Relationship Pet Peeves . . . what's yours?

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    Oct 30, 2009 10:56 AM GMT
    Ok guys, we all have little peeves and quirks about ourselves so I'm wondering what bothers you about your mate? My boyfriend has a habit of cancelling plans last minute which drives me crazy. But I still love him...icon_biggrin.gif
  • Laurence

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    Oct 30, 2009 11:10 AM GMT
    My partner talks constantly about his work. Sometimes I have to remind him that we're not all interested in human resources and employment contract law.

    Lozx
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    Oct 30, 2009 12:25 PM GMT
    Oh hell
    If something is not in plain view, he can’t find it.
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    Oct 30, 2009 4:03 PM GMT
    Mine forgets ... ALOT... and his commitment issues that urgh... I find myself putting up walls so I don't get hurt and I'm trying to fight that cause I have a feeling once they go up then THAT is when he will have made up his mind.
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    Oct 30, 2009 4:30 PM GMT
    While relationships are nice and all...I NEED MY SPACE! This may come off as extremely rude so please excuse it, but I don't need to see you every single night of the week. A little distance makes the heart grow fonder. Let me sleep in my own bed alone for a night geeze!
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    Oct 30, 2009 4:32 PM GMT
    He's a total asshole for an hour after waking up.
  • Timbales

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    Oct 30, 2009 4:42 PM GMT
    Being on time isn't important to him.
  • silverfox

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    Oct 30, 2009 4:45 PM GMT
    When you are sleeping together just about every night, when you are spending most of your time together....and he says....."Yeah, but we are NOT "boyfriends".


    LOL....it is more funny than a pet peeve. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 31, 2009 4:51 AM GMT
    Mine used to beg for me to sleep over and then pound his fists on my pillow to wake me up from snoring. Neither one of us slept then but I actually woke up to a regular job in the morning.

    He knew I snored so....icon_rolleyes.gif
  • drypin

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    Oct 31, 2009 8:31 AM GMT
    Mine goes to bed around 9pm on work nights.

    It's not actually fair to call that a pet peeve, but the fact that it keeps us from doing anything four nights a week but perhaps dining out used to wear on the nerves. After a while you find your own rhythm and at least he doesn't complain when I go out (I'm not even talking about bars and clubs; I just mean volleyball and dancing with the gay sports club and my sailing theory and piano lessons - no, not combined).
  • Timbales

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    Oct 31, 2009 3:09 PM GMT
    jprichva said
    TheGuyNextDoor saidI hate to be woken up just because the other is ready to start his day... Let me catch up with you when I wake up.. not when you want me to get up. Give me plenty of rest and I promise to wear your ass out later! Fuck with my sleep and don't bother asking for any.... Note it's after midnight now and I'm very awake. Early birds and night owls don't always mix unless they know how to keep busy as the other is asleep. ,,, and if you are going to wake me up,,, you better make it all worth it in a BIG way...icon_cool.gif

    Hm, I'm a serious early bird. This may not work out well. icon_sad.gif


    wake him with a blow job, he'll be fine