Can you control your DESIRES?

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    Oct 31, 2009 5:23 PM GMT
    Do we really have the power to control our DESIRES? Or do we need to control them always? What about our fantasies? Do you ever get afraid of yourself when you are fantasize something? Trying to control them, and finding a logical explanation to yourself why do you have like that desires or fantasies?
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    Oct 31, 2009 5:35 PM GMT

    I can control myself, my actions so in turn, can control my desires. If I couldn't I'd be upstate on a laundry list of charges : murder, arson, incest, sodomy, armed robbery, assault and battery, terrorism.

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    Oct 31, 2009 6:05 PM GMT
    I'm going to assume the question refers to sexuality.

    The best thing about being in charge about your own desires is having the freedom to choose from all the best options instead of jumping at any/every opportunity.

    In fact "control" might not be the best word. I think having the power to "direct" your desires when, where, and with who you want is a better way to describe it.

    You gotta have courage, and balls to live out some of your fantasies.....as well as getting rid of your shyness (guilt). The best feeling is realizing you just lived out one of your fantasies and it was fun.

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    Oct 31, 2009 9:23 PM GMT
    No, I can't.
  • Timbales

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    Oct 31, 2009 9:32 PM GMT
    Some desires are easier to control than others. My fantasies don't scare me, but they are probably best left as a fantasy and not fulfilled.
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    Oct 31, 2009 10:30 PM GMT
    I can control some of my desires, like letching after hot co-worker, but its hard when you see someone on the street. Usually consider what kind of repercussion it can have and based on that I can control even the strongest of the fantasies from comin true.
  • OptimusMatt

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    Oct 31, 2009 10:36 PM GMT
    I keep a sheet of ice between myself and those I lust after...having said that, I very much enjoy teasing when I know I can get away with it, but uh...sometimes I get a little carried away and that makes for one steamy encounter.

    bad Matthew, BAD BAD BAD Matthew!!
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    Oct 31, 2009 10:43 PM GMT
    yup, self control isn't a difficult thing, unless you stick me around cake or pancakes.

    I'm a massive flirt though and have gotten my self into trouble a few times with that, but it's not an intentional thing I just do it.
  • jrs1

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    Oct 31, 2009 11:35 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]Soundwave said[/cite]
    oh, dear ... here he goes. oh, matty ...
  • Timbales

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    Oct 31, 2009 11:43 PM GMT
    jprichva saidI have extremely naughty fantasies and no desire to control them whatever.


    do tell
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    Oct 31, 2009 11:48 PM GMT
    I live in bumf*ck Virginia and am surrounded by hot hot str8 dudes, construction guys, good ole country boys....I am almost catatonic for having to sublimate my desires. SAVE ME!
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    Nov 01, 2009 3:41 PM GMT
    i should certainly hope that people don't suddenly start controlling themselves at this point: it's already a bad enough economy! i do have to pay my bills, you know?! learn sublimation some other time. my baby gotta eat!
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    Nov 01, 2009 4:14 PM GMT
    William BlakeThose who restrain desire, do so because theirs is week enough to be restrained