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Would you date a guy that puts naked shots of himself on a profile website? Do you pass a negative or positive judgment on him?

heavens no

GaFuzz said
Would you date a guy that puts naked shots of himself on a profile website? Do you pass a negative or positive judgment on him?

If I was single again, and I was on adam4adam or one of those kinds of sites to begin with, no, I would not pass any judgement if a guy has naked pics on his profile.

I don't post nudes myself, anyone would have to ask for nudes before I'll send. But the male for is beautifully hot, so I'm not offended at all. LOL !!! It'd be fine with me.

Who? Where? I need to see first before making a decision

No judging, if he has put a naked picture, that means he is comfortable with himself. So in a way he is quite a confident person as far as his body is considered.

As long as they're tastefully done, I see no problem with it at all.

you mean full frontal/butt or almost? or erection? Most of what I see on RJ is stuff I see in the locker room at the gym.
Anyway my answer is sure I would.
In my photography class we are doing nudes right now and in my next drawing class we'll have nude models. I think the body is beautiful - doesn't even have to buff or even worked out. Its beautiful in almost all its stages, even very old.

If the pictures are tasteful, and the nude pics are a minority in ratio compared to face pics, etc. I have some revealing pics(not full frontal) on other web sites, I just like the idea of WYSIWYG.

Having said that, I hate when guys on other web sites ask if you have x pics, or want your address so they can send cock pics. If it is that important, just put the damn cock pics on your profile......grrrrrrr

GaFuzz said
Would you date a guy that puts naked shots of himself on a profile website? Do you pass a negative or positive judgment on him?

so GaFuzz - whats your take on this?

I don't put nude pics on profiles because of my professional life. It's ok for me to be out, but not completely, utterly out, so to speak. It does turn me off when someone has only body pics and no face pics. Part of what turns me on is a guy's face. That said, a nice body pic won't send me running from the room.

Shnextdoor saidNo judging, if he has put a naked picture, that means he is comfortable with himself. So in a way he is quite a confident person as far as his body is considered.

Good answer. However I would like to state that if someone doesn't post nude pics, it doesn't necessarily mean he's not confident about his body.

As others have said, it does show confidence, and on site like this, maybe a nice body. But if its his only pic, not a turn on at all.

Maybe Im one of the few, but size really does not matter to me at all. A handsome face, and a nice fit body. Anything after that is a gift.

Ive said to others, Ive got a cock and ass, you got a face?

jawrhed said

GaFuzz said
Would you date a guy that puts naked shots of himself on a profile website? Do you pass a negative or positive judgment on him?

so GaFuzz - whats your take on this?

I would consider dating someone if they did. Which is a change from the way I felt about it many years ago. These days I tend to see it as the guy being very confident in their sexuality and body, which is important to me. There is nothing worse than inhibited sex! Been there done that, not doing it again. That is not to misunderstood as a statement that someone who does not post nudes is inhibited. Many are just private. The Gent in streets, freak in the sheets types.

Now on the other hand, if I got the impression that he is one dimensional...meaning completely about the sex, Either from chatting, meeting in person or from what is written in the profile, then obviously it paints a broader picture that I would not be interested in. I guess it really all depends.

coolarmydude said

Shnextdoor saidNo judging, if he has put a naked picture, that means he is comfortable with himself. So in a way he is quite a confident person as far as his body is considered.

Good answer. However I would like to state that if someone doesn't post nude pics, it doesn't necessarily mean he's not confident about his body.

Well I should have added that they are comfortable showing their bodies publicly.
Also a number of actors and models pose naked, sometime fontrol too, does it mean that a lot of guys would never want to date them. So if they can and we don't judge them why should we judge someone because he is here.

all people with naked pics are stupid sluts. ALL of them.

WHAT?


I have no probs, though the number of full frontals that I have appreciated being sent can be counted on my thumbs. Tasteful ass pics, on the other hand, woof.

If we were single guys we'd have naked pics on here.

We'd be sending them to people we wanted to see leave RJ in a state of confounded horror.

Say.......

Yeah why not? I have yet to meet a guy that has not taken a naked picture of himself....uploading it to a website that is clearly geared towards meeting other men is hardly a BIG leap.

I think passing judgement on something so petty as that says alot about that person ;)

Sure why not. If it was tasteful and he looked hot. ;)

as long as his nude pics are attractive and tastefully done and worth posting (and not as ugly as mine would be ),....why not? eventually u r gonna wanna see the real thing anyway...

Flaunt it if you got it I guess.

I don't have any nude pix of myself but what I don't show publicy still leaves room for imagination and it makes you wonder what I have going on. LOL.

Sometimes just showing a little skin is waaaaaaaaay sexier then showing it all.

As for the OP's question I wouldn't judge and it wouldn't prohibit me from dating someone but as soon as we did start dating the pix would come down.

I'm surprised no one commented on the "after we are dating" thought?

jawrhed said - doesn't even have to buff or even worked out. Its beautiful in almost all its stages, even very old.

You mean there is a chance for me still

lilTanker saidheavens no

You wouldn't turn anything down. and I mean thing

I have no problem with nude photos online, *at all*.
I would also not have a problem casually dating someone who had them up...
...but that is assuming they also had face pics up too.

I find sexuality without shame to be liberating and inspiring. I have total respect for people who put it all out there, if you're single, have a racy side and have the courage of your conviction to own a online exhibitionistic streak (body & face pics), I find that super HOT! Just having body shots and no face feels like a lurking sex offender to me.

Would I feel comfortable with an LTR posting everything on a profile... I dunno. I look at my nude photos as a sort of advertising. If you want to hang out with me, hook up with me or date me... "this is what you get". And if you just want to see them, "there you go".

I love being single for the most part and I think indulging such streaks without having to consider another as a benefit (one which I'm sure is in many LTRs as well).

However, if I were to meet someone I enjoyed enough to consider being in an LTR with, I would take down the naked pics, that's just the way I am.

I don't mind a sexy nude shot here and there, but I don't need to see jizz oozing out of anyone's just fucked ass or any other depiction of your private sexual activities.

Thus, if he's showing the goods, hoorah.

If he's showing his skeet, not so much.