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So, there's this guy at my College, quarterback of the football team, great body, probably one of the nicest guys I (somewhat) know, but for all I know, he's straight. He's not the stereotypical cocky punkass, which makes him even more attractive.
Well he was in the training room icing his wrist and shoulder in the whirlpool, topless of course, and I had to get ice after practice. Since there were no trainers in there, I had no one to wrap the ice to my back and shoulders. So I asked all of the 3 guys that were in the whirlpool if they knew how to wrap. He immediately said that he did. So I stood there while he got close to me and basically hugging me, shirtless, while trying to wrap the plastic around my shoulders and torso. Then, when the last wrap went around my bicep, he squeezed my bicep to tear off the rest of the plastic.
I didn't show it, but inside I went all giddy and weak. Those gorgeous eyes looking at me while he did it made me even more weak.
I get this way every time I see him.

Has anyone ever had an experience like this? I wish this could happen every day.

Yes it did, I have this co-worker who is good looking but not the in the regular handsome hunk types. I have a crush on him for almost 2 years now . Can't say anything because if it doesn't workout it could get pretty awkward, esp since sometimes he would say stuff like I love dude, but quickly add "not in a bad way". Not sure what he means by bad way. Then he is always teasing and so do I too. I had reached a point where in meetings I used to wait for him to speak so that I can look at him directly rather than stealing glances. Tried to replicate his laughing too, I know it sounds pathetic. But now atleast I have thing under control. But everytime we joke around and make fun I still wish I could just let him know how I really feel about him.

nawww your infatuated nawwww *gooey eyes*

. . . oh didn't we all have that college roommate who made us melt? . . . god, I did . . . he was a phys. ed. major (or is it "major"), and I was so smitten it hurt . . . he was a natural . . . guileless and true . . . I'd still walk 1000 miles to touch the hem of his gym shorts . . .

noren said . . . oh didn't we all have that college roommate who made us melt? . . . god, I did . . .

Yes, I had one like that too. Strange story, actually.

This is off topic....but you mentioned butterflys and a young gay man (under 30) who supported equality on another board just died this week after getting cancer for the 8th time had a favorite quote about butterflys....so I just have to post it. He was a fighter.

'If you are not eating flowers and pooping butterflies - you need to be..." -Charles C. (aka Pumpkin)

we've all been there I think, former uni mate, would always be jelly on the inside when we'd brush up against each or be in tight quarters.... funny how you make sure situations would lend themselves to being physically close, I remember watching AFL on TV in the early am (time difference between NA and Australia) and waking up after falling asleep to find I had fallen over and had my head rested on his lap....

omg yes!!! My crush in high school was the football captain(I believe,he was the one that threw the ball and caught it lol). I remember one time he was taking off his sweater in the cafeteria and took off his shirt by mistake abs,shoulders,chest and a hot tattoo on his side. My friends always made fun of him because he had a lazy eyelid (not a lazy eye ahahaha,ughhh my friends the bitches!) I thought it was cute in a super weird way .

So yungstud4muscl,
We recommend whistling a happy tune and just keep on walking. If a guy wants you to notice he's interested, he'll let you know, all right. Be fun, have fun with this new friend and perhaps keep it at that for the time being.

(Yeah, we both know what it feels like....whoosh!)