muscular in shape is attractive. (Its like with young girls who read fashion magazines, they are brainwashed to believe in what is beautiful)

    It could be that you desire someone that you wish you could be or emulate.

    It could be that if you found a muscular guy who wanted you it would validate yourself as being worthy.

    Bottom line is you cant change in what you want in someone else no matter how shallow it maybe. Everyone has a type. Its human nature. You want the best. But i think you getting in shape is a good start. Its like me, i was 115 at 5ft7 and i always liked muscle guys. But i realized at one point that they dont want me. So i decided to go to the gym, got to 155 and things started to change ALOT. And i think guys that were muscular (not all) did finally take notice.

    So if you want to attract a type and you know the type they go for, you gotta start making changes. But You really should lose weight and be happy with yourself and for health reasons. You have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with anyone else..

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    Oct 29, 2009 4:23 AM GMT
    Yes i do have a fetish but i dont love or care for men i love muscle men women teens it doesnt matter i just love muscle
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    Oct 29, 2009 4:28 AM GMT
    musclematt46 saidYes i do have a fetish but i dont love or care for men i love muscle men women teens it doesnt matter i just love muscle


    don't they call that muscle warship or something??
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    Nov 02, 2009 10:17 PM GMT
    lenoxx said
    musclematt46 saidYes i do have a fetish but i dont love or care for men i love muscle men women teens it doesnt matter i just love muscle


    don't they call that muscle warship or something??
    BAAAAHAHAHA
    muscle warship.






    ^_^
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    Nov 02, 2009 10:26 PM GMT
    musclematt46 saidYes i do have a fetish but i dont love or care for men i love muscle men women teens it doesnt matter i just love muscle


    I just lost my lunch.
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    Nov 02, 2009 10:33 PM GMT
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    Nov 02, 2009 10:40 PM GMT
    Get your own muscles. Then others will envy you.
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    Nov 02, 2009 11:23 PM GMT
    I say wait until you meet one of those muscle guys that has a fetish for fat, and then enter into a mutual codependant relationship based on fetishisation.

    It just might be a long wait.
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    Nov 02, 2009 11:37 PM GMT
    Talk about loosing my lunch...

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    Nov 02, 2009 11:43 PM GMT
    What if he is muscular and narcissist? Muscular and a thug? Muscular and liar? Muscular and dumb? Have you ever had any kind of regular relationship with a muscular guy?

    That's why I think you have a problem. Where are the other criteria? Where is your experience?

    You need to have a relationship with a stupid muscular guy to realize you want MORE than muscle. You probably also want a guy who is nice to you, someone who is sexually compatible, and if you want a LTR, the list goes much further.

    I may like athletic guys, but I want many other things which are very important too. It's this awareness of how much I want that makes it easier for me to compromise, because I know how hard it is to have everything at the same time.

    But if you're stuck at home just watching porn, with not actual contact with real guys, you'll never know which fantasies are just fantasies and there's no way for reality to shape your taste (things you thought you'd like that you end up not liking and vice-versa).
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    Nov 03, 2009 12:15 AM GMT
    I had never made muscles a requirement in a guy, but then I started dating this classic rural farm boy, who worked out a great deal. Nuzzling his beautiful naked, rock-hard chest was heavenly, my first & only physical hunk experience.

    The first time I went to a gay club with him, where most of the guys took off their shirts on the dance floor, I actually got light-headed when we slow danced. He was a little taller than me, and I just closed my eyes and rested my head against his bare chest, my mind spinning & dizzy from the rush.

    We were together about 2 years (he wouldn't remain monogamous, kept playing around), but since that time I've not made muscles a priority, certainly not an obsession or fetish with me. Yet I can definitely see their attraction, and I wouldn't turn them down, that's for sure.

    Lots of us have narrow preferences in a guy, and I can think of worse ones than muscles. I wouldn't worry too much about it, as long as you don't let it blind you to other aspects about a man, both good & bad.
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    Nov 03, 2009 12:15 AM GMT
    I'm totally working on a play list inspired by this thread.
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