Blu and I have one of those rare relationships where it was damn near "love at first sight".
We were committed within 3 months. Less than a year into it, we were discussing marriage. It seemed foolish to outsiders, and neither of us were the type to move that fast.... but it just felt THAT right. We got lucky and have an alchemy together that just works perfectly.
2 years and 5 months into it, things are still getting better! Now there are things about him I wish were different, and things about me he would change, but we have accepted each other, flaws and all, and deeply believe that this can and will work out for a lifetime.
As far as the monogamy though.. that is overrated. We're getting married, but still like to keep an open relationship. It is possible, folks, to be non-monogamous and still deeply committed and in love with each other. It comes from an ultimate trust we have for each other.