Oct 30, 2009 7:09 PM GMT
Alright, so I met this NICE guy a few weeks back. He's sweet, chill, masculine, has his shit together, smart, pretty much the whole package. Needless to say, after a while I hit infatuation when he [supposedly] showed sincere interest in me. We went to his house for the first date and made pasta together, we joked around, I got nervous and did this ridiculously clumsy act (keep in mind I haven't been on a real date in about a year or so), he smiled and it was all good. The same thing the second date, we watched college football, made burgers at my place, etc. But then yesterday we went out to eat, after that I walked him home but he surprised me with a second part to the date: chilling at a remote area he knows about and we just sat and talked, looked at the stars, just chilled, until he kissed me. i told him I’m interested in him, and he just kissed me. What bothered me is this: he said how cute i was, he pretty much managed to get me in some vulnerable state for some reason, but at times he acts shady with me. He’s a huge flirt, so I don’t know if he’s being sincere and I’m the one being a jerk, or if he is toying with me, and I’m heading towards one HUGE disappointment. Other times he’s extremely sweet and makes me feel weird inside (as dumb as it sounds). So…is this a waste of my time? Or should I just man up and ask him out?